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    Coolsoda posted an update 1 year ago

    Ever liked someone so much it hurts? We should start a club!

    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Hopefully you will be able to build up a bond and friendship with this person @pepperman, try talking to them, start a conversation and see what happens, maybe they will respond positively, you deserve good people around you, everyone does, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Liking someone is a part of life, we are attracted to people and sometimes it does pain us to not be with them. I am so part of that club.

    • It’s been quite a long time since I’ve felt that way for someone. But I surely understand.

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i cant express this enough i say it a lot but it really literally ties into every aspect of life the only person you can control is yourself…if you desire something or someone this comes from your instinctual need to procreate our bodies are hardwired to desire the companionship of others but realistically at this day in age theirs so many fuckin people in this world its insane i used to think i was in love with someone but when i started looking around i realized that there are other people out there a lot like the person i was with i know this is a hard thing to swallow but love the kind of love you feel for someone when you first get together isn’t love like not all its mostly chemical true love come waaaay later like when you’ve been together for like 5 years and the person goes away for a week and you just about die without them to have someone you can bear those ugly truths to and talk shit about other people behind their backs it takes a lot to get to that point a lot of hate and arguments a lot of struggles and challenges and in the end is it really worth it? one of you is gonna die before the other does and its gonna be really fkn sad for awhile to put yourself through all of that is a huge fkn commitment people and the short term is this person gonna make a good dad for our kids is he trust worthy with bills and other things like these are all huge things to consider and yeah when i go on a date i carry a lot of this with me like a loaded gun shooting off questions right off the bat idgaf go on a date with me it means your taking a step towards a commitment and i need to know ahead of time…i cant control anything outside of myself so i need to make sure the person who im with is rock fkn solid other wise were both just wasting our time and if this guy doesnt like you back no sweat there 6billion other people on the planet and if you dont know what 6 billion people looks like…if you had one penny for every person in the world it would be about the size of 30 schools busses lined up together…and your just one of those siney pennies trying to find only one other one…theres so many to choose from dont settle for anything less then what you want and if you never find it…you were gonna die anyway so at least you didnt live your life settling for less then what you deserve

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i cant express this enough i say it a lot but it really literally ties into every aspect of life the only person you can control is yourself…if you desire something or someone this comes from your instinctual need to procreate our bodies are hardwired to desire the companionship of others but realistically at this day in age theirs so many fuckin people in this world its insane i used to think i was in love with someone but when i started looking around i realized that there are other people out there a lot like the person i was with i know this is a hard thing to swallow but love the kind of love you feel for someone when you first get together isn’t love like not all its mostly chemical true love come waaaay later like when you’ve been together for like 5 years and the person goes away for a week and you just about die without them to have someone you can bear those ugly truths to and talk shit about other people behind their backs it takes a lot to get to that point a lot of hate and arguments a lot of struggles and challenges and in the end is it really worth it? one of you is gonna die before the other does and its gonna be really fkn sad for awhile to put yourself through all of that is a huge fkn commitment people and the short term is this person gonna make a good dad for our kids is he trust worthy with bills and other things like these are all huge things to consider and yeah when i go on a date i carry a lot of this with me like a loaded gun shooting off questions right off the bat idgaf go on a date with me it means your taking a step towards a commitment and i need to know ahead of time…i cant control anything outside of myself so i need to make sure the person who im with is rock fkn solid other wise were both just wasting our time and if this guy doesnt like you back no sweat there 6billion other people on the planet and if you dont know what 6 billion people looks like…if you had one penny for every person in the world it would be about the size of 30 schools busses lined up together…and your just one of those siney pennies trying to find only one other one…theres so many to choose from dont settle for anything less then what you want and if you never find it…you were gonna die anyway so at least you didnt live your life settling for less then what you deserve