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    Oli posted a new activity comment 19 hours, 48 minutes ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel not ok right now… im really tired… mentally… its official, im on the autism spectrum… and i go through things that it’s just too much for me… i feel kind of sick right now… […] View

    Try to relax and don’t let pain get you down @spectrolite7, focus on making yourself feel positive, upbeat and wonderful, I agree with @tanisha, try to find a support group or club where you can meet others who are similar so you can share experiences, surround yourself with things that calm your mind and put you at ease, remember you are a…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 15 hours ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Don’t just hang with people like you. Surround yourself with people who push you and inspire you. It’ll change your life.https://youtu.be/xLhJIFC8xkY View

    We should always surround ourselves with people who give us hope and happiness @tanisha, it’s great to see you inspire and help others with wise advice Steve, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 days, 15 hours ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update There is a strength that can knock the other guy down, but there is a greater strength that gets you up after being knocked down. View

    Keep inspiring others with wise and helpful advice @tanisha, hope you are doing great Steve, I’m always here for you :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update It’s a new dawn It’s a new day. It’s a new life for me. View

    It’s great to see you happy and positive @tanisha, stay upbeat and keep going, you can do it Steve, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Tired. Home. Unpack tomorrow. View

    Hope you enjoy your new home @tanisha, I’m always here if you need to chat Steve, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Sun is setting with a clear sky and a warm breeze. End of a long day. New chapter ahead. View

    Hope the new chapter is filled with brightness and positivity @tanisha, stay upbeat and keep going forward Steve, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Theodore posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Sun is setting with a clear sky and a warm breeze. End of a long day. New chapter ahead. View

    @tanisha that’s the spirit :)

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    Silent Radiance replied to the forum topic Creation in the group Group logoPoetry 4 weeks ago

    @tanisha They’re definitely similar, I’m willing to incline that much of it also has to do with man’s perceptions. There are many commonly occurring themes associated with creation (whether by a creator or […]

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    Theodore posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update I know what I need is some stability and emotional control/consistency in my life, whether it’s through people, activities, goals, perspective, etc. I don’t know where to look, what to […] View

    @natalie-geroux @oliver @tanisha thanks you guys for all the suggestions, It’s hard to see what I have when I’m down, I try to do a lot of these things and it really does make a difference, I just need to make sure I don’t forget about them when I need to focus on them the most

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Honestly just good job making me cry and ruining the one single place I have to vent. View

    @tanisha also that’s a coward of you to delete your comments etc stick behind your words both the good and bad. You have no courage. You’re on blah. People are hurting and sometimes take your hsrsh tone over to Reddit

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Honestly just good job making me cry and ruining the one single place I have to vent. View

    @tanisha what upset me is exactly that. If you apologised for your behaviour would be fine (like you did today). We sometimes make mistakes and that would be ok. But deleting comments? I won’t waist anymore time on this honestly. I just hope you are more considerate of others. Because I’m already done with this topic.

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting. View

    @tanisha copying&pasting an exact comment is quite just.. unecessary I would say (sorry for typos) . You come out with the wrong image. You leave the original person who commented quite confused, just like I was aswell. But to answer to your doubt: The reason oliver leaves similar messages is that sometimes 1) people don’t reply him back with…[Read more]

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    Theodore posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update Do you ever wonder whether things would feel better if your quotes to live by were different? For example, one of mine that is unfavored by a lot of people is the idea that not […] View

    @tanisha Yeah it’s interesting looking at different perspectives. To me, most things at some point seem to fade away with time, because a different event or action could lead to the same thing, whether it be a day, 10 years, or a couple hundred years. Kind of like how animals of completely different background/time/region etc. evolve similarly…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting. View

    @tanisha I forgot of a sidenote: if you want more positive people to help you, then go find others to help. No one is forcing you to talk to Oliver. He takes time of his day to reply and leave kind messages that don’t hurt anyone. However you use your words as you please without thinking twice. Once again, think what blahtherapy truly is.

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting. View

    @tanisha I suggest you to understand the conncept of the blah community. There have been things going on that I haven’t liked, but what happened on this post is absolutly ridiculous and childish. Oliver genuinly helped me ALOT during years. For you might be a chance to be a smartass with your sarcasm, but Oliver helped alot of people before you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting. View

    Well I am on this site to help others and make them smile @tanisha, I reply to just about everyone because I truly want to support the members of the Blah community, users do PM me, they can always message me as my inbox will be open to anyone if they ever need to talk :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update And I swear to god if I get any hurtfull comments like it has been happening on my posts when I’m this hurt, it won’t end up well. Save your sassy side somewhere else. I’m hurting. View

    Why has my post been copied and pasted here @marikofujimoto and @tanisha, just curious :)

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    Theodore posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update What do you guys do to stay optimistic? What are the things that make you the happiest and keep you going when you’re struggling? View

    @tanisha I’m actually glad you mentioned that, I used to go outside and lay down and watch the stars all the time at night but haven’t lately. I gotta do that. Routine break is definitely good too, I hate getting stuck in a cycle

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Why THE FUCK is Portugal so hot?? is like a vulcano got in action… 29 degrees??? is just may! I hate the hot weather so much, my skin just explodes and I feel sick :( View

    @tanisha no, close to a beach and is still boiling hot. Is typical of Portugal but my body can’t handle this heat

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: lullie posted an update I woke up a feel minutes ago and I think I’ve never felt so scared after a dream. I remember being at church and had the feeling of being in a ship about to sink (exactly like the Titanic […] View

    @tanisha when someone is conscious while dreaming (or having a nightmare) is called a lucid dream. I have those frequently. What she described here is more similar to sleep paralysis since she couldn’t consciouscly make a decision to move. In lucid dreaming we can make a choise of actually control the dream and to even wake up. Takes practice but…[Read more]

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