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    Travelling Girl posted an update 3 months ago

    I feel like I only come on here to vent and I HATE to sound like I am complaining….but I guess that’s what I’m doing. I feel such dread everyday when I wake up. I’m so alone. I’m so afraid that my life is going nowhere and I am just going to fail no matter what I do. I am so sick of being anxious, afraid, depressed, and worried. I am SO…[Read more]

    Mood : Drained
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Please don’t let depression, pain and sadness get you down @simplegirl, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who truly deserves all the love, happiness and joy in the world, everything will be OK, focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally and emotionally, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives…[Read more]

    • You’re never truly alone, there’s always someone there for you. It’s evident from your post that you’re bright, willing to reach out, and open.. Life is difficult at times but there are people who have experiencing similar difficulties or are going through the same issues, lean on them for support. We’d love to help you.

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    Wow, I am shocked. I haven’t been on here in 7 months. Truly amazed. This is a place where I share my feelings. I RARELY ever say ANY of this to anyone. I just really need to talk and feel safe here. Well, wow. 7 months. To start, I finished University! I now have a bachelor’s degree! I moved as well. I was able to bring my dog with me which has…[Read more]

    Mood : Shocked
    • It’s great to see you feeling happy and positive within yourself @simplegirl, it’s fantastic to hear that you completed university and achieved your degree, you should be so proud of yourself, do stay upbeat and focus on all the things that bring you brightness in life, look towards your amazing future and see the compassionate moments that are…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    It feels crazy to have been off here for 3 months. I feel like I am always saying that. Life is just so busy that I forget about this site. But it’s always there for me. Especially when I really need it, like tonight. About two weeks ago I had some terrible shit happen to me. Without going into detail, it has been really rough on me. Sometimes I…[Read more]

    Mood : Grumpy
    • Don’t let anyone or anything bring you down @simplegirl, stay focused on making all your dreams come true and know so many more special moments lie ahead for you, those who seek to humiliate or harm others aren’t worth it, you deserve to be surrounded by love, hope and positivity, things will be OK, your future looks so bright, believe in…[Read more]

    • Hey. I don’t know exactly what you’re going through but I can tell you that i can relate. I wasn’t on here for almost a year until recent thinking when i do come back, it would be with amazing or at least good news but no it actually was worse news than before i left. Whatever you’re going through, just know that sometimes you can meet someone…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    I constantly feel like I’m a burden and nobody likes me. Even though I’m an adult, I feel like I’m back in high school sometimes. I’m so sick of being lonely. But every time I try to make friends or date, I get rejected and hurt. I started seeing someone recently and we were both on the same page that we wanted a relationship. Apparently I…[Read more]

    Mood : Lonely
    • Please don’t feel like a burden @simplegirl, you are such a lovely, amazing and brilliant person who is appreciated and valued by so many people, I’m sure you will meet new friends who will stick by you, I may not know you personally but I care, anyone who hurts you isn’t worth it, do your best to spread your bright personality and surround…[Read more]

    • //But I am so fucking lonely and I just want to share ideas, experiences, etc with someone.//
      Understandable. I wanted to do something similar…
      I personally never desired ‘friends’ so I can’t familiarize my experience with you on that part… but I did honestly wanted to share my ‘opinions’, ‘ideas’, ‘experiences’ and ‘perspectives’…[Read more]

    • I totally feel you there so you’re not alone, I’ve just been through practically the same situation, and am processing the same emotions. Its actually the reason I’m here tonight so its funny I ran into your post. Im not sure if its any help, but something that helped me just a little when I was feeling particularly bad is I typed out about a…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    Wow, three months has already passed. The boyfriend a lot of you guys knew about turned out to be really abusive. A friend helped me end things in late July. I also quit my job (the season ended but I stopped going in a month before that). I have had a lot of anxiety lately. I let my loneliness take over over the past two months and hooked up with…[Read more]

    • @simplegirl good job reducing all those stressors :)

    • Do take care of yourself and try to focus on getting yourself to a happier place @simplegirl, you don’t deserve abuse or pain from anyone or anything, surround yourself with as much love, positivity and hope as you can, I want to see you feeling safe, secure and at ease, relax and find ways to calm yourself so you can go forward into the future…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    I appreciate everyone’s advice on my last few posts. Things don’t seem to be looking up for me. A month ago I was finally happy. I kept saying it felt like a dream because all my wishes came true. I know see that granted wishes have consequences. I feel like this is a lesson in “you can’t always get what you want” and then when you do, it…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please try to stay positive @simplegirl, I’m sure things will work out and everything will go your way, you will do great at work, remember to always do your best and ask for help if you ever need it, you will be OK, keep going, be upbeat and never give up, you can do it, believe in yourself, smile and hold your head up high, amazing things await…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    I hate complaining so much but I need to vent. I have nobody to talk to in my life. And everyone who comments to me or messages me always helps. I had a really rough day at work. I feel so anxious. After a very hard day I was hopeful to come home and check my phone (I leave it at home when I go to work). I thought my boyfriend would have texted.…[Read more]

    Mood : Gloomy
    • It’s too bad that you didn’t get the text that you had hoped for. Maybe it would have been different, had he known how your day was going.
      Did you try texting him instead? Talk to him about your day, how you miss him, and how you’re feeling? I know it can be nice for them to come to you, but sometimes you need to go to them first. Tell him…[Read more]

    • Hopefully he will get in contact with you @simplegirl, maybe try texting or calling him, say to him that you want to see him and spend time with him, I would focus on having a wonderful day while you wait, do things that make you feel awesome, remember to smile and keep being lovely, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    I need advice. Tonight was awful. I had plans with the guy I’m seeing. I took an hour to get ready, then drove to my apartment to meet him (I’m currently dog sitting in another town). I waited 3 hours there and he didn’t show up. He texted me a few times and basically cancelled by saying “eh it’s kinda late” (it was around 9pm and we were…[Read more]

    Mood : Disappointed
    • I would talk to him and tell him how you feel @simplegirl, he really should have showed up to meet you, maybe he will keep his promise to you next time if you explain how upset you were to him, hope everything works out in your relationship and it becomes stronger going forward, do stay positive and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

    • sounds to me like he doesn’t give a shit, leaving you hanging after organizing something together then not having a good enough excuse. not even sounding half apologetic about it, act with discretion @simplegirl .

    • @simplegirl Yeah be honest about how you felt when he didn’t value your time and efforts, so he doesn’t think he can do it again because you’ll be super okay with it. And if he gets all confrontational, can’t seem to apologize, and makes it all about you, red flag.

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    I find it insane that one day someone can care about you and treat you well..and the next day they are breaking up with you as if they never cared.

    Mood : Amazed
    • You deserve amazing and compassionate people around you who will stick by you no matter what @simplegirl, anyone who leaves you isn’t worth it, remember you are a good person who deserves the best, keep being awesome and go out into the world and meet incredible individuals, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me…[Read more]

    • that’s where your good friends come in, and all g there’s plenty more fish in the sea, you’re bound to find someone who potentially might want to spend the rest of his/her life with you :)

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    Wow, almost 6 months since I’ve been on here. I guess life has been a bit better for me. I started a new job recently and have had a lot of anxiety. But other than that I think things are okay. I hope anyone reading this is doing well. If you’re dealing with depression and anxiety, I’m sorry. Things do get better. Yes, there will be ups and…[Read more]

    Mood : Complacent
    • Glad things have been getting better @simplegirl, try to stay positive and focus on making everything work, I’m sure you will do amazingly in your job, be upbeat and keep going forward with confidence, remember to smile and keep shining, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open,…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 5 months ago

    I remember when I was on this site 24/7. Now, it’s been a month since I’ve even logged on. I somehow got into another car accident. And the driver who hit me was violent and screamed at me and then drove off. The damage to my car is 2900 dollars. I luckily wrote down his plate ID before he sped off. But my insurance and the police station cannot…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry that you got into a car accident @simplegirl, others should be more careful on the road, you don’t deserve what happened to you, no one does, please don’t feel lonely hun, you will find kind and lovely people who will stick by you and who will always be there for you, I want to see you truly happy with good friends around you, try…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 6 months ago

    It has been SO long since I’ve been on here. I wish I could say I was happy and didn’t need guidance, but my reasoning is the exact opposite. I’ve been struggling so much lately with my asexuality. People claim to have “never heard of it” and “it must be made up” or “I don’t believe asexuality is a thing”. IT IS A “thing”. Just because…[Read more]

    Mood : Uncomfortable
    • Do what makes you comfortable and happy @simplegirl, be the person that you want to be and don’t let anyone tell you differently, please don’t feel hopeless, you are such a lovely individual who deserves all the brightness and joy in the world, focus on the things that put a smile on your face and that make you feel awesome, things will go your…[Read more]

    • Bloody fucking hell … this sounded so much like me it’s scary :o
      About an hour ago I came back to this site for the first time in over a year
      I am asexual and sick of the aggressive erasure that comes with that
      I have serious depression and suicidal tendencies
      … We should have a chat sometime :3 I’m always willing to help you with…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Super long day. I hope all of you are feeling happy and aren’t sad. The one thing I hate more than being depressed is seeing others feel the same way. I know how much it hurts and I never want anyone else to feel it. I hope I soon get a day off to relax and try to feel better about things.

    Mood : Sleepy
    • That’s very thoughtful.
      I hope you get that day off, too. It sounds like you need it. And I hope you feel better soon.
      I’m here if you need anything. :)

    • Do try to relax and rest @simplegirl, I want to see you smiling and living each day to the fullest, keep caring about others and keep being the special individual that you are, everything will be OK and things will work out, you can do it, keep going and never give up, I’ll always be here if you need to talk or if you need support, message me…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    It’s been so long since I’ve been on here. I feel like everything is spiraling out of control. Why can’t I just feel better? Why can’t I stop binge eating? Why can’t I just be happy and healthy the ”right way”?

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please don’t feel down @simplegirl, you are a truly beautiful individual, be kind and sweet to yourself, I want to see you happy and being the fabulous person that you know you can be, focus on the things that put a smile on your face and that make you feel content, things may seem hard but they will change for the better and everything will be…[Read more]

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    I was hit by a car yesterday. Nothing severely broken but I’m really sore and have a neck brace. I’m anxious to go to classes today considering everyone will be staring at me.

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oh my gosh, that’s horrible. I hope you feel better, and I hope today goes well. Good luck.

    • I’m sorry this happened to you @simplegirl, hope you are OK, do try to relax if you can, I’m sure you will make a full recovery hun, I’m always here if you need me :) (hugs)

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Hey everyone, how are you all? I’ve been missing being on here.

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    Travelling Girl posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Travelling Girl posted an update Another nice fall day. Feeling odd today. Hoping that happy feeling comes back soon :( View

    Thank you so much @oli. I really appreciate your support.

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Another nice fall day. Feeling odd today. Hoping that happy feeling comes back soon :(

    Mood : Confused
    • You deserve to feel incredible and happy @simplegirl, I’m 100% sure a bright and beautiful smile will appear on your face, you can do it, be as positive and upbeat as you can and focus on the things that make you feel special, I believe in you and I’m always here for you, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much @oli. I really appreciate your support.

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    Travelling Girl posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Travelling Girl posted an update Hey everyone. I hope you are all doing well tonight. I’m very tired and sad. Do you guys ever just get sad at night about nothing? I hate that, especially when I have no one to […] View

    there are many people with that name….

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    Travelling Girl posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Hey everyone. I hope you are all doing well tonight. I’m very tired and sad. Do you guys ever just get sad at night about nothing? I hate that, especially when I have no one to talk to…and sometimes it’s hard to talk to a “stranger” on here. It always takes me awhile to open up to people and some listeners don’t want to talk for that long.…[Read more]

    Mood : Lonely
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