I have been through the self-harm, the depression, and the extreme ability of hiding all that. I have had one relationship, but it's a long one so I've seen a lot. I have dealt with abuse and alcoholism in the family (they were tied together at the time), and I have prevailed. I have conquered every situation and I now have 17 years of experience in conquering these things. I'm here to help, but I may need some help myself.