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    Oli posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    The past couple of days have been difficult for me, on a personal note, my sadness is still with me but I’m trying to stay positive and fight it as best I can, I recently lost a dear friend to suicide and I’m feeling guilty for not being able to prevent or stop it, I wish I could go back in time and stop my friend from harming themselves, I just…[Read more]

    Mood : Guilty
    • @oliver you couldn’t have done anything Oli. You helped that person as much as you could , that decision was made from that person, not your fault. And I’m sending you much love, so sorry for losing your friend. Wish I could give you a huge hug.
      Also thank you for the lovely message, I hope everyone keeps this message close to their minds and…[Read more]

    • @Oliver
      I’m sorry for your loss, Oli. I can’t imagine the pain you must be going through, and I know it’s easier said than done, but you can’t blame yourself. Knowing who you are, I’m sure you did all you could have to help and be there for them.
      My thoughts are with you, buddy. <3

    • I’m so sorry for your loss! ♥ You are such a kind soul.

    • I’m so sorry, no one should have to suffer through the loss of a suicide. Stay strong, okay? If there’s anything I know, it’s that you’re an amazing and supportive friend. Every time I get on BT you post a supportive and kind message. If you ever need anything, I’m always here. You can do anything.

    • I am sorry to hear that Oli, please do not feel guilty. I think you are a wonderful person who touches so many people with your empathy and compassion. Sometimes, we can help a person, but it is up to them to take the right steps forward. It is awful, but sometimes it is not up to us, and you cannot blame yourself for someone’s decision. You…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Wooooooooow incredibly stressed since University is FAST approaching. New quarter system, new professors, new environment. Scared outta my mind. :( I hope I can get clarity real soon in all Uni matters, career matters, financial matters, family matters, and insecurity with myself matters. I’m trying to breathe in and out to relax. It can’t be…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Try to relax and focus on getting everything in order as best you can @pandagirl96, please don’t feel down about yourself Jozy, you are such a beautiful, special and incredible person who deserves happiness in her life, please know that the journey ahead will be filled with sunshine and hope for you, university will go great and you will be…[Read more]

    • Millions of people do this every year, and most of them face the same anxiety and worries and concerns you have. In in a few months what is new today will be old hat and you will wonder, “What was I so worried about?” You can do this. And, by the way, most people make mistakes and stuff along the way – that’s life. Just keep doing one thing at…[Read more]

    • Try to see this with a positive look. If you go there already being negative trust me, will be very hard to actually see good things. Also the comment above is true, millions of people go through the same. I’m also going through the same and trust me, is not that bad. Just go to classes, try to get notes and study as hard as you can. Try to…[Read more]

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 month, 1 week ago

    Yes, as long as the weather is breezy and warm, so I won’t be cold as heck in the morning.

    Would you ever kayak in a deep cave with stalagmites and stalactites everywhere pointed at ya?

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    ABSOLUTELY would eat mint chocolate icecream! It’s my favorite.

    Would you ever go ziplining through dangerous forests?

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    Yes, I would answer my own question. :)

    Would you ever eat mint chocolate icecream?

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    I hate myself because I’m so dumb :( I’m so slow at understanding something. Lately, transitioning to university has been a real pain due to the fact that I’m so slow at understanding everything. Everyone around me seems to fully understand what the staff or professors or doctors are saying with ease. When I asked a question to one of the…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel down @pandagirl96, the school administrators really should help and support you if you are finding things difficult Jozy, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it, I’m sure everything will get easier as time goes on, smile and keep going forward with confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

    • @pandagirl96 you’re not slow. Every single freshman feels that way , they just hide it. Trust me, we all feel dumb there. In your second year you’ll feel more at “home”.
      If you truly feel like you’re struggling you can do some things to help though. You can study extra, like.. take photocopies, do notes of what you learn in class, buy those…[Read more]

    • @pandgirl96 I have the same problem quite often. Administrative staff and professors at college can be real douchebags if they want to. What I’ve learned after year one:
      1. Some professors are simply jerks, they treat everyone that way. They see so many students asking questions that they won’t remember you asking, either, so no need to worry…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Somewhere beyond the sea
    Somewhere waiting for me
    …I’ll be happy…

    Mood : Drained
    • You are such a lovely, beautiful and incredible person who deserves happiness, hope and joy in life @pandagirl96, try to stay positive and focus on all the things that give you purpose and confidence Jozy, know the journey ahead will be filled with lots of special moments and amazing opportunities for you, believe in yourself Jozy and never give…[Read more]

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    I would probably tunnel through the snow, but only if tunneling led me to an igloo place to chill in for a bit and drink hot cocoa or something.

    Would you ever go shark cage diving?

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    Nah, I don’t think I’d have the guts to do that, especially to strangers.

    Would you ever write your own novel?

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    What are little things in your life that make your day?

    • It’s the things that make you happy and bring a smile to your face @pandagirl96, surround yourself with positivity Jozy and stay upbeat, do activities that fill you with hope and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Animals and babies. Why? Because their the most innocent beings in the world to me. What makes you happy?

    • @layla95 Aw, thats a wonderful thought. One animal in my mind is pandas. I like the lil cuddly baby pandas and babies are adorable to think of being so innocent and a sense of newness to the world. What makes me happy is sunsets near the beach (pier), ukelele music, samoyed puppies, seeing others genuinely smile after having a rough day, getting a…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    What do you do to relax? I need to de-stress myself and just reorganize my thoughts.

    Mood : Curious
    • Find activities or things to do that will make you feel good and bring a beautiful smile to your face @pandagirl96, surround yourself with positivity and keep going forward Jozy, you can do it, hope you have a brilliant day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey I’m just now seeing this but usually I drink hot drinks to destress things like chamomile tea which is suppose to help with stress, green teas, and herbal teas. I take long, hot bubble baths and either read a book while relaxing or listen to some of my favorite oldies like the music that i listened to as a child and teenager. Long walks in a…[Read more]

    • @layla95 That is actually a good idea to do now. Feeling so sad and all and tea+music+a good book is a good idea to ease the sadness. Thank you..!

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    Oli posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    The struggle goes on, I wish I knew what happiness is, all I know is that this world, my lonely and depressing existence holds no joy for me, everything is just so bleak, dark and sad, I’m scared about what lies ahead for me, I just see more failure and being a burden to everything and everyone, I have no purpose, no sense of peace, I’m just a…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • sorry you’re feeling like this… you’re a very helpful, kind person who deserves the best in life. I believe that you’ll have brighter days and everything will start to make more sense. Do more of what you love and helps you to feel better, @Oliver. Everything will be just fine, hang in there, life does get better especially if we believe and…[Read more]

    • @oliver happiness is YOU I wish you could see that. You’re amazing to everyone on this community and I’m sure you’re the same in your day to day life as well. You need to step outside of your own self for a few weeks and see yourself in third person then you will start to see your worth. I would love to see you express your likes and desires on…[Read more]

    • You won’t always love yourself and thats okay. Today, let US care about you even if you dont feel it. There is security to be found even in the darkest of times if one only remembers that tomorrow is close. You are not alone in your sorrow know that we know what pain feels like and we feel for you, you are one of us, to us you dont qualify as a…[Read more]

    • @oliver Hey remember me from years ago? Seeing you post these statuses makes me wonder what is going on. But you are helping so many people, and you are very much appreciated. I remember when your daily messages helped me trough some tough times. I am here for you too if you need me. don’t hesitate to message me. You’re an awesome person!

    • @oliver my awesome friendie, you’re a great person. You’re strong and brave, because you’ve survived 100$ of your dark and hard days and kept going no matter what. You’re not a failure and you didn’t bring anyone down. People here adore and love you because you help everyone so much. I’m always here if you need to talk, just send me a pm.…[Read more]

    • Sorry to hear that you feel this way but you know there is always someone who cares about you. I’m always here for you if you ever need to talk to me. Keep your head held high chicken and don’t let yourself be brought down as your a strong fighter. Message me anytime if you need to talk.

    • You should be happy you help people in their darkest places help fighting their darkest demons. your a fighter and a strong one. don’t let the world bring you down when you belong amongst the stars! your not a failure you didn’t bring anyone down and if people say you have than their dragging their own weight. keep your head held high kings hold…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be
    A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.”
    -La La Land

    Mood : Worried
    • And it could be just around the corner. That movie was just okay – in the end it seemed to be about lost opportunities, when it should have ben about celebrating what was, and what was accomplished. You got this – just keep looking until you find it. It took U2 a while t find what they were looking for…

    • You will find a place and direction in life where you feel totally happy and comfortable @pandagirl96, try to stay positive and hold your head up high Jozy, the journey ahead will be filled with hope and brightness for you, go forward with a sense of confidence and don’t let anything stand in your way, you can do it, believe in yourself and never…[Read more]

    • @tanisha I sure hope so…I really do. Confused in life so far, and I somewhat had the same reaction to the movie. The movie was good to me mostly in the dialogue of the whole “failing to make it in life part” since I related to the characters in the fact that dreams are so hard to fulfill in life, but that it “might” be possible somehow if…[Read more]

    • @Oli i hope so. Feeling shifts of moods of happy and then just miserable because direction in life is still waivering. Ill try…

    • Dreams are often hard to fulfill, and often when we get there, they aren’t what we thought they were. Too often we look at someone else and wish what they had without realizing the sacrifices they made to get there, nor the fact that we are different and it really wouldn’t work for us the way it works for them.

      Focus on you, on your…[Read more]

    • @tanisha True definitely we never know if our goals are actually worth it towards the end for sure, and I agree everyone is different towards how they got to their dreams of their life in their own ways. My strengths? See, that’s where Im so down. I think so low of myself that I don’t think highly at all of myself with regards to me being…[Read more]

    • Everyone has self-doubts. the person sitting next to you on the bus, just the same as you at some point. Sounds like you should explore areas in film or writing. There is a creative part of you there. Maybe simply becoming a film critic – start a film critic blog – make it funny and personal – make it you. Just a thought.

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    Jozy posted an update 2 months ago

    I don’t know where I am going…please be strong…please.

    Mood : Gloomy
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Please don’t let sadness get you down @pandagirl96, you will find the right direction for yourself in life Jozy, remember to smile, hold your head up high and look forward as your future will be so bright and filled with hope, you are such a beautiful angel who will achieve great things, know the journey ahead will have lots of special moments…[Read more]

    • No replied 2 months ago

      Hands Jozy (#pandagirl96) a map. It just takes time to find your place on this thing, but once you do, you’ll be okay and know where you are. Do be strong – make a muscle in the mirror with your bicep, and take a picture of it. Post it in a few places where you live, and use it to encourage yourself to be strong.

    • @tanisha Ill try to do that to boost myself up..thank u! It is defin. going to take a lot of time but im gonna try my best, thank u!

    • One step at a time. Keep going.

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    Jozy posted an update 2 months ago

    ”And there will be a day when you can say you’re okay and mean it
    I promise you it’ll all make sense again
    I promise you it’ll all make sense again.”

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