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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update After 2 years of devastation, I desperately want to give my family (me, OH and DD) something to look forward to – The Great American Roadtrip!I’m thinking probably the southern states: […] View

    Do have a great time travelling with your family @tdzangel, I’m sure you will see lots of amazing things in the US, go see all the wonderful sights and make fantastic memories :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update I didn’t sign up for this life. View

    Please don’t let your struggles get you down @tdzangel, you will make it through the tough moments and come out so much stronger, things will be OK and everything will go your way, try to be upbeat and focus on all the things that give you brightness, hope and purpose, you are a fantastic individual who deserves all the best, show everyone how…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Haven’t been on here in a while… \is there a problem with Vent/Listen feature? View

    Hope you are OK @tdzangel, I would talk to the admin and see if anything can be done to fix the chat :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update When it feels like your heart has been bled. And there’s no more left to be said. Trying not to fall.There are ten million souls who are feeling like you. And ten million more who are […] View

    You will find your voice and you will find what you are looking for @tdzangel, remember to hold your head up high and focus on getting yourself to a good place in life, remember to hold your head up high and don’t let anything stand in your way, believe in yourself and keep going forward, you will make it and come out so much stronger, I know you…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Genuinely disappointed at some of the advice on this site.. Encouraging people to lie and be dishonest, not looking at both sides of a situation before jumping in with half formed […] View

    @tdzangel I see :)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Genuinely disappointed at some of the advice on this site.. Encouraging people to lie and be dishonest, not looking at both sides of a situation before jumping in with half formed […] View

    @tdzangel What was the specific situation, out of curiosity?

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Genuinely disappointed at some of the advice on this site.. Encouraging people to lie and be dishonest, not looking at both sides of a situation before jumping in with half formed […] View

    We should all try our best to help and be there for each other on Blah @tdzangel, as long as we can all support others with difficult issues and help them come out better in the end whilst being as honest and as open as possible, I’m sure things will work out, hope you are doing fabulously, I’m always here if you need to chat about absolutely…[Read more]

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    SJayJay posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Fed up, pissed off and completely disillusioned by the selfishness of people! Makes me wonder why the hell I bother trying to help those in need… Oh yeah, cos I’m not a totally self […] View

    Just keep doing what you do. At least there are still selfless people like you in this world @tdzangel :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Fed up, pissed off and completely disillusioned by the selfishness of people! Makes me wonder why the hell I bother trying to help those in need… Oh yeah, cos I’m not a totally self […] View

    Don’t let people be mean to you @tdzangel, you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect by others, anyone who is horrible to you isn’t worth it, focus on being there for people who will show you appreciation and care, try to stay upbeat and keep smiling, you can do it, never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Getting really p**sed off with Storm Desmond now… wouldn’t care if it was a real storm, but it’s not, it’s just freaking windy and cold. Wish it would just bugger off! View

    Hopefully this storm will pass @tdzangel, I’m in the UK, but it’s pretty quiet outside where I live :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update ”Sometimes a positive mental attitude just doesn’t quite cut it and a F U attitude is the only way to get thru the day!” – anonymous genius! View

    Do try to make it through each day with a smile and an upbeat outlook if you can @tdzangel, everyone deserves to face the world with happiness and determination, you do too, keep being the awesome individual that you are, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Some of the complete and utter bullshit that people come up with on vent/listen is unreal! If you’re gonna tell lies, make sure you’re good at it, or at least remember what you said 2 […] View

    Hopefully people are telling the truth when they chat @tdzangel, it would be a shame if they were not, I would just do your best to help others, keep being there for those in need, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Today’s so far going better than yesterday. Still a bit anti-social, but I’m getting back into the swing of things. How’s everyone else doing? :) View

    @tdzangel
    Thanks, I hope you continue to also! :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update what do you do when everything that makes you down and hurts like hell is everything you love? Hope love is enough to hold on to til you can fly together – me View

    Please don’t let anything get you down @tdzangel, focus on the things that make you truly happy and that make you truly smile, everything will work out for you, you are such an incredible person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, great things will happen to you and things will be OK, be positive, hold your head up high and keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update What a hellish two weeks… please let there be a turn around now before I melt down completely. I’m already running on fumes :/ View

    I’m sure things will be OK @tdzangel, try to be positive, keep smiling and hold your head up high, try to get as much rest and relaxation as you can, I’m sure everything will work out, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: tdzangel posted an update Golden rule.. Only put as much effort into helping someone as they put into helping themselves. View

    Do continue to help as many people as you can @tdzangel, you are truly awesome :) (hugs)