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    finnian posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa
    Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead naming, and no more misgendering when my ID is seen.
    woooo

    Mood : Accomplished
    • That’s wonderful @peiyopei, be proud and love who you are and truly embrace every part of yourself, always be the amazing human-being that you know you can be, smile and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @peiyopei Congratulations :)

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    finnian posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    part of me wishes I was still with him, I miss him sometimes and I crave to be around his presence again, I could live with him and take my cat. I could have money again, I could be away from all this stress.
    the other part of me is okay with everything going on. when(if) I get older i’ll look back on this and hopefully it’ll make me a better…[Read more]

    • Try to get in contact with this person @peiyopei, hopefully you can still have a bond or relationship with them, you are a lovely person who deserves someone special in your life, remember so many people care about you, smile and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update i hope my family and i can find a house soon, motel living is draining the bank quick… View

    there is nothing to be positive to about

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    finnian posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    i hope my family and i can find a house soon, motel living is draining the bank quick…

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    • Hope you and your family manage to find a good house to live in @peiyopei, try to stay positive and keep looking around as much as you can, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • there is nothing to be positive to about

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    finnian posted an update 1 month ago

    hey hey, good stuff
    got my package, life is sweet!
    Hung out with that girl I mentioned a couple days ago, took her pup for a long walk, got dinner and then watched a movie at my house, it was sweet and kinda reminded me of being a kid… I dunno, it was just very innocent and sweet. She makes me feel young, and giggly… feathery and light.
    it’s…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      That’s so sweet and cute @peiyopei, hope things continue going awesomely for both you and this girl, glad you got your package too, hope you have a great day, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @peiyopei that’s so freaking adorable! I think you will be fine and happy like you are now. Your life sounds like an amazing movie. Good luck with everything (:

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update on the downside I am being impatient because I want my package SO bad but I have yet to see the mailman…….. Where are you dude!? View

    I hope ;-; I’m getting desperate lolol

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    finnian posted an update 1 month ago

    on the downside I am being impatient because I want my package SO bad but I have yet to see the mailman…….. Where are you dude!?

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    finnian posted an update 1 month ago

    I have been talking to this girl for awhile, yesterday we saw a movie and in the middle of it she texted me (weird, I know but she is very shy and awkward haha) asking if she could hold my hand, it was pretty cute and she’s pretty cute too.

    Mood : Good
    • Aww that’s really cute! Congratulations. I hope everything works out for you two (:

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      That’s so adorable and cute @peiyopei, hope things continue going strong for both of you :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update need to see a doctor, my mental health is getting…. weird View

    also I didn’t ask for your opinion on my PP.

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update need to see a doctor, my mental health is getting…. weird View

    No need to get sarcastic.

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    finnian posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    need to see a doctor, my mental health is getting…. weird

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    finnian posted an update 2 months ago

    so my life has been kinda lonely, i only ever work, sleep, and slump around my house. rarely do i make plans with friends, and sometimes i get sad about the fact that i am uncomfortable leaving my house and seeing people, i dunno seeing people the knew the old me and only know me by the /old me/ it’s,,, bleh weird i dunno. i’m just glad my…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      I know how you feel @peiyopei, I pretty much do the same, sleep, sit around the house and go to work, try your best to go out and meet new people, surround yourself with new things and interesting activities, I’m sure you will thrive and things will be OK, stay positive and go forward with a sense of confidence, you can do it, I’m always here if…[Read more]

    • As long as you’re content and happy about how your life is going, that’s all that really matters. Like you said, when you’re ready to change it will naturally happen. Not all of us are meant to be sociable and outgoing. It’s your life after all. Live it as you please.

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I’m tired of chats, because I meet some really unpleasant people in there.Here is the thing – I punished my 5 year old sister for scaring me, by not letting her see a cartoon on my […] View

    Ah I see. In this status you talked about the encounter with your mother and her threatening to throw trash in your room, instead of maybe fighting back and edging her on you could act as if you don’t care, shrug it off. It’s tough I know, it’s hard to ignore angry feelings (at least it is for me) but sometimes acting like you don’t care and…[Read more]

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I’m tired of chats, because I meet some really unpleasant people in there.Here is the thing – I punished my 5 year old sister for scaring me, by not letting her see a cartoon on my […] View

    I apologize this is late, as I do not get online very often. Have you ever tried reverse psychology with her? My family and I did this a lot with my grandfather (as he was abusive towards us quite a bit) and it worked for us about like… maybe 50% of the time. I don’t know your mother or how she thinks, my grandpa was a brute and an all around…[Read more]

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update isn’t everything amazing? (▰˘◡˘▰) View

    it is from only a movie,, i do not feel this way haha

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I’m tired of chats, because I meet some really unpleasant people in there.Here is the thing – I punished my 5 year old sister for scaring me, by not letting her see a cartoon on my […] View

    How do you react when she acts like this? Does she act like that all the time? And is it only directed at you?

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    finnian posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    isn’t everything amazing? (▰˘◡˘▰)

    • @peiyopei glad you’re feeling good :)

    • Do stay upbeat and focus on all the things that put a smile on your face @peiyopei, remember you are brilliant and fantastic, hold your head up high and don’t let anything stand in your way, go forward with confidence and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you…[Read more]

    • it is from only a movie,, i do not feel this way haha

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    finnian posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    sad sadsadsadsad, i miss you

    • What’s wrong

    • @peiyopei I hope the person you miss comes back

    • Hopefully you will see this person again @peiyopei, try to stay positive and keep smiling, you are such a fabulous person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, everything will be OK, smile and go forward with confidence, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    sucky feelings are lame feelings to have, but sometimes you gotta have them to move on. Sigh

    • Try to stay upbeat and don’t let horrible thoughts get you down @peiyopei, smile and stay focused on your happiness, know you are awesome and wonderful, you will overcome and be OK because you are a fighter, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That is absolutely true and something I have personally been doing lately. Thanks for posting this :)

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    finnian posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    the sadness didnt last long, now im filled with angry and nasty thoughts. i swear if i see his face i’ll cut it off ಠ╭╮ಠ

    • Try to stay positive and don’t let bad thoughts get you down @peiyopei, I’m sure you will find someone who will make you feel special, hopefully things will be OK and you can still be friends with your him, smile and look towards the future, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • Hey if you’re up for talking about this update or anything else, feel free to message me okay?

    • @peiyopei I hope you start feeling better , he doesn’t deserve your anger.

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