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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 days, 14 hours ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Advice needed in the group Group logoVent It! 4 days, 2 hours ago

    @lilwisher93 What do you want to tell them, about how you feel?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 4 days, 2 hours ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update I need to get some shit off my chest and just put all it out there in the open. I’m really frustrated with life right now. I’m not happy with my job and I feel like I’m not good enough at […] View

    @grace-mcfairy Good job on your sobriety! They say it should be a year without dating right? And, how long has he been sober? I think it’s good to talk about it, and to remember that waiting and thinking about it is probably the less damaging course of action here so don’t rush to a decision.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 days, 18 hours ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i want therapy but i cant afford it View

    @aireens If you are from the USA or Canada, you can check the article I have linked in my Bio.

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    rinseandrep posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    How To Navigate Social Media When You’re Miserable: http://malloryomeara.tumblr.com/post/161863397632/dont-be-garbage-how-to-navigate-social-media

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead […] View

    @peiyopei Congratulations :)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update I have been dating this guy, Charles for 4 months. So far, it’s been great, i am falling in love with him and I do care about him.. There is a 20 year age difference, I am 23 and he […] View

    @paperkites21 Sounds like a handful, I hope it doesn’t become a pattern where when you discuss some problem it turns into a shame spiral. Maybe you can consider taking a stand and making it clear that you will cancel your plans together if he shows up in such a state to your times together.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Is there any clubs that talk about movies and series you watch? or music you listen to? Would be nice to socialise a bit better that way. Oh the same with books too, forgot about that View

    @marikofujimoto I think Goodreads could work for books, each book has a discussion board, although joining a group on there about a specific genre can be more engaging. Last.fm has as similar set
    -up. I used the IMDB boards for video things but after they got closed, I lack one space like that (out of the comments in TheMarySue posts)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update Looking for advice… Brother moving up North with his girlfriend in a few weeks, but I have the feeling they won’t work together. He expressed fears with the relationship before with me, […] View

    @princepossum Maybe you can ask him some version of “Hey brother do you realize that lately whenever you talk about her, it’s in a negative tone? What’s up with that?”, but do keep for yourself the “the sooner you break up, the better it is”. If they are moving for her needs only, maybe you can check if he’s sure about making this big step…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 3 weeks, 5 days ago

    @natalie-geroux Probably some version of a yes, yes. Do you already have strong positive models of it around you?

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Real Men in the group Group logoHelping Hands 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    @natalie-geroux have you ever looked at a website about womanhood? (edit: maybe womanness, or femininity, fit better in this comparison)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: DignifiedQuark posted an update —So, about a year ago, I met two girls (Jane and Michelle). They’re best friends. I started to talk to both of them (just as friends!) And eventually started to date Jane. […] View

    @nathanlaufey Maybe you can apologize for butting in with your unasked-for advice (it didn’t sound like a good step to rekindle a friendship), and if she aknowledges it, ask her how things are going. Is this to get back at Jane or something, the pursuing of a relationship with her friend?

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    @paperkites21 Some people would offer to help him with his rent for a few months just to buy themselves out of a remorse which would prevent them to break free, it’s an option if that’s one of the few things keeping you there.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: lemon posted an update does anyone know that website where you can type words and they just fall away, or any other good websites to go to when feeling depressed/thoughtful/anxious? Thank you View

    @pleasant-arithmetic http://www.themostdangerouswritingapp.com sort of, if you pick the hardcore mode, your words are blurred, but consider http://750words.com/ too in general.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Prettyangel197 posted an update I feel like a terrible person because I get jealous when my best guy friend hangs out with this other girl. I love that he has other friends but I still get jealous whenever he […] View

    @prettyangel197 No, it can happen, what matters is what you do with this feeling, if you act on it and influence their life in a negative way, it would be a problem. You can also work in the other direction and branch out to other people/groups/activities so your mind is busy with other things, and you’ll feel less pained by what your friends are doing.

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Sarah posted an update Life has been kinda rough for me lately. I’ve been trying to lose weight all my life, but since January, I have been actually working hard at it. I was the same weight from month to month […] View

    @bornxlivedxdied It’s okay, take it easy and see how things go as you slowly ease into your previous habits, recovery is a big goal now, and school I guess, so you can just focus on feeling if your back/neck is okay; and weight should not be looked at as a punishment or something bad (*no devil’s advocates chiming in, please*) so try to disrupt…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update So I finally called up to the place where I went to drivers school at and I told them how mean the guy was to me and how I feel like I waisted my money because I still don’t feel […] View

    @layla95 Maybe there’s a Yelp-thingy for business in your area where you can leave your opinion about their practices.

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    rinseandrep replied to the forum topic Am I wrong here? in the group Group logoGeneral 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    @miserystoy GIrlfriend as in partner? If yes :/ that must have hurt. I hope you manage to set up something nice/special to make it different, at least for this year, even in the days immediately after. I’m weird […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Bleh met this nice girl yesterday in chat and we started talking in private. She was really sweet but today she blocked me for some reason. I’m so tired of looking for my S.O… View

    @gleb when you start by talking about private things, the relationship can be doomed from the beginning, too much emotional exposure, often one sided; something more spread over time can have better results. If you look for a relationship on here, then better get used to this kind of abrupt endings. :/

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update I always thought me learning how to drive would at least make me feel somewhat complete but now that’s it’s officially over with and I knew all these years of being told that I actually […] View

    @layla95 I remember a friend telling me how his driving instructor did something like that, and he stopped the car and told him he either would be calm or he was changing instructors. The instructor shut up and behaved properly from there on. I hope you can find another one.

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