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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 days ago

    In reply to: ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update The one guy who can’t stay with me for longer than a week without breaking my heart told me he’s moving to my state, 30 minutes away from me, in the early parts of next year. I’m not […] View

    @xxbaybayxx Yeah, it’s a lot to be put up as the reason for a big choice like moving, but as long as you make it clear that it’s his choice and you won’t accept any blaming for whatever might go wrong, I guess you can see how it goes.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Haze posted an update So I realize it’s been years since I’ve posted here. I don’t know if anyone cares or was worried but, I’m doing great. I have a new boyfriend and I’m doing pretty good as far as life goes. i […] View

    Uplifting update :)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: rinseandrep posted an update ”If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain”, Dolly Parton. With the empty space where the rainbow was, too. Lovely rainbow. View

    Of course, there’s always new rainbows ;)

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    rinseandrep posted an update 1 month ago

    ”If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain”, Dolly Parton. With the empty space where the rainbow was, too. Lovely rainbow.

    Mood : Melancholy
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      I’m sure you will find a beautiful rainbow that puts a smile on your face @rinseandrep, stay positive and surround yourself with the things that bring you hope and brightness, everything will be OK, remember you are a fabulous person who deserves happiness and to shine, what’s on your mind, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Of course, there’s always new rainbows ;)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: seacat posted an update I haven’t posted here in almost 2 years. I’ve been seeking professional counseling at my college for social anxiety/depression for the last year and a half. It’s been really helpful, but […] View

    @suiei that’s very nice to hear!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update So I decided to seek professional help with my anxiety. After 10 meltdowns and 6 panick attacks, I had to shove medication down my troath and fall asleep on my kitchen table. Is not ok and […] View

    @marikofujimoto this could helps you find the right one http://justaquickquestion.tumblr.com/post/148177474395

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Apparently I’m ”privileged” because I’m thin. Cause when an overweight person talks about their flaws they’re brave, but if for some reason I randomly talk about mine or dare to love my […] View

    @marikofujimoto yeah, that’s one of the points of that discussion, as a society we see a fat person and assume they are unhealthy while thin people are assumed to be healthy, with some overlooking of serious problems due to this bias, but the people who talk about that kind of privilege don’t necessarily erase your own experience (e.g.…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I really wouldn’t mind killing myself right now, but I don’t want to hurt my friends, partner, and family. :/ I already failed at my suicide attempt a few weeks ago because I […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood I hope you consider seeking professional mental healthcare, in order to deal with these intrusive thoughts, an underlying imbalance doesn’t always follow logic or rationality. If you consider doing it, research a bit about how to talk about suicidal thoughts with professioanls so you don’t have to worry about being subjected…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    Good post on mental health apps: http://bpdelicacy.tumblr.com/post/163949662372/apps-that-can-help-you-with-your-mental-illness

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: silveRose143 posted an update Update:So on Septemper 20th, I had a doctor’s appointment and I found out that I needed to be induced the next day. That day, I went into labor. The bad news is that the epidural […] View

    Congratulations!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Evo posted an update What are you supposed to do when so many people consistently come to you for help, but you’re starting to slip, spead too thin and just can’t? View

    @evolyn I think in these cases the advice is to cut some spaces just for you, where you are not reachable. A few hours without your phone here and there, regularly, making it the new norm, and redirecting the people who rely on you towards other people, or paid professionals, to fill in the gaps you need for yourself.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: HighLows posted an update a little less than a year ago I withdrew fro my first semester of college after ending an abusive relationship. I was going to my dream school, a prestigious engineering institute. I […] View

    @ewintjen What do you plan to do about college? Will you go back?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update 4th september…. 4 days to know the results of my uni aplication :/ . I even had a nightmare this past night about it. I try to tell myself ”is ok, you’ll enter, and if you don’t you can go […] View

    @marikofujimoto Fingers crossed!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Guys i need some advice so basically this is around a year ago or so my mom said that someone called our landline saying they have pics of me and my boyfriend. The thing is she was […] View

    @positivity-vibes I think the best result would be to purposely act as you don’t care/register when your mother mentions this lie. People who deal with gaslighting have interesting results when they don’t have an apparent emotional reaction to being poked at, and they observe how the gaslighter reacts. It doesn’t solve the anxiety, but what…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings […] View

    @fancifranci I think it’s fine to pay the debt in another way, maybe not now but in the future you’ll have another chance to make it up to her about the free childcare. Maybe you’ll move there in a few years. If you take the sense of owing her out of the situation, what do you want to do? What’s in Texas for your career and your child, and…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    Insightful description of the elements to take in consideration when approaching someone in authority about a problem when underage: https://captainawkward.com/2017/07/20/998-my-very-first-dick-pic-a-horrible-coming-of-age-story/

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    rinseandrep posted an update 5 months ago

    Srebrenica

    • !995. No so long ago to be so violent and inhumane to ourselves.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Should we break up? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 5 months, 1 week ago

    @hollyblondy You seem to be steering more towards ending it rather than staying, so I’ll talk about ending it.

    Well, you don’t need a big, foolproof reason to breakup, being unhappy with the relationship is […]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Is it cold feet or a sign? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    @brookejordanxo People in relationships still get crushes on other people at times (but of course, what changes is not pursuing those crushes), so I guess this can be both, on one hand a first test on how you’ll […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

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