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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update tired this weekend… I feel kind of weird. I’ve been drained by certain things that happened, I guess I need a break to recharge myself… I feel like the joy got sucked out of me for a […] View

    Do try to rest and find time to recharge yourself @spectrolite7, focus on all the things that bring you brightness and try to be as positive as you can, smile and know so many special moments lie ahead for you, everything will work out, believe in yourself and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel at times like I lost myself or am not centered but it’s like I don’t know how to deal with that… it’s like, i can try to be at peace and enjoy my time with life but still […] View

    Try to stay connected and open to all the things that bring you hope, joy and positivity @spectrolite7, you are a wonderful person who deserves happiness to surround you, relax and try to be upbeat, you will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Theodore posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel at times like I lost myself or am not centered but it’s like I don’t know how to deal with that… it’s like, i can try to be at peace and enjoy my time with life but still […] View

    @spectrolite7 I’m sorry you’re dealing with that, it can be really off putting when you feel a certain way and can’t pinpoint why. I’m not sure what you’re feeling, but I will be on tomorrow if you want to talk and I enjoy listening. Disconnecting from people can be from a range of things, from feeling down to finding yourself and discovering…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update its been a while since i’ve been here, things have gotten better but there are still some difficulties… my brother is like a narcissist and he’s been causing trouble in the home for a […] View

    @spectrolite7 that’s a very smart decision. Someone should help him, but is not your job you know. I really hope you can find a bit more peace , you deserve it.
    Also if you need to talk you can PM me

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update its been a while since i’ve been here, things have gotten better but there are still some difficulties… my brother is like a narcissist and he’s been causing trouble in the home for a […] View

    Glad some things have gotten better for you @spectrolite7, do stay positive and focus on all the wonderful moments that lie ahead for you, I’m sure your brother will get the right help and support, do your best to be there for him as much as you can, smile and know your future is so bright, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my life has been kind of hard.. i hope it gets better. View

    Don’t let life’s struggles get you down @spectrolite7, things may seem difficult but they will change for the better, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who will overcome, focus on letting brightness and hope into your life, everything will be OK, show the world how truly special you are, remember to always believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update Going to drink the pain away later if i can get myself out of bed… im going to drink it all away. I just suck as a person, im not good enough for the world… im failing at life.. i […] View

    //ive had it with the pain and frustration// @spectrolite7
    ~ Why do the feeling ’pain’ and ’frustration’ exist in the first place? Might you be aware of that?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update Going to drink the pain away later if i can get myself out of bed… im going to drink it all away. I just suck as a person, im not good enough for the world… im failing at life.. i […] View

    @spectrolite7 You do with what you have, college is good, prestigious or not, work at the pace you can and try to not compare yourself to abstract expectations, sounds like you are in a place where you have what you need to go on studying and be able to do something different eventually, but using alcohol regularly to curb your how you feel…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update Going to drink the pain away later if i can get myself out of bed… im going to drink it all away. I just suck as a person, im not good enough for the world… im failing at life.. i […] View

    Please don’t do anything bad to yourself @spectrolite7, things may seem hard but they will change for the better, do your best to focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you will beat all your struggles, remember you are a fighter and survivor who will overcome,…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update The fact i do work some times isnt enough… it’s not enough to afford my own place… all this just makes me so nauseous im going to end it… my mind is fucked up… im mentally destroyed […] View

    @spectrolite7
    (Other members will take care of the ‘being sensitive’ and ‘sympathizing’ and ‘being understanding’ part, i’m just going to discuss about what you could actually do to resolve your situation.)
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    // i just feel like ending my life//
    > Since you feel like taking extreme measures to solve your problems. Why not, pack your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel frustrated… i don’t want to live the way i do… but i cant really help my circumstances…. i feel like running away or going to another country or something. I’m waiting on help […] View

    Don’t let life’s struggles get you down @spectrolite7, I’m sure you will find the right support and help to make things better for yourself, everything will go your way and you will do great things, you will win all your battles and come out so much stronger, amazing moments are ahead for you, smile and don’t give up, you can do it, feel free…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i dont know why i hardly ever cut myself even if I get the urges… i think i am just so fed up and tired of everything that i cant even pick up a razor to do it even though the urge is […] View

    Please don’t harm yourself @spectrolite7, stay focused on making each day bright and beautiful, do things that make you feel brilliant and fantastic, smile and don’t let anything stand in your way, remember to keep fighting and know you are a survivor, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i’ve had it with people that always seem to be using me… View

    Don’t let anyone use you or be horrible to you @spectrolite7, you are a fantastic person who deserves all the happiness, joy and love in the world, surround yourself with compassion, support and empathy, remember to stay positive, you will meet so many amazing souls who will stick by you, remember to hold your head up high and look towards your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i want to be in a relationship View

    You will someone who will be a perfect partner @spectrolite7, everyone deserves true happiness and love in their lives, you do too, try to meet as many new people as you can, build new bonds of friendship, remember to smile and let your bright personality shine through, you can do it, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too, feel free to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my life has been going real bad lately… and that friend that i thought i could trust, well… he really fucked up. View

    Things may seem hard but they will change for the better @spectrolite7, remember to smile and surround yourself with people who are compassionate, everything will be OK and things will work out, hopefully your friend will try to patch things up with you, do your best to stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update been feeling nauseous and have so much rage inside me. View

    Don’t let sadness and anger get you down @spectrolite7, do your best to relax and focus on all the upbeat, happy and positive things that are happening in the world, you are a special person who deserves to smile and feel incredible, you will be OK, hold your head up high and take care of yourself, go forward with confidence and never give up,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update the guy i used to call my friend is a serious psycho… he’s is loosing it.. View

    Don’t let this guy hurt or abuse you @spectrolite7, make sure you are safe and no harm comes to you, it would be best for him to stay away and for you to look after yourself, try to live your life in a good way and stay focused on positive things, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I hope I find an asexual person like me to be in a relationship with. I feel so sad, I’m worried about life and the things that can happen that can be heartbreaking. Life is […] View

    You will find someone who will respect you and treat you with love, care and dignity @spectrolite7, anyone who hurts you or does something bad isn’t worth it, you are a good person who will find your knight in shining armour, try to stay positive and remember amazing things will happen, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my friend is a pervert… :( he crossed my boundaries. I’m ok, I can move on… I’m not that sure about being around him anymore. View

    @spectrolite7 It would probably be best to not sleep there again, it’s not safe and he might not stop the next time, you can think about what you want to do with him later but for now he should become someone you see only in public places.

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update my friend is a pervert… :( he crossed my boundaries. I’m ok, I can move on… I’m not that sure about being around him anymore. View

    //If he makes a move on me again tonight, I will tell him straight to stop//
    > If he doesn’t stop, what will you do? (I suggest attacking in his male part).
    @spectrolite7.
    // and to find himself a girlfriend//
    > Please try not to suggest that, he may only end up ruining another girl’s life…
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    //and I thought we were friends…[Read more]

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