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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 7 hours ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update if i dont reply, it’s because i’m just overwhelmed and have too much on my mind and energy… i really thank everyone that helps me with their comments. View

    Try to relax and know the BT community will always be here for you and so will I @spectrolite7, smile because you are amazing and awesome in every single way, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days, 9 hours ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update If I hate myself, does that mean the world hates me too? if someone can love me even if I hate myself, that means that person is an angel. View

    Please don’t hate yourself @spectrolite7, you are such a lovely, special and amazing person who deserves to feel positive and happy, be kind to yourself and surround yourself with compassion, brightness and joy, hold your head up high and always smile, you can do it, never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 days, 8 hours ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I dislike that i even speak about the dark emotions because i hope im not creating more of it… My intention is to release it out of my system…. And to find a solution, its not to […] View

    Don’t let the pain and sadness get you down @spectrolite7, do your best to focus on all the things that bring you hope, happiness and joy, like @marikofujimoto says, try to find activities to do that make you smile, everything will be OK, stay upbeat and go forward with a sense of confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i’m perfect the way I am… it helps for me to be simple because once I try to do more, I can hear all the criticisms in my mind about how i’m not good enough and that’s not healthy so, […] View

    It’s wonderful to see you determined to stay positive @spectrolite7, keep smiling and always be as happy as you can, go forward and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update life is awesome and I make good choices every day to live in balance with love. View

    It’s good to see you positive and upbeat @spectrolite7, keep making choices that benefit you and bring you hope, you can do it, smile and go forward with happiness, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update the inner work is the most important work… View

    It’s good to see you determined to better yourself and be happier @spectrolite7, stay wonderful and always brightly smile, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update life is good and I’m grateful to be alive because I know there are so many beautiful experiences to be experienced. View

    It’s great to see you positive, happy and upbeat @spectrolite7, keep spreading brightness and hope, always be the fantastic human-being that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    thefrenchdutchman posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I’m a natural song writer too.. The songs flow to me when I play guitar… I can play any instruments and arrange a whole song. It just all flows together. I can feel it when I […] View

    @Spectrolite7 Try making something out of it! I can’t make a song, but i can write lyrics. I can connect words and write a whole bullshit story, or an actual true story, or an invented story. etc. Keep it up! :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I’m a natural song writer too.. The songs flow to me when I play guitar… I can play any instruments and arrange a whole song. It just all flows together. I can feel it when I […] View

    I’m sure you will write songs that are soulful and insightful @spectrolite7, let your bright voice shine and always produce amazing things, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I’m a natural composer on guitar… I am one with my guitar, the universe constantly gifts me with music and the art of composing. I’m glad to have this gift. I feel so connected.. […] View

    Keep playing the guitar, spread and improve your talent as much as you can @spectrolite7, it’s wonderful to see you happy on a musical instrument, stay upbeat and continue to shine, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    silveRose143 posted a new activity comment 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: silveRose143 posted an update Update: I am now 37 weeks and I’m absolutely terrified. New and old symptoms are coming back but harder than ever and I’m very scared. I’m in a lot of pain physically, emotionally, […] View

    @Spectrolite7 Part of the pain is from my pregnancy. Most of it is just that I feel tired of living. Of hearing and seeing my family struggle. Of making people feel bad because of me. Im just so tired.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update What people think is irrelevant unless it’s something that helps you to feel better… anything negative doesn’t matter because it can break us down and we dont want to be broken down, […] View

    It’s great to see you inspiring others with wise and insightful advice @spectrolite7, you are correct, we should all love, help and support each other, keep being the bright sunshine that you are on the BT community, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel so fucked up… theres too much to fix… if i dont fix this the numbness will remain. View

    You will beat all your struggles and come out so much stronger @spectrolite7, remember to hold your head up high and stay focused on the bright future that lies ahead for you, everything will be OK, so much happiness and hope will come into your life, be kind to yourself and never give up, you can do it, go forward with confidence and believe in…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update im kind of unhappy with myself… i know i’m a decent person but feel like im not good enough or something.. View

    You are worth it, you do matter and you are good enough @spectrolite7, please be kind to yourself and remember to always smile brightly, hold your head up high and don’t let anything bring you down, you will be OK, believe in yourself and keep going forward with happiness, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i sort of feel kind of numb and unable to let out tears from the pain I feel at times and this makes me feel like I have to make myself bleed but I don’t think it’s right that i think […] View

    Try to stay positive and keep making things better for you @spectrolite7, get your thoughts and feelings out in a way that benefits you, I want to see you truly smiling and living a life that makes you happy, relax and always be wonderful to yourself, go forward with a sense of confidence and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel like when i’m around other people, i can’t really be myself. I get absorbed by their energy… I really require my own space in order to be myself and be comfortable. I think […] View

    @spectrolite7 i couldn’t agree with someone as much as i do you… That’s exactly how i feel. People tell me to go out more but i ”feel” too much of others dramas it’s just a lot. That’s why i just prefer my solitude.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i’m going with the flow in the right direction to see my dreams come true… i trust where my heart takes me… View

    Keep going in the right direction and never give up @spectrolite7, you will achieve all your dreams and be successful, stay upbeat and always smile, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I had a dream that I was skateboarding and I was manualing and doing many interesting tricks… View

    It’s nice to see you having positive dreams @spectrolite7, keep being amazing and fantastic, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i feel like when i’m around other people, i can’t really be myself. I get absorbed by their energy… I really require my own space in order to be myself and be comfortable. I think […] View

    Do what makes you comfortable and happy in your own way @spectrolite7, surround yourself with all the things that bring a smile to your face, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update I feel better than yesterday… View

    Glad to see you are feeling better @spectrolite7, keep smiling and always be the fantastic human-being that you are, remember you are awesome in every single way, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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