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    Postive Vibes posted an update 11 hours, 45 minutes ago

    Hi guys,

    So I just had an interview for a placement today, out of 120 applicants only 4 were chosen and out of four, there will only be one.

    #positivevibes #positivethoughts # whateverhappenshappensforthebest

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    • That’s awesome @positivity-vibes, I’m sure the placement will go well, you will be selected and be successful, stay positive, keep smiling and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hey guys i had a question and just wanted your views on it if a girl goes to visit her boyfriend in a hotel room as he is staying over in her city is that bad? At this point she is […] View

    Yeah both of them are 21 not its not like they are minors they are adults now

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 1 month ago

    Hey guys i had a question and just wanted your views on it if a girl goes to visit her boyfriend in a hotel room as he is staying over in her city is that bad? At this point she is not telling her parents. I’ve got a friend with the same problem i’ve told her not to worry but just wanted your views

    Mood : Calm
    • i dont think its bad. although i hope her boyfriend or the place is not dangerous tho.

    • What are the ages? The guy will probably be looking for sex, so if that is already part of the relationship, expect it. If it isn’t, it is a setting where that can easily happen.

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      I would just make sure everyone is comfortable with the arrangement and the hotel is safe @positivity-vibes, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • If she’s an adult, why not; if the parents don’t know because she’s a minor, I guess there’s a bunch of complications to be discussed regarding adults who secretly have sex with minors in hotels. It’s anyways always good to let a trusted friend know where she is/will go/will be.

    • Yeah both of them are 21 not its not like they are minors they are adults now

    • no

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hello, all you lovely people,I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.So yday whilst i […] View

    thank you

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hello, all you lovely people,I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.So yday whilst i […] View

    Thank you so much! Literally, after reading your message I feel so much better, I agree we are in 2018 now and things change like you said it’s not 1920 so I am now just going to focus on making our future bright together!

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hello, all you lovely people,I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.So yday whilst i […] View

    Thank you Oli, for them because, i am the eldest in the family, it seems really difficult for them to overcome this. They don’t want to meet him at all :(

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 2 months ago

    Hello, all you lovely people,

    I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.

    So yday whilst i was praying my mom brings him up. she was like do u wanna marry him? (P.s we have been together for 4 years and are 20 me and him being 21) to which i ask why.

    She…[Read more]

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    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Your family really should support you and your relationship with your boyfriend @positivity-vibes, let your parents know how much you love him and want to be with him, hopefully they will come to understand how happy he makes you once they meet him and everything will be OK, try to stay upbeat and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

    • @positivity-vibes as someone who went through the same (difference is my parents are catholic and portuguese) my advice is to not give a fuck. Your parents will always panic and go “omg what will people think??”. That’s no way of living.
      From what I understood they are indians living in the UK. Is fine loving your culture but not judging the…[Read more]

    • You can look at it as your parents are big adults, they are more familiar with the subject, and they’ll surely manage to find a way to deal with this, which is not your problem. @positivity-vibes

    • Thank you Oli, for them because, i am the eldest in the family, it seems really difficult for them to overcome this. They don’t want to meet him at all :(

    • Thank you so much! Literally, after reading your message I feel so much better, I agree we are in 2018 now and things change like you said it’s not 1920 so I am now just going to focus on making our future bright together!

    • thank you

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    Guys i need some advice so basically this is around a year ago or so my mom said that someone called our landline saying they have pics of me and my boyfriend. The thing is she was there when that phonecall came but 1.5 years down the line nothing has happened but mom always makes me feel guilty about it but i think she is lying cause she may have…[Read more]

    Mood : Guilty
    • @positivity-vibes I think the best result would be to purposely act as you don’t care/register when your mother mentions this lie. People who deal with gaslighting have interesting results when they don’t have an apparent emotional reaction to being poked at, and they observe how the gaslighter reacts. It doesn’t solve the anxiety, but what…[Read more]

    • Your mother really should be happy and proud that you are in a loving relationship @positivity-vibes, don’t let her threats, lies and blackmail get you down, focus on making each day stronger with your boyfriend and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone (hugs)

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    Good feelings…. good vibes….. good days

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    • It’s good to see you positive and happy @positivity-vibes, smile and keep being wonderful, I’m always here if you want to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 9 months, 2 weeks ago

    Positive vibes everyone’s way

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    • It’s great to see you upbeat and happy @positivity-vibes, hope things are going well for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 11 months ago

    In reply to: PaperKites21 posted an update Ok, I am having thoughts about breaking up with my boyfriend. We have been dating since 2010 we also live together- have been for 2 years now. Five months ago, things between us have […] View

    Hi I totally get how you feel. I know spending 6 years with someone is a very long time and you are bound to get even more attached. But if there is no love in a relationship or if he is treating you that way girl you deserve someone much better that that. If you don’t feel loved or you having a feeling its not right i would say follow what your…[Read more]

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 11 months ago

    In reply to: Anirudh posted an update .For obvious reasons,I guess there is a rant to come out from my side.This happened last week.I shouted on a someone who is way too close to someone that I know.Pretty badly.Although I […] View

    Hey just came across your post. Everyone in life makes mistakes and have they accepted your apology? As long as you know you have apologised and done the right thing no need to regret it. Maybe there was a reason why that relationship/friendship lasted that time.

    Stay blessed, positive vibes your way

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 11 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update So.. is 31 degrees here.. and NO WIND… Doesn’t help that time of the month came today .. I’m just uuuurrrrggghhh. And I have yoga this late afternoon. So yoga + hot weather + 1º day of my […] View

    Hope it helps x

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    Postive Vibes posted a new activity comment 11 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update So.. is 31 degrees here.. and NO WIND… Doesn’t help that time of the month came today .. I’m just uuuurrrrggghhh. And I have yoga this late afternoon. So yoga + hot weather + 1º day of my […] View

    Girl I totally get you! You know what helps me eating cold ice cream helps the pain and helps in hot weather too!

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    Postive Vibes posted an update 11 months ago

    Just wanted suggestions really so my bf birthday is still ages away and as u some know my parents don’t like him as ” we don’t know his family” as we both live in different cities. Anyways i really wanna go for his birthday party as it is his 21st and last year my parents didn’t let me go, nor the year before any suggestions?

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    • @positivity-vibes could I ask how old are you? if you’re 18+ your parents can’t exactly tell you what to do. If it’s an innocent party (aka not everyone getting drunk and such) I see no harm in going. You should support your partner. Best of luck <3

    • I would go to your boyfriend’s party and enjoy yourself @positivity-vibes, hopefully your parents will come to accept him if they get to meet him and talk to him, remember to keep on building your relationship and making it stronger as each day passes, try to stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me…[Read more]

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