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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 7 years, 8 months ago

    I just wanted to go to a concert with my sister and then she invited her friend over and she thinks it’s totally okay because she’s normal and she doesn’t understand that for me, having someone else there will be the worst because I can’t meet new people because I get anxious and I hate new people

    Mood : Anxious
    • Let your sister know that meeting new people is hard for you @secrethealer, hopefully ways will be found to make it better and easier for you, I know how you feel, I’m shy and it takes me time to get comfortable with people, maybe you will strike up a good conversation with this person, but just do your best to enjoy the concert and everything…[Read more]

    • you’re going to a concert where there’s lots of other people you don’t know too.. i can’t compute, oli gave you good advice though

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 3 months ago

    You can’t trust no one.

    Mood : Disappointed
    • @secrethealer you can, but you just need to find the right people

    • You will find people who you can trust @secrethealer, do surround yourself with caring and kind friends who will have your best interests at heart, everyone deserves wonderful people in their lives, you do too, try to stay positive and keep smiling, you can do it, never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is…[Read more]

    • You cannot trust everyone and anyone, but there are a few people you CAN trust… You just have to go through live to find them. I am here for you. ♥

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 4 months ago

    Sometimes we learn, even if it’s a bit late, that life may suck sometimes but oh it’s worth it.

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Keep learning, keep inspiring and doing what makes you feel happy in life @secrethealer, great things will happen to you, always be the lovely and fabulous individual that you know you can be, keep going and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway and Profile picture of Humanist HopeJonathan Sophrosyne are now friends 8 years, 4 months ago

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 4 months ago

    I haven’t been kissed. I’m sixteen. I’ve never had a boyfriend.
    Can anyone honestly say there’s nothing wrong with me?

    Mood : Sad
    • @secrethealer

      Yes. There is nothing wrong with you. There is no rush to romance. It is not a race or an obligation. There are sexually promiscuous thirteen-year-olds and there are forty-year-old virgins.

      Your sexuality or sexual activity is not an indictment of your character in either direction. How much or how little sex you have is no…[Read more]

    • You will find the perfect partner for you @secrethealer, everyone deserves true love in their lives, you do too, you will meet your knight in shining armour, that special someone is out there waiting for you, try to stay positive and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always…[Read more]

    • I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 19. And at 21, I’ve never had a boyfriend. We all move at different paces, and that’s okay. (:

    • Hey, I’m 16 and I’ve never even held hands with anyone I wasn’t related to, so you’re doing fine. I wouldn’t go so far as to say there’s nothing wrong with you since I don’t really know you, but yeah, don’t sweat it dude, you are not alone. :)

    • @secrethealer

      I, myself, had my ”first kiss” when I was like 11-12, all because of a stupid dare, and I haven’t kissed anybody since. I’m 17 now. It really doesn’t matter how old you are, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you for not having yours yet.

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 4 months ago

    Maybe I’m depressed or maybe I’m not…all I know is that sometimes, I just stop feeling.

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t let sadness get you down @secrethealer, you are such a fabulous and fantastic individual who deserves all the happiness, love, joy and brightness in the world, things will be OK and everything will work out, focus on the things that put a smile on your face, great things will happen to you, you will win all your battles because you…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 8 months ago

    Friendzone sucks.

    Mood : Infuriated
    • I’m here if you need someone to talk too @secrethealer, I don’t want to see you angry or upset, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 9 months ago

    I really need to forget him. I’m just hurting myself more and more.

    Mood : Sad
    • You deserve to be surrounded by good people who will treat you right @secrethealer, I’m sure you will meet compassionate people who will never hurt you and who will always be there for you no matter what, don’t let anyone or anything break you down, hold your head up high and be positive, things will be OK, you are a warrior and survivor who…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 10 months ago

    Stop playing with my feelings. Why can’t I like the good guys?

    Mood : Sad
    • The heart wants what it wants.

    • Anyone who plays with your feelings isn’t worth it @secrethealer, you deserve someone who is going to treat you right and love you unconditionally, I’m sure you will find that special someone, a strong relationship built on trust will happen to you, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want,…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 10 months ago

    I don’t even know what this thing between us is…but I guess I like it

    Mood : Weird
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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 8 years, 11 months ago

    I’m so in love and yet, I can’t do shit about it.

    Mood : Numb
    • Are you OK? @secrethealer, I’m here if you need someone to open up too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 2 months ago

    I feel like no one cares…even my own sisters leave me out all the time… I’m alone.

    Mood : Depressed
    • Hey, wanna talk about it? I’m here for you. :)

    • Please don’t feel alone @secrethealer, your family should care about you and treat you right, you deserve so much better, remember that the entire Blah community will always be here for you and so will I, you are amongst friends here, always remember that, hold your head up high, keep smiling and stay strong, I’ll always be here if you ever need…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway answered question “How to make her fall in love with me?9 years, 3 months ago

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 4 months ago

    It’s just that I thought my own family would care about me, and not my body.

    Mood : Hurt
    • Don’t let your family bring you down @secrethealer, you deserve to be treated with so much love, respect and care, they should be proud of you and not make things hard for you, you deserve so much better, try your best to be positive and focus on being the wonderful person that you are, you can do this, keep fighting and never give up, you are so…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 4 months ago

    Why can’t people understand other people?
    Why can’t they even try?

    Mood : Pissed off
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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 4 months ago

    Why can’t people understand other people?
    Why can’t they even try?

    Mood : Pissed off
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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 4 months ago

    No, mom, I don’t want to know my weight. I already know I’m the fatest of my sisters and the youngest. I know it, okay? So don’t look at me like that.

    Mood : Sad
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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 6 months ago

    I thought friends were always there. Always…

    Mood : Disappointed
    • You deserve to have people around you who will always stick by you @secrethealer, don’t give up, you will find compassionate, understanding and loving friends who will always be there for you, don’t give up, keep your head up and stay positive, you are such a special person, you deserve all the happiness in the world, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway posted an update 9 years, 6 months ago

    Why is she the light and I’m the shadow? Why can’t I be good enough for a change?

    Mood : Mad
    • You are good enough @secrethealer, please don’t feel bad about yourself, you are such a special and beautiful person with amazing qualities in you, keep your head up and don’t give up, great things will happen to you, try your best to stay positive and optimistic, you can do this, keep smiling, you deserve happiness and all the best in the…[Read more]

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    TheOneThatGotAway answered question “thoughts then and now, suicide?9 years, 6 months ago

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