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    Postive Vibes posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    So guys i am a bit confused and need your advice really so as you know my parents don’t like my bf and he is from a different city. He has applied to work at my current work place and i am confused whether i should tell my parents or not as if i do they will behave strangely with me when i go to work

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    • Truth is usually better than hiding. But, he hasn’t got the job, no need to jump the gun. If he gets the job, then you need to consider things.

      Also, working together can be hard. If you break up, who will keep their job if you don’t want to see each other? Workplace romances can distract you at work and could potentially be problematic.

      Move slow. Move carefully.

    • Yeah I do agree but, I’m just considering if does get the job what shall I do? He is not looking to stay there long term only about a year or so.

    • Maybe working together will make your relationship stronger but it could also have negative effects @positivity-vibes, I would talk to him about what you both want to do, I’m sure no matter what happens things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @positivity-vibes right away I’ll be honest, not a good thing working in the same place as your partner. Usually goes wrong. Now aside of that cause that wasn’t your question, your question was what to do cause your parents hate him. If you are 18+ years old , you are an adult. You are responsable for yourself. If you feel like you are in a healthy relationship and your parents hatred is ilogical, I say keep doing what you doing. Why would you need to tell them? Is not them that have to like him, is you.