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    Coolsoda posted an update 6 months ago

    I’m trying to be kinder…kinder as in more compassionate, more honest, more understanding, humble–definitely more humble and more grateful. But it’s really hard, it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest I doubt my willpower mostly. It’s too easy to slip back into what you used to be. What stops you from falling back into old habits, more than that the ability to mostly not care? Advice is always appreciated–gracias.

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    • I think you can do anything that you put your mind too!

    • @pepperman that’s very sweet of you :) We need more people as kind as you

    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Keep being the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are @pepperman, always be sweet and spread hope as much as you can, smile and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • No replied 6 months ago

      That’s a lot of things you’re trying there all at once. Maybe you could just do one and go from there. One step, one thing at a time. A simple exercise is called 10:1 – You bless the first 10 people you meet in your day (a kind word, an encouraging thought, A note of encouragement, a quick prayer for them), and 1 random act of kindness each day. Ummm. While that sounds like 11 things, it is actually just one attitude focus, so it only counts as one thing…

    • That’s very kind and sweet and you can do it! Just take one day at a time. (:

    • ”it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest” truest thing ive heard anybody say in a long time