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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Guys i need some advice so basically this is around a year ago or so my mom said that someone called our landline saying they have pics of me and my boyfriend. The thing is she was […] View

    @positivity-vibes I think the best result would be to purposely act as you don’t care/register when your mother mentions this lie. People who deal with gaslighting have interesting results when they don’t have an apparent emotional reaction to being poked at, and they observe how the gaslighter reacts. It doesn’t solve the anxiety, but what…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings […] View

    @fancifranci I think it’s fine to pay the debt in another way, maybe not now but in the future you’ll have another chance to make it up to her about the free childcare. Maybe you’ll move there in a few years. If you take the sense of owing her out of the situation, what do you want to do? What’s in Texas for your career and your child, and…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    Insightful description of the elements to take in consideration when approaching someone in authority about a problem when underage: https://captainawkward.com/2017/07/20/998-my-very-first-dick-pic-a-horrible-coming-of-age-story/

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    rinseandrep posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Srebrenica

    • !995. No so long ago to be so violent and inhumane to ourselves.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Should we break up? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    @hollyblondy You seem to be steering more towards ending it rather than staying, so I’ll talk about ending it.

    Well, you don’t need a big, foolproof reason to breakup, being unhappy with the relationship is […]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Is it cold feet or a sign? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    @brookejordanxo People in relationships still get crushes on other people at times (but of course, what changes is not pursuing those crushes), so I guess this can be both, on one hand a first test on how you’ll […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Advice needed in the group Group logoVent It! 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    @lilwisher93 What do you want to tell them, about how you feel?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update I need to get some shit off my chest and just put all it out there in the open. I’m really frustrated with life right now. I’m not happy with my job and I feel like I’m not good enough at […] View

    @grace-mcfairy Good job on your sobriety! They say it should be a year without dating right? And, how long has he been sober? I think it’s good to talk about it, and to remember that waiting and thinking about it is probably the less damaging course of action here so don’t rush to a decision.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i want therapy but i cant afford it View

    @aireens If you are from the USA or Canada, you can check the article I have linked in my Bio.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 2 months ago

    How To Navigate Social Media When You’re Miserable: http://malloryomeara.tumblr.com/post/161863397632/dont-be-garbage-how-to-navigate-social-media

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead […] View

    @peiyopei Congratulations :)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update I have been dating this guy, Charles for 4 months. So far, it’s been great, i am falling in love with him and I do care about him.. There is a 20 year age difference, I am 23 and he […] View

    @paperkites21 Sounds like a handful, I hope it doesn’t become a pattern where when you discuss some problem it turns into a shame spiral. Maybe you can consider taking a stand and making it clear that you will cancel your plans together if he shows up in such a state to your times together.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Is there any clubs that talk about movies and series you watch? or music you listen to? Would be nice to socialise a bit better that way. Oh the same with books too, forgot about that View

    @marikofujimoto I think Goodreads could work for books, each book has a discussion board, although joining a group on there about a specific genre can be more engaging. Last.fm has as similar set
    -up. I used the IMDB boards for video things but after they got closed, I lack one space like that (out of the comments in TheMarySue posts)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update Looking for advice… Brother moving up North with his girlfriend in a few weeks, but I have the feeling they won’t work together. He expressed fears with the relationship before with me, […] View

    @princepossum Maybe you can ask him some version of “Hey brother do you realize that lately whenever you talk about her, it’s in a negative tone? What’s up with that?”, but do keep for yourself the “the sooner you break up, the better it is”. If they are moving for her needs only, maybe you can check if he’s sure about making this big step…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    @natalie-geroux Probably some version of a yes, yes. Do you already have strong positive models of it around you?

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    @natalie-geroux have you ever looked at a website about womanhood? (edit: maybe womanness, or femininity, fit better in this comparison)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: DignifiedQuark posted an update —So, about a year ago, I met two girls (Jane and Michelle). They’re best friends. I started to talk to both of them (just as friends!) And eventually started to date Jane. […] View

    @nathanlaufey Maybe you can apologize for butting in with your unasked-for advice (it didn’t sound like a good step to rekindle a friendship), and if she aknowledges it, ask her how things are going. Is this to get back at Jane or something, the pursuing of a relationship with her friend?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    @paperkites21 Some people would offer to help him with his rent for a few months just to buy themselves out of a remorse which would prevent them to break free, it’s an option if that’s one of the few things keeping you there.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: lemon posted an update does anyone know that website where you can type words and they just fall away, or any other good websites to go to when feeling depressed/thoughtful/anxious? Thank you View

    @pleasant-arithmetic http://www.themostdangerouswritingapp.com sort of, if you pick the hardcore mode, your words are blurred, but consider http://750words.com/ too in general.

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