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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update Looking for advice… Brother moving up North with his girlfriend in a few weeks, but I have the feeling they won’t work together. He expressed fears with the relationship before with me, […] View

    @princepossum Maybe you can ask him some version of “Hey brother do you realize that lately whenever you talk about her, it’s in a negative tone? What’s up with that?”, but do keep for yourself the “the sooner you break up, the better it is”. If they are moving for her needs only, maybe you can check if he’s sure about making this big step…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    @natalie-geroux Probably some version of a yes, yes. Do you already have strong positive models of it around you?

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    @natalie-geroux have you ever looked at a website about womanhood? (edit: maybe womanness, or femininity, fit better in this comparison)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: DignifiedQuark posted an update —So, about a year ago, I met two girls (Jane and Michelle). They’re best friends. I started to talk to both of them (just as friends!) And eventually started to date Jane. […] View

    @nathanlaufey Maybe you can apologize for butting in with your unasked-for advice (it didn’t sound like a good step to rekindle a friendship), and if she aknowledges it, ask her how things are going. Is this to get back at Jane or something, the pursuing of a relationship with her friend?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    @paperkites21 Some people would offer to help him with his rent for a few months just to buy themselves out of a remorse which would prevent them to break free, it’s an option if that’s one of the few things keeping you there.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: lemon posted an update does anyone know that website where you can type words and they just fall away, or any other good websites to go to when feeling depressed/thoughtful/anxious? Thank you View

    @pleasant-arithmetic http://www.themostdangerouswritingapp.com sort of, if you pick the hardcore mode, your words are blurred, but consider http://750words.com/ too in general.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Prettyangel197 posted an update I feel like a terrible person because I get jealous when my best guy friend hangs out with this other girl. I love that he has other friends but I still get jealous whenever he […] View

    @prettyangel197 No, it can happen, what matters is what you do with this feeling, if you act on it and influence their life in a negative way, it would be a problem. You can also work in the other direction and branch out to other people/groups/activities so your mind is busy with other things, and you’ll feel less pained by what your friends are doing.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Sarah posted an update Life has been kinda rough for me lately. I’ve been trying to lose weight all my life, but since January, I have been actually working hard at it. I was the same weight from month to month […] View

    @bornxlivedxdied It’s okay, take it easy and see how things go as you slowly ease into your previous habits, recovery is a big goal now, and school I guess, so you can just focus on feeling if your back/neck is okay; and weight should not be looked at as a punishment or something bad (*no devil’s advocates chiming in, please*) so try to disrupt…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So I finally called up to the place where I went to drivers school at and I told them how mean the guy was to me and how I feel like I waisted my money because I still don’t feel […] View

    @layla95 Maybe there’s a Yelp-thingy for business in your area where you can leave your opinion about their practices.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Am I wrong here? in the group Group logoGeneral 5 months, 1 week ago

    @miserystoy GIrlfriend as in partner? If yes :/ that must have hurt. I hope you manage to set up something nice/special to make it different, at least for this year, even in the days immediately after. I’m weird […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Bleh met this nice girl yesterday in chat and we started talking in private. She was really sweet but today she blocked me for some reason. I’m so tired of looking for my S.O… View

    @gleb when you start by talking about private things, the relationship can be doomed from the beginning, too much emotional exposure, often one sided; something more spread over time can have better results. If you look for a relationship on here, then better get used to this kind of abrupt endings. :/

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update I always thought me learning how to drive would at least make me feel somewhat complete but now that’s it’s officially over with and I knew all these years of being told that I actually […] View

    @layla95 I remember a friend telling me how his driving instructor did something like that, and he stopped the car and told him he either would be calm or he was changing instructors. The instructor shut up and behaved properly from there on. I hope you can find another one.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: MLE posted an update I listened to a podcast today about loneliness. it was really interesting. apparently theres a study that’s been done that says millennials report feeling very lonely, more so than older […] View

    @mle Yeah, it’s weird, imagine not even having social networks or communication tools, just pen and paper and maybe an old fashioned telephone, that’s loneliness. But maybe, if someone is bad at socializing, it’s more frustrating because you have all these opportunities to connect, and you can’t. I guess it can also be something that happened…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: lullie posted an update How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank […] View

    @hope15 blocking them everywhere and never lurk their social media, if it’s not something you already implemented, is a good start.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    ”The Russian LGBT Network is a team of dedicated people and organizations that promotes equal rights and respect for human dignity, regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity.” https://www.lgbtnet.org/en/endonate

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Does anyone want some good begginers paints? I want to start getting into painting , I need a new hoobie to deal with my anxiety. View

    @marikofujimoto Many people love adult coloring books; besides acquiring the book and a set of markers, you are ready to go.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @marikofujimoto Have you ever seen a girl bullied for losing hers?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @marikofujimoto I think that facet doesn’t erase the double standard regarding losing your virginity between men (applauded) and women (shamed if not done properly), specially in other countries where virginity in a bride is culturally mandated. Guys who are virgins would benefit from feminism, along with other types of relief from other…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Mr. Philosopher posted an update in the group I am.. I am… What if I never said anything after that. What If I simply announce ”I am” without ”this” or ”that”. The truth is that ”I am” is the subject, anything […] View

    Next step is dropping the ego :D

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update How does 1 deal with an angry person? View

    @flameaura Can you give us some examples of the behavior and your relationship with them?

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