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    Spectrolite7 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    there’s this boy i know that keeps wanting my attention romantically but he is younger than me and isn’t financially stable… and i tend to pay for him a lot.. he is draining me too… he asked me if i miss him, i said yes but that wasn’t the truth… i don’t miss him because he’s usually always using me… he has gotten on my nerves… and it’s so sad because i’m too kind and too caring and i don’t even think he’s worth it. He need to test the waters with younger females, maybe then he’ll get the message because i’m way older, wiser, have more money but still trying to get somewhere in life and he’s a total drain with his addiction… i just will like to be done with him.. unless he cleans up his act…

    • Don’t let this guy use you or be horrible towards you @spectrolite7, you are a special human-being who deserves to be loved by others, surround yourself with compassion and meet people who will show you care, respect and dignity, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • thanks..

    • @spectrolite7 have you thought that’s what he wants you to think? Cause to me seems like he’s using manipulation (emotional one) for you to keep feeding his addiction. Till now he’s abusing you financially, I believe if he truly cared about you he would pay for his things. You deserve someone better. Also sometimes kindness doesn’t fix the problem sadly :/ Specially with people like this. But if you really can’t help it, be kind but at least straight forward, something like ”look I love your company but I can not afford feeding your addiction, no way I have money for this”

    • yes i thought about it because the romantic stuff feels so fake to me. I can’t believe he even would do that. I have tried to be more and more straightforward with him.. I kind of feel like he isn’t even worth it… I feel like I’ll probably tell him that we’re not on the same level and he seems very selfish and lies too much for me. I hate having to say such hurtful things but he has hurt me first by doing what he did.