It’s great to see you back on BT @shesjustsorad, don’t let life’s struggles get you down Erin, stay focused on your happiness and making all your dreams come true, you will do amazing things Erin, always be determined and never give up, you can do it Erin, believe in yourself and keep going forward with confidence, inbox me anytime if you want…[Read more]

It’s good to see you happy and excited @shesjustsorad, hopefully this guy will continue to treat you right and give you all the love, support and respect in the world Erin, everyone deserves a strong bond with another person, you do too Erin, I’m sure things will work out positively going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you…[Read more]

I would explain the situation to your boss and say that you would like some time off to fulfill this amazing opportunity @shesjustsorad, tell them that this is something that you have always wanted to do and you are looking forward to it, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

You are a wonderful person who deserves to be surrounded by compassionate and loving friends who will always stick by you no matter what @shesjustsorad, those who abandon you or treat you badly aren’t worth it Erin, I’m sure you will meet new people who will be there for you, go out into the world and spread your bright personality around as…[Read more]

@shesjustsorad you’re not wrong at all. How dare they!? As you said, you obviously have 0 friends. They will get their karma right along with your ex knowing that the guy put you in an intense situation. You will have genuine, ride or die friends in time okay? If you ever need to, feel free to message me.

I would do what you feel is comfortable for both of you @shesjustsorad, if you both feel the relationship can survive, keep being with each other, if not, maybe you should go your separate ways, hopefully things will work out in a good way Erin, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

You are free to work at it; but to me, it just doesn’t sound like a healthy thing for either of you. If you stick it out, accept that it will be an open relationship in the sense of the occasional affair or third party tryst. You love with your heart, but you should add your brain to the mix. So much drama – is that what you really want in and…[Read more]

I’ll try to be as honest and nice as possible with this. I hope you genuinly see this as help, because is my intention: you say you want to be with him yet what I read was a very unstable and unhealthy relationship. Now I’m not doubting your feelings but I’m doubting your decision making… If you do stay with him “forever” it means arguing…[Read more]

This comment is very well written and with a good train of thought. You should listen to this person at least. I agree with it.

I would talk to him about how you feel @shesjustsorad, you deserve a partner who treats you with love, appreciation, care and respect Erin, hopefully he will bring you along to a gathering so you can meet his family, I’m sure things will work out and you will make things stronger between the two of you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

Talking stuff through is always the best. Always, even if it doesn’t seem so. There is great value in knowing where the other is at. I don’t know your story, but if things have been a big mess, that isn’t easily swept under the rug. Talk, and time, the two biggest things in relationships, and dealing with conflict, and so many other things.

@shesjustsorad I think is like you said, his family doesn’t want you around. When bad things happen in relationships I always say is fault from both sides quite honestly. But they love him, they are his family and want his best. If you what you say is true and there is even restraining orders going into place… doesn’t look very healthy, at…[Read more]

Do stay positive and focus on all the wonderful opportunities that are ahead for you @shesjustsorad, don’t let your past get you down, move forward as best you can and know you will achieve all your goals Erin, I’m sure you will do great no matter what happens, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it Erin, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

@shesjustsorad wow I’m going through similar issues as well. I get it about the ex. The past has a sneaky way of trying to tear down your renewed present and future but at least you can see that will be over with soon. I too have seen everyone around get degrees, careers, even married while I’m stuck and have nothing. If you’re ever up to…[Read more]

@shesjustsorad I think you’re doing fantastic by moving and in baby steps focousing on your education and recovery. Focous on yourself darling, no man in the world is worth your pain and you putting yourself down. Be strong, love yourself and treat yourself like a princess. Best of luck Also if you need someone to talk to feel free to always PM me

You deserve someone who will stay loyal to you @shesjustsorad, he really shouldn’t be trying to look other places when he is in a relationship with you Erin, you are a wonderful person who is worthy of happiness and true love, I would do what you feel is right for you Erin, hope things work out for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

I honestly think you shouldn’t deal with all of this. Like you said before, you been on this road before why bother? Ever heard of the phrase ”a person’s drunk words are their sober thoughts”? Let him be. Remember that you are a queen and deserve the most out of someone.

A couple thoughts, Erin.
You sound like you are out of his league, to start. His social intelligence is pretty low.
His comment about your friend speaks volumes about what he thinks about you – he is “settling” with you, because you are in his league, when what he really wants is more. That doesn’t mean you aren’t in the same league as your…[Read more]

Please don’t feel alone @shesjustsorad, you are such a fantastic person Erin who deserves all the happiness and joy in the world Erin, keep looking for a job, I’m sure you will find the right career for you, don’t let anyone treat you badly, I may not know you personally but I care about you and I’m sure so many others do too, surround…[Read more]

Hello I have had similar situations with an ex and I know how tough it is. You may can’t see it in your mind now but just know that he will get his payback for how he has treated you. You have to try your best to see pass your present situation and more towards your future. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me.

@shesjustsorad I see you’re going through a really hard period in your life. I hope that life gets easier on you :/ I hope you get a nice job so you can look at life in a more positive and happy way. Best of luck!
Also if you ever need to talk and vent feel free to PM me

I would try to talk to him @shesjustsorad, tell him that you want him to be there for you and to support you during difficult times Erin, he should stick by you no matter what, be honest with each other about how you want your relationship to be, open up to him as much as you can, I’m sure things will work out, everyone deserves to be listened…[Read more]

@shesjustsorad, as the saying goes, “if you love someone, let them go, if they come back they’re yours” maybe it is better for you to take a break at the moment when the bridges are yet to be burned, before the point of no return, if you beg him to stay as you are, wont your relationship just worsen and turn poisonous? if that happens you…[Read more]

If you’re talking about a romantic relationship…girl , NOT worth it. if you’re putting that person in front a much bigger and important priority which is your education. Relationships, let’s face it, usually are temporary. Focous on becoming a strong female ,educated, that if her love relationship ends with someone, you can go and survive and…[Read more]

Focus on the things that are important to you @shesjustsorad, honestly your education matters more than your relationship, try to put your education first hun, I’m sure one day you will be in a strong and loving relationship, but you should try to focus on getting yourself to where you want to go in life before that, I’m sure you will make the…[Read more]

Things may seem hard but they will change for the better @shesjustsorad, please try to be positive and upbeat Erin, good things will happen to you and everything will turn out OK, you are such a wonderful person who deserves a life filled with brightness, love and happiness, keep going and never give up Erin, you are a warrior, so many more…[Read more]

It’s good that he is talking to you @shesjustsorad, I would try to stay in touch with each other Erin and see what happens, hopefully everything will go well and you will be in each others lives for years to come, try to stay positive hun, you can do this, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

I would try to talk to him when you get the chance too @shesjustsorad, tell him how you truly feel and how you would like things to be between the two of you Erin, I hope things go well, I’ll always be here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)