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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I really wouldn’t mind killing myself right now, but I don’t want to hurt my friends, partner, and family. :/ I already failed at my suicide attempt a few weeks ago because I […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood I hope you consider seeking professional mental healthcare, in order to deal with these intrusive thoughts, an underlying imbalance doesn’t always follow logic or rationality. If you consider doing it, research a bit about how to talk about suicidal thoughts with professioanls so you don’t have to worry about being subjected…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    Good post on mental health apps: http://bpdelicacy.tumblr.com/post/163949662372/apps-that-can-help-you-with-your-mental-illness

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: silveRose143 posted an update Update:So on Septemper 20th, I had a doctor’s appointment and I found out that I needed to be induced the next day. That day, I went into labor. The bad news is that the epidural […] View

    Congratulations!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Evo posted an update What are you supposed to do when so many people consistently come to you for help, but you’re starting to slip, spead too thin and just can’t? View

    @evolyn I think in these cases the advice is to cut some spaces just for you, where you are not reachable. A few hours without your phone here and there, regularly, making it the new norm, and redirecting the people who rely on you towards other people, or paid professionals, to fill in the gaps you need for yourself.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: HighLows posted an update a little less than a year ago I withdrew fro my first semester of college after ending an abusive relationship. I was going to my dream school, a prestigious engineering institute. I […] View

    @ewintjen What do you plan to do about college? Will you go back?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update 4th september…. 4 days to know the results of my uni aplication :/ . I even had a nightmare this past night about it. I try to tell myself ”is ok, you’ll enter, and if you don’t you can go […] View

    @marikofujimoto Fingers crossed!

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Guys i need some advice so basically this is around a year ago or so my mom said that someone called our landline saying they have pics of me and my boyfriend. The thing is she was […] View

    @positivity-vibes I think the best result would be to purposely act as you don’t care/register when your mother mentions this lie. People who deal with gaslighting have interesting results when they don’t have an apparent emotional reaction to being poked at, and they observe how the gaslighter reacts. It doesn’t solve the anxiety, but what…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings […] View

    @fancifranci I think it’s fine to pay the debt in another way, maybe not now but in the future you’ll have another chance to make it up to her about the free childcare. Maybe you’ll move there in a few years. If you take the sense of owing her out of the situation, what do you want to do? What’s in Texas for your career and your child, and…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted an update 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    Insightful description of the elements to take in consideration when approaching someone in authority about a problem when underage: https://captainawkward.com/2017/07/20/998-my-very-first-dick-pic-a-horrible-coming-of-age-story/

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    rinseandrep posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    Srebrenica

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Should we break up? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    @hollyblondy You seem to be steering more towards ending it rather than staying, so I’ll talk about ending it.

    Well, you don’t need a big, foolproof reason to breakup, being unhappy with the relationship is […]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Is it cold feet or a sign? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    @brookejordanxo People in relationships still get crushes on other people at times (but of course, what changes is not pursuing those crushes), so I guess this can be both, on one hand a first test on how you’ll […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Advice needed in the group Group logoVent It! 3 months, 4 weeks ago

    @lilwisher93 What do you want to tell them, about how you feel?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update I need to get some shit off my chest and just put all it out there in the open. I’m really frustrated with life right now. I’m not happy with my job and I feel like I’m not good enough at […] View

    @grace-mcfairy Good job on your sobriety! They say it should be a year without dating right? And, how long has he been sober? I think it’s good to talk about it, and to remember that waiting and thinking about it is probably the less damaging course of action here so don’t rush to a decision.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i want therapy but i cant afford it View

    @aireens If you are from the USA or Canada, you can check the article I have linked in my Bio.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 4 months ago

    How To Navigate Social Media When You’re Miserable: http://malloryomeara.tumblr.com/post/161863397632/dont-be-garbage-how-to-navigate-social-media

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead […] View

    @peiyopei Congratulations :)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update I have been dating this guy, Charles for 4 months. So far, it’s been great, i am falling in love with him and I do care about him.. There is a 20 year age difference, I am 23 and he […] View

    @paperkites21 Sounds like a handful, I hope it doesn’t become a pattern where when you discuss some problem it turns into a shame spiral. Maybe you can consider taking a stand and making it clear that you will cancel your plans together if he shows up in such a state to your times together.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Is there any clubs that talk about movies and series you watch? or music you listen to? Would be nice to socialise a bit better that way. Oh the same with books too, forgot about that View

    @marikofujimoto I think Goodreads could work for books, each book has a discussion board, although joining a group on there about a specific genre can be more engaging. Last.fm has as similar set
    -up. I used the IMDB boards for video things but after they got closed, I lack one space like that (out of the comments in TheMarySue posts)

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