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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I keep getting harassed on here. Is it just me, or is it happening to other people? View

    @pentastic If you mean on the chat, yeah, there’s 2 or 3 timewasters for every 5 people you meet, you can report them to make things harder for them and move on to a new listener/venter as soon as they behave in a non proper way, I find that helps speeding up things and reach the serious ones asap.

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I keep getting harassed on here. Is it just me, or is it happening to other people? View

    // keep getting harassed on here.// @pentastic
    Where exactly? at chat-hub? O_O
    Are ’listeners’ harassing you? and may I ask how exactly are they harassing you? What do they say that makes you feel harassed?

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I keep getting harassed on here. Is it just me, or is it happening to other people? View

    Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @pentastic, this is a place of compassion, love and support, do report those who are mean Angie, remember many more kind members of the Blah community are willing to help and be there for you, you can message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 7 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I just got harassed on here. This is a place where I least expected it. I was called a ”cocksucker” and a ”retard” because I guess I wasn’t venting correctly. I wasn’t even upset before […] View

    @pentastic Sorry, I hope you !slammed the door” in the face of that jerk and reported them. :/

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I just got harassed on here. This is a place where I least expected it. I was called a ”cocksucker” and a ”retard” because I guess I wasn’t venting correctly. I wasn’t even upset before […] View

    That’s unacceptable @pentastic, don’t let horrible people get you down, this site is a place of love and compassion, we are all here to help each other, I would report this to the admin, remember we are all here for you, there are many more nicer people on here sweetie, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, message me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I’ve been made to feel bad for what I like and who I am, so now I feel just terrible View

    Please don’t let anything or anyone make you feel bad @pentastic, be the amazing and special individual that you are, always be proud of yourself and hold your head up high, as long as you are truly happy within yourself, that’s what matters, I want the best for you, keep going forward with confidence, remember there is always light at the end…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I’m so angry I could cry. View

    Please don’t feel angry or annoyed, I want to see you happy and feel awesome @pentastic, what’s on your mind?, I’m always here if you need to unload, chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I’m not a flirt. I’m just awkwardly cute. And you like that. Everyone likes that. I’m bae af. I’ll watch nerdy movies and lose at all the video games and steal your food and your parents […] View

    Keep being the fabulous person that you are and keep smiling @pentastic, hope things are going wonderfully for you, I’m always here if you need to chat about anything :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update Is it just me or… Is everything in Chinese? View

    It’s the spam @pentastic and it’s SO annoying

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I really need new nerdy friends. Who likes K-pop? Who likes Homestuck? Someone please talk to me! View

    I’m always here if you need a new friend @pentastic :D (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update So, I got called racist for liking Asians. Me. Really. I’m black, but I’m racist for liking Asians. God, I hate people. Racism is an ugly thing. Don’t ever accuse someone of being racist […] View

    Don’t let anyone be horrible towards you @pentastic, you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, ignore those who are ignorant and focus on the people that bring brightness into your life and that make you smile, you can do it, be positive and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox…[Read more]

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update So, I got called racist for liking Asians. Me. Really. I’m black, but I’m racist for liking Asians. God, I hate people. Racism is an ugly thing. Don’t ever accuse someone of being racist […] View

    @pentastic

    When a claim is that ridiculous, it can be dismissed outright. It can knock at our brains with the magnitude of its stupidity, but ultimately the opinion of a person that far removed from good sense does not matter.

    Asians are beautiful like any other culture, and there is a lot to appreciate about them. Dismiss that blind…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update So, I got called racist for liking Asians. Me. Really. I’m black, but I’m racist for liking Asians. God, I hate people. Racism is an ugly thing. Don’t ever accuse someone of being racist […] View

    There’s something called Orientalism, or like Asian fetish, I think it’s useful to look up into it to see if this criticism was a gratuitous personal attack, or instead something you said or did that was problematic (perfectly possible since it’s hard to be perfect). @pentastic

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update at one point, they all stop talking to me. I have 0 friends. View

    Please don’t feel alone @pentastic, I’m always here if you need a friend or if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update I want to talk to someone, but No one on here seems to want to talk. I mean, I’m nice? Why doesn’t anyone like Me? I never make friends on here. They’ll talk to me for like, maybe a […] View

    I’m always here if you need a friend @pentastic, I would love to make new friends with people, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update It’s hard out there for a black girl to find a boyfriend, when she’s usually pining after Asian boys. But, to heck with it. I’m cool enough to get a boyfriend of any race! I think. View

    I’m sure you will find the right person for you @pentastic, that special someone is out there waiting for you Angie, you deserve a relationship filled with love and happiness, everyone does, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Hearmenow posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update My entire life in one word: K-pop. View

    Well, at least you have good taste in music then @pentastic ;)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update Anime is my best friend because all the characters understand my feels. View

    It’s great that you have something that makes you feel good @pentastic, keep smiling :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Penangie posted an update When my mom is mad, she always finds something to yell about. ”GET THAT SPECK OF DUST OFF THE FLOOR. IT WASN’T THERE BEFORE YOU GOT HOME” View

    Your mother really shouldn’t be angry at you @pentastic, she should speak to you nicely and not shout, I would talk to her and tell her how you feel, I do hope that things go well for you, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)