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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update I keep screwing up my love life and I’m so tired of it. View

    I don’t know you Oliver but I do know the feeling, and I believe someday we will both find someone to be happy with. Someone who gets it, someone cool and funny and totally hot that’s what I want. What about you? What kind of person do you want?

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    Coolsoda posted an update 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    I’m trying to be kinder…kinder as in more compassionate, more honest, more understanding, humble–definitely more humble and more grateful. But it’s really hard, it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest I doubt my willpower mostly. It’s too easy to slip back into what you used to be. What stops you from falling back into old…[Read more]

    Mood : Hopeful
    • I think you can do anything that you put your mind too!

    • @pepperman that’s very sweet of you :) We need more people as kind as you

    • Keep being the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are @pepperman, always be sweet and spread hope as much as you can, smile and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That’s a lot of things you’re trying there all at once. Maybe you could just do one and go from there. One step, one thing at a time. A simple exercise is called 10:1 – You bless the first 10 people you meet in your day (a kind word, an encouraging thought, A note of encouragement, a quick prayer for them), and 1 random act of kindness each day.…[Read more]

    • That’s very kind and sweet and you can do it! Just take one day at a time. (:

    • ”it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest” truest thing ive heard anybody say in a long time

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    Coolsoda replied to the forum topic Answer a question, ask a question. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    This is a very hard question to answer, but I heard a wonderful quote that…”Comparison is the thief of joy”, and that’s basically what depression is but internalized. We all feel life should be more, and the […]

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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    Thank you! Message me if you ever feel like more encouragement or if your just feeling chatty.

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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    Well thank you Mariko! I’m glad to be back..atleast for now. I hope you’re doing well too? It’s incredible what a simple honest word can do to brighten someone’s day…we forget that sometimes. Thanks for reminding of that.

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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    Thanks for the warm welcome Oli. I am going to take your advice to heart when or if I ever need it, and I just hope you know that if you ever need anyone too, well we are all here.

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    Coolsoda posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah is a beautiful reality with beautiful raw people. You guys make this place, I know sometimes everything feels so unbearably hard–cause it is, but I promise…[Read more]

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    • It’s great to see you back on Blah @pepperman, you are right, this is a compassionate and amazing site filled with the most helpful people, keep being lovely and wonderful, hope you are OK, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Your words are very encouraging @pepperman welcome back :)

    • @pepperman Welcome back! :) I’m really happy to see you’re doing well. And thank you for the positivity, Blah sure needs it!

    • Thanks for the warm welcome Oli. I am going to take your advice to heart when or if I ever need it, and I just hope you know that if you ever need anyone too, well we are all here.

    • Well thank you Mariko! I’m glad to be back..atleast for now. I hope you’re doing well too? It’s incredible what a simple honest word can do to brighten someone’s day…we forget that sometimes. Thanks for reminding of that.

    • Thank you! Message me if you ever feel like more encouragement or if your just feeling chatty.

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    Coolsoda posted an update 1 year, 8 months ago

    Ever liked someone so much it hurts? We should start a club!

    • Hopefully you will be able to build up a bond and friendship with this person @pepperman, try talking to them, start a conversation and see what happens, maybe they will respond positively, you deserve good people around you, everyone does, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]

    • Liking someone is a part of life, we are attracted to people and sometimes it does pain us to not be with them. I am so part of that club.

    • It’s been quite a long time since I’ve felt that way for someone. But I surely understand.

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]

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    Coolsoda posted an update 1 year, 9 months ago

    I think I might have borderline personality disorder-I retook the “test” 4 times each with a similar result-I guess it makes sense…I don’t know I don’t lash out at people, I just internalize everything. Maybe all we can really strive for its a blank enchantment with people. People honestly fascinate me but I know they will also always…[Read more]

    Mood : Blank
    • I would try talking to a counsellor or therapist @pepperman, you are a lovely person who deserves all the best in life, I don’t want to see you hurt or in pain, try to stay positive and focus on all the good things that will happen to you, I’m sure things will be OK, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m…[Read more]

    • Remember online tests aren’t fully accurate and the only way to truly get diagnosed is to go to a psychiatrist or psychologist. You are an awesome person and it’s ok to be different. As someone with Bipolar disorder I know what it is like to lash out at people suddenly, I am always open to talk and will try to help however I can. We will try to…[Read more]

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    Coolsoda replied to the forum topic Frustrated with my body in the group Group logoEating Disorders 1 year, 9 months ago

    Maybe try seeing a nutritionist and try walking or running-no locker rooms :)

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    Coolsoda joined the group Group logoEating Disorders 1 year, 9 months ago

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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update Honestly, I’m a mess, I’m always struggling with depression and loneliness, I hate this, I can’t sort myself out at all, no one cares, I’m just getting by and surviving, but what’s the point?, […] View

    I wish I could give you some peace of mind because I know thats not true, no really, it isn’t :) people love you and I know you probaly don’t feel that way and I know everything sucks and there is this huge sinking hole and your just in the middle of it wondering how your ever going to get out but you have to trust me and everyone, that things…[Read more]

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    Coolsoda replied to the forum topic What do girl's look for first in a guy? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 1 year, 9 months ago

    No problem it’s what I’m here for! And again it depends, I find more artistically inclined, abstract/edgier pretty much indier type girls tend to prefer guys with longer fuller feminine hair, while more […]

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    Coolsoda replied to the forum topic What do girl's look for first in a guy? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 1 year, 10 months ago

    Gotta agree with Red Sheep first I’ll notice if they have good hair, then eye expressions (you can tell alot about a guy by their eye expressions, I swear :) then physique. This of course all takes place in a […]

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    Coolsoda posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    I never feel like I can be honest and say stuff like this-because I know so many people (life) and on this website are dealing with things much bigger and I always just feel like I’m dragging everyone down when I talk like this but honestly I’m so tired of stepping around everyone’s’ feelings, trying to keep everything glued together. I wish I…[Read more]

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    • exactly things arent roses and butterflies the simple fact of the matter is were all just here trying to coexist theres no real point to anything since this life is in fact temporary we all die its going to happen there’s no magical mysterious meaning to it we delude ourselves thinking there could be a better place but we in fact simply don’t…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel alone @pepperman, remember we are all here to support you on Blah, I may not know you personally but I want to see you smiling and being fantastic, things will work out for you and so many more brighter and better days will be ahead, you will do great things and you will have a fabulous future, hold your head up high and be as…[Read more]

    • @pepperman To some extent, acting like you feel better is proven to help a bit to actually make you feel better, that might be one reason people suggest it to you. I think ‘life sucks’ is reductive, yes there’s not much fairness or control but we would be lying if we said we never enjoy anything. We have our good moments, and to some extent, we…[Read more]

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    Coolsoda posted an update 1 year, 11 months ago

    I’ve decided to no longer care what anyone else thinks. Call it a New Years Resolution, easier said then done though. Any advice would be greatly appreciated

    • It is hard at first, but then you’ll realise that you’re ok doing things that make you happy.
      Just don’t do anything that can hurt someone else and you’ll feel really free, you know, without caring about how others see you and also a little ”f*ck it” attitude :)

    • Remember to do what makes you happy and comfortable in life @pepperman, stay positive and do inspire people as you go along, I’m sure things will work out for you 100%, never give up, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Coolsoda posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Lauren posted an update I was out shopping with my best friend today when I saw freelance packages of blades, I had to hold myself back from grabbing them and buying them while she was around. But I know, one day […] View

    I don’t know you stopped yourself then-and the force was strong gahh im terrible :) but how strong you are is up to you. You make your life, try to remember the big picture, the end result, which is overcoming this! I read somewhere that sometimes all you can do is just sit on your hands and wait for the moment to be over. Don’t go back to that…[Read more]

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    Coolsoda and Profile picture of maddiescoutmaddiescout are now friends 1 year, 11 months ago

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