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    Erin Kristen posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    Well me and bf Mike have a crazy ride of a relationship and recently hes been going to his family parties and gatherings and he wont bring me along. I understant that his family knows about all of our episodes and arguments and how we were involved with court orders, restraining orders. Just a huge mess. So his family knows some of it.
    He pretty…[Read more]

    Mood : Uncomfortable
    • I would talk to him about how you feel @shesjustsorad, you deserve a partner who treats you with love, appreciation, care and respect Erin, hopefully he will bring you along to a gathering so you can meet his family, I’m sure things will work out and you will make things stronger between the two of you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

    • Talking stuff through is always the best. Always, even if it doesn’t seem so. There is great value in knowing where the other is at. I don’t know your story, but if things have been a big mess, that isn’t easily swept under the rug. Talk, and time, the two biggest things in relationships, and dealing with conflict, and so many other things.

    • @shesjustsorad I think is like you said, his family doesn’t want you around. When bad things happen in relationships I always say is fault from both sides quite honestly. But they love him, they are his family and want his best. If you what you say is true and there is even restraining orders going into place… doesn’t look very healthy, at…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 months ago

    I just got a really good job. Unfortunately my past caught up to me and it involved me being in court due to my ex bf, who im still in love with (hes all i talk about on here). The past is the past and in a week or so i dont have to worry about anything that come to me getting in trouble with the cops.
    Im trying to keep positive and keep moving…[Read more]

    Mood : Optimistic
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Do stay positive and focus on all the wonderful opportunities that are ahead for you @shesjustsorad, don’t let your past get you down, move forward as best you can and know you will achieve all your goals Erin, I’m sure you will do great no matter what happens, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it Erin, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

    • @shesjustsorad wow I’m going through similar issues as well. I get it about the ex. The past has a sneaky way of trying to tear down your renewed present and future but at least you can see that will be over with soon. I too have seen everyone around get degrees, careers, even married while I’m stuck and have nothing. If you’re ever up to…[Read more]

    • @shesjustsorad I think you’re doing fantastic by moving and in baby steps focousing on your education and recovery. Focous on yourself darling, no man in the world is worth your pain and you putting yourself down. Be strong, love yourself and treat yourself like a princess. Best of luck :) Also if you need someone to talk to feel free to always PM me :)

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 3 months ago

    Okay. I’ve been seeing this guy that I’ve know for years, so we just started to mess around with each other and everything is great.
    Until he decided to talk about how hot my friend is, and how out of his league she is.

    See my friend is really pretty, she’s every guys wet dream, tatted blonde young.

    Should I continue seeing this guy. He was…[Read more]

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      You deserve someone who will stay loyal to you @shesjustsorad, he really shouldn’t be trying to look other places when he is in a relationship with you Erin, you are a wonderful person who is worthy of happiness and true love, I would do what you feel is right for you Erin, hope things work out for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

    • I honestly think you shouldn’t deal with all of this. Like you said before, you been on this road before why bother? Ever heard of the phrase ”a person’s drunk words are their sober thoughts”? Let him be. Remember that you are a queen and deserve the most out of someone.

    • A couple thoughts, Erin.
      You sound like you are out of his league, to start. His social intelligence is pretty low.
      His comment about your friend speaks volumes about what he thinks about you – he is “settling” with you, because you are in his league, when what he really wants is more. That doesn’t mean you aren’t in the same league as your…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    Haven’t been on this website for a year and some months.
    Unfortunately I had to deal with a unstable man who I dated who was 35 years old.
    He had broken my phone two times, and put his hands on me, so I filled for a restraining order. I’ve been phoneless because I’ve been jobless for now 3 months. I’m trying to look for a good 9-5. I barely go…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel alone @shesjustsorad, you are such a fantastic person Erin who deserves all the happiness and joy in the world Erin, keep looking for a job, I’m sure you will find the right career for you, don’t let anyone treat you badly, I may not know you personally but I care about you and I’m sure so many others do too, surround…[Read more]

    • Hello I have had similar situations with an ex and I know how tough it is. You may can’t see it in your mind now but just know that he will get his payback for how he has treated you. You have to try your best to see pass your present situation and more towards your future. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me.

    • @shesjustsorad I see you’re going through a really hard period in your life. I hope that life gets easier on you :/ I hope you get a nice job so you can look at life in a more positive and happy way. Best of luck!
      Also if you ever need to talk and vent feel free to PM me

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    Me and my bf mike have been having some trouble with our relationship. While that’s going on I’m having my own personal problems about trying to understand who I am, and what I’m doin with my life. My bf wants to break up with me again because the arguments are so constant, and I’m basically begging for him not to, and to give me sometime to…[Read more]

    • I would try to talk to him @shesjustsorad, tell him that you want him to be there for you and to support you during difficult times Erin, he should stick by you no matter what, be honest with each other about how you want your relationship to be, open up to him as much as you can, I’m sure things will work out, everyone deserves to be listened…[Read more]

    • @shesjustsorad, as the saying goes, “if you love someone, let them go, if they come back they’re yours” maybe it is better for you to take a break at the moment when the bridges are yet to be burned, before the point of no return, if you beg him to stay as you are, wont your relationship just worsen and turn poisonous? if that happens you…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 1 year, 8 months ago

    i feel so behind in school, im not focusing on what i love. And paying more attention to what relationship i have with someone. I hate how im losing ambition and motivation, and i just feel like im sinking. i dont know what to do

    Mood : Frustrated
    • If you’re talking about a romantic relationship…girl , NOT worth it. if you’re putting that person in front a much bigger and important priority which is your education. Relationships, let’s face it, usually are temporary. Focous on becoming a strong female ,educated, that if her love relationship ends with someone, you can go and survive and…[Read more]

    • Focus on the things that are important to you @shesjustsorad, honestly your education matters more than your relationship, try to put your education first hun, I’m sure one day you will be in a strong and loving relationship, but you should try to focus on getting yourself to where you want to go in life before that, I’m sure you will make the…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen asked “Why am I having a irregular period?1 year, 10 months ago

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    Erin Kristen asked “I slept with my ex’s best friend. And don’t know what to do.1 year, 11 months ago

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    Erin Kristen asked “Does he miss me or miss talking to someone?1 year, 11 months ago

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    Erin Kristen asked “How do I stay positive and keep trying ?1 year, 11 months ago

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    Things aren’t getting better. Still dealing with a. Break up and slowly recovering. But its worse Noe because I’ve been unemployed for two months now and no one has called me back or tied to contact me after I’ve contacted them. I’m trying to stay positive but its so hard, especially since I feel like I don’t have any support from anyone. My…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Things may seem hard but they will change for the better @shesjustsorad, please try to be positive and upbeat Erin, good things will happen to you and everything will turn out OK, you are such a wonderful person who deserves a life filled with brightness, love and happiness, keep going and never give up Erin, you are a warrior, so many more…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen asked “Does my ex want to get back together?2 years ago

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 years ago

    After me getting use to me and NY ex not being together. Stopped crying as much and got use to non contact. He called me today admitted he missed me but mostly rambled and spike about his day and what’s wrong. It was nice yet confusing. Then he texted me tonight saying I miss you, don’t respond just know. What is that, I miss him so much and…[Read more]

    Mood : Worried
    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      It’s good that he is talking to you @shesjustsorad, I would try to stay in touch with each other Erin and see what happens, hopefully everything will go well and you will be in each others lives for years to come, try to stay positive hun, you can do this, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 years ago

    I miss him so much, but I’m angry with te fact he couldn’t handle my immaturity, yet he’s the one who recently moved out of his parents, he lives in a tiny basement, a 27 yr old man asking his 19 yr old gf for money when he lost his job, and the fact I have a bigger bank account then he did. Is this really happening? Will he realize he lost me?

    Mood : Hurt
    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      I would try to talk to him when you get the chance too @shesjustsorad, tell him how you truly feel and how you would like things to be between the two of you Erin, I hope things go well, I’ll always be here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Erin Kristen asked “Should i let him go, or keep trying?2 years ago

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    Erin Kristen asked “How can i give my recent ex bf some space?2 years ago

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 years ago

    I still miss him, but I want to give him space to at least have some what of a chance to be with him again. Just don’t know how

    Mood : Hurt
    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      I would talk to him when you feel the time is right @shesjustsorad, let him know how much you miss him and that you want him in your life Erin, be honest and speak from the heart, I hope things go well, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Erin Kristen asked “Can someone please inbox me2 years ago

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 years ago

    There’s no actual way to get someone back I know that, but hear me out.

    I’m 19 and my bf is 27, we dated for 11 months and we dated seriously for 6. We both knew since day one how our age was such a problem, I expressed to him how I feel imitated by my age. And I would be upset because when we argue I want to be able to understand what went…[Read more]

    Mood : Hurt
    • What does he expect, he’s dating a teenager but you are not supposed to act like a teenager, and everything you feel should just ’be skipped’ because he already went through it? It sounds like a suffocating place to be in, you will be 19 only once, you need someone who likes you for who YOU are. SMH, You don’t sound like you are satisfied with…[Read more]

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    Erin Kristen posted an update 2 years ago

    I got dumped and it sucks so much, I feel like he didn’t even give me a chance to at least see things through. Just broke up with me over a petty argument because he couldn’t deal with me. Was a age difference that big of a deal, I feel like people can work that out and understand the age gap, but why would you give up on someone who was…[Read more]

    Mood : Hurt
    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      I’m sorry this happened to you @shesjustsorad, have you tried talking to your ex, maybe you can still work things out and get you relationship back on track Erin, you do deserve to be with someone who will always stick by you no matter what, hopefully things will work out for you and everything will be OK hun, don’t give up, I’m always here if…[Read more]

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