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    Lief posted an update 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    I cannot ask him to stop being sad. But the fact that he always is hurts me. I have a hard time speaking to him because I feel that no matter what everything is negative. Say if I were to get a new book, one that I would have been wanting for a while, and I share this happy new with him, I would only get a ’that’s nice, but no one would ever care enough to take me to a book store-” and it would go on from there. I am afraid to talk to him anymore…..but I am afraid to leave him…I am afraid to be alone, but I have also become his lifeline…..I just don’t know what to do.

    Mood : Frustrated
    • I would try to stick by him as best you can @terreno, hopefully he will open up to you Oliver and your relationship will become stronger, be honest with each other and see how things go, everything will work out for both of you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @terreno I think it would be good to look, on the side, for people/group-activities where you can be excited about things, and happy, around; and in general, to do nice things and take care of yourself. That will help you to reach a better position, one from where deciding what to do and how to act around this person, will be easier.