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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Prettyangel197 posted an update I feel like a terrible person because I get jealous when my best guy friend hangs out with this other girl. I love that he has other friends but I still get jealous whenever he […] View

    @prettyangel197 No, it can happen, what matters is what you do with this feeling, if you act on it and influence their life in a negative way, it would be a problem. You can also work in the other direction and branch out to other people/groups/activities so your mind is busy with other things, and you’ll feel less pained by what your friends are doing.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Sarah posted an update Life has been kinda rough for me lately. I’ve been trying to lose weight all my life, but since January, I have been actually working hard at it. I was the same weight from month to month […] View

    @bornxlivedxdied It’s okay, take it easy and see how things go as you slowly ease into your previous habits, recovery is a big goal now, and school I guess, so you can just focus on feeling if your back/neck is okay; and weight should not be looked at as a punishment or something bad (*no devil’s advocates chiming in, please*) so try to disrupt…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So I finally called up to the place where I went to drivers school at and I told them how mean the guy was to me and how I feel like I waisted my money because I still don’t feel […] View

    @layla95 Maybe there’s a Yelp-thingy for business in your area where you can leave your opinion about their practices.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Am I wrong here? in the group Group logoGeneral 3 months, 1 week ago

    @miserystoy GIrlfriend as in partner? If yes :/ that must have hurt. I hope you manage to set up something nice/special to make it different, at least for this year, even in the days immediately after. I’m weird […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Bleh met this nice girl yesterday in chat and we started talking in private. She was really sweet but today she blocked me for some reason. I’m so tired of looking for my S.O… View

    @gleb when you start by talking about private things, the relationship can be doomed from the beginning, too much emotional exposure, often one sided; something more spread over time can have better results. If you look for a relationship on here, then better get used to this kind of abrupt endings. :/

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update I always thought me learning how to drive would at least make me feel somewhat complete but now that’s it’s officially over with and I knew all these years of being told that I actually […] View

    @layla95 I remember a friend telling me how his driving instructor did something like that, and he stopped the car and told him he either would be calm or he was changing instructors. The instructor shut up and behaved properly from there on. I hope you can find another one.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: MLE posted an update I listened to a podcast today about loneliness. it was really interesting. apparently theres a study that’s been done that says millennials report feeling very lonely, more so than older […] View

    @mle Yeah, it’s weird, imagine not even having social networks or communication tools, just pen and paper and maybe an old fashioned telephone, that’s loneliness. But maybe, if someone is bad at socializing, it’s more frustrating because you have all these opportunities to connect, and you can’t. I guess it can also be something that happened…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: lullie posted an update How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank […] View

    @hope15 blocking them everywhere and never lurk their social media, if it’s not something you already implemented, is a good start.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    ”The Russian LGBT Network is a team of dedicated people and organizations that promotes equal rights and respect for human dignity, regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity.” https://www.lgbtnet.org/en/endonate

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Does anyone want some good begginers paints? I want to start getting into painting , I need a new hoobie to deal with my anxiety. View

    @marikofujimoto Many people love adult coloring books; besides acquiring the book and a set of markers, you are ready to go.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @marikofujimoto Have you ever seen a girl bullied for losing hers?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @marikofujimoto I think that facet doesn’t erase the double standard regarding losing your virginity between men (applauded) and women (shamed if not done properly), specially in other countries where virginity in a bride is culturally mandated. Guys who are virgins would benefit from feminism, along with other types of relief from other…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Mr. Philosopher posted an update in the group I am.. I am… What if I never said anything after that. What If I simply announce ”I am” without ”this” or ”that”. The truth is that ”I am” is the subject, anything […] View

    Next step is dropping the ego :D

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update How does 1 deal with an angry person? View

    @flameaura Can you give us some examples of the behavior and your relationship with them?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Ariella9511 posted an update Please bare with me, I need some advice :) On Monday afternoon March the 27th, my neighbors’ 14 month old child drowned in the swimming pool. I sadly couldn’t help the child by […] View

    @ariella9511 I think I wouldn’t be surprised to be in the same mood, you have been through a lot and while indeed there’s some gratitude somewhere in the future to be celebrated, that trauma has to be processed first, so don’t ask yourself too much. I hope with times you feel better and for you to talk with somebody about how you feel. :/

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So my ex did not respond about handing over my money. That’s too much money to have as a lost. I don’t know what to do. I need my money! View

    @layla95 Seems like the small claims idea is good then, here’s a bit more aroudn it: http://getbullish.tumblr.com/post/109371359499/not-a-career-q-but-i-would-like-to-know-what-a

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So my ex did not respond about handing over my money. That’s too much money to have as a lost. I don’t know what to do. I need my money! View

    @layla95 These ties sometimes are something one has to give up to be free, so, you can work on coping with the idea that he won’t give it to you, just in case. Wait and see, maybe, later, mentioning it to his parents, if you by chance talk to them (wink wink) could put some pressure on him.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Jem posted an update I asked my ex if he could come help me out in an emergency because it’s 2 in the morning, I don’t have a phone, and he’s the only one I could contact. After me having a panic attack because he […] View

    @kato17 Oh geez, block him, what a jerk.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Kristen posted an update Anyone know how to delete you btherapy account? This one I had when I was 14, and I am 16 now Haven’t used this account in a few years! Best if I start over or delete. View

    http://blahtherapy.com/members/agirlwithmanyscars/settings/delete-account/ @agirlwithmanyscars

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Super Woman posted an update Created the group on Facebook now. It’s called ’Mental Illness Support Haven’ if any of you would like to join. The group consists of only 2 members so far . . . lol, but I just […] View

    @strideintomyoffice Oh I thought you meant here on Blah, nevermind :)

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