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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Steve J posted an update Goodness, been a long time. And all the spammers are back, too bad. View

    It’s great to see you back on BT @tanisha, hope you are OK and things are going well in your life, the spammers are here and it’s so very annoying, frustrating and sad, the spam is ruining and destroying this beautiful community, hopefully it will be deleted permanently, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: hmmmm posted an update Hot summer. Cool water. Blue skies. Brown skin. View

    Hope you are OK and having a fantastic day @tanisha, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Steve posted an update A new year is upon us. Time to stop and look up. Are you far off the path? Stop until you get your bearings, then go for the path. Once you are back on the right direction, take a breather, […] View

    Hope you have a wonderful new year @tanisha, keep spreading compassion, joy and love on BT and always be the fantastic person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Steve posted an update I know this time of the year can be hard. I just encourage you to look for the joy, look for the hope. You never know what could be just around the corner, that may be life-changing for the […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @tanisha, it’s good to see you spreading hope and brightness despite the pain of losing someone, always be the compassionate and kind person that you are, stay upbeat and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: No posted an update End of life care is hard. So many people end up with regrets that they could have done some things differently. Live differently now, so when you reflect back on your life, you have no regrets. View

    Taking care of someone when they are ill and approaching the end of their life is such a hard but humbling thing to do @tanisha, we all have to make our lives happy and create wonderful memories that we and others can cherish and hold onto, keep inspiring others and the BT community with your wise advice, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Time to change my name back to Steve posted an update Find the joy in the journey. Find your oasis, and take breaks when you need them. Take time to connect with one or two people who can become, or are, lifetime friends. View

    Indeed @tanisha, we should all find the things that bring us happiness and connect with those people who will become friends forever, keep inspiring others with wise advice, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update I don’t know where I am going…please be strong…please. View

    @tanisha Ill try to do that to boost myself up..thank u! It is defin. going to take a lot of time but im gonna try my best, thank u!
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.” -La La Land View

    @tanisha True definitely we never know if our goals are actually worth it towards the end for sure, and I agree everyone is different towards how they got to their dreams of their life in their own ways. My strengths? See, that’s where Im so down. I think so low of myself that I don’t think highly at all of myself with regards to me being…[Read more]
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.” -La La Land View

    @tanisha I sure hope so…I really do. Confused in life so far, and I somewhat had the same reaction to the movie. The movie was good to me mostly in the dialogue of the whole “failing to make it in life part” since I related to the characters in the fact that dreams are so hard to fulfill in life, but that it “might” be possible somehow if…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update A sleepy day today. I enlightened a (venting) guy about Canada: the husky – ptarmigan ratio (1:15), the truth about igloos and snow (48-49 weeks/year), the hiding in the darkness from the […] View

    Glad you managed to help and support someone on BT @tanisha, try to rest if you can and take care of yourself, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Single… forever. That’s just the way it is. View

    @tanisha True, forever is a looong time, and remembering to stick to the “today” of now is impt. My negative thoughts keep coming up through randomly sometimes in my head plus insecurities…it’s like I’m never happy with me, but you’re right also in that we never know what the future’s gonna be. That’s something I always try to keep in…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update Hard to believe July is half over. Don’t let time pass you by. Get out and accomplish what you want to accomplish. Today is the day, not tomorrow. Go for it. View

    We should all follow our dreams and make great things happen @tanisha, keep inspiring others with wise advice, I’m always here for you :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update Hard to believe July is half over. Don’t let time pass you by. Get out and accomplish what you want to accomplish. Today is the day, not tomorrow. Go for it. View

    @tanisha very well said
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update Good workout tonight. I should sleep well. For those who gave insomnia and sleepless nights, try a good bout of exercise before hitting the pillow. View

    It’s wonderful to see you keeping fit and healthy @tanisha, do get a good rest and sleep well, I’m always here for you :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Ca Noo posted an update Calm lake. Canoe. Loons. Solitude. View

    It’s great to see you calm and happy @tanisha, hope you are having a fabulous day Steve, I’m always here for you :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Pear Bum posted an update Been thinking about change lately. There are so many prisons we live in. I think we would be surprised how many are locked from the inside, but there is something within us that refuses […] View

    We should all try to make positive changes in our lives so we can make it better for the future that lies ahead @tanisha, keep inspiring and helping others with wise advice Steve, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Pear Bum posted an update I think one of the most important things for mental health, is to know myself, and to accept myself as I am known. It is even better if I like myself! View

    Do be kind too and love yourself @tanisha, embrace every part of yourself inside and out Steve, it’s good to see you determined to be happy, smile and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update @brookejordanxo It has been over 3 years since you gave the world the finger – still feeling that way or has life moved on? You have a great smile! View

    Hope you are both doing great @brookejordanxo and @tanisha, smile and don’t let your struggles get you down Brooke, remember you are awesome and wonderful inside and out, keep fighting and never give up, you can do it Brooke, I’m always here if either of you need to chat, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Listening to the rain fall steadily. Something comforting about the water cycle in action. The world is turning, doing it’s thing. I need to keep doing my thing. View

    I’m sure listening to the rain is soothing and relaxing @tanisha, keep doing what makes you smile and feel positive Steve, stay wonderful and keep going forward, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, be strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Bears all things, believes all things, endures all things, hopes all things. View

    Keep going and believe all things will go amazingly for you @tanisha, remember to stay upbeat and never give up Steve, smile and always be wonderful, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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