Guy. Adult child of an alcoholic. Adult child of a hoarder. Codependent.
I try to check for replies to my posts but I manage to do it only with the more recent stuff, if you want to talk more you can message me.
I overthink on the friendship mechanism, and now kinda abstain from it. It's not personal. I think in terms of people I talk to.
Suggested reading: "The How of Happiness: A New Approach to Getting the Life You Want" by Sonja Lyubomirsky "Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws" by Kate Bornstein