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    finnian posted an update 3 days, 2 hours ago

    so my life has been kinda lonely, i only ever work, sleep, and slump around my house. rarely do i make plans with friends, and sometimes i get sad about the fact that i am uncomfortable leaving my house and seeing people, i dunno seeing people the knew the old me and only know me by the /old me/ it’s,,, bleh weird i dunno. i’m just glad my…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I know how you feel @peiyopei, I pretty much do the same, sleep, sit around the house and go to work, try your best to go out and meet new people, surround yourself with new things and interesting activities, I’m sure you will thrive and things will be OK, stay positive and go forward with a sense of confidence, you can do it, I’m always here if…[Read more]

    • As long as you’re content and happy about how your life is going, that’s all that really matters. Like you said, when you’re ready to change it will naturally happen. Not all of us are meant to be sociable and outgoing. It’s your life after all. Live it as you please.

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I’m tired of chats, because I meet some really unpleasant people in there.Here is the thing – I punished my 5 year old sister for scaring me, by not letting her see a cartoon on my […] View

    Ah I see. In this status you talked about the encounter with your mother and her threatening to throw trash in your room, instead of maybe fighting back and edging her on you could act as if you don’t care, shrug it off. It’s tough I know, it’s hard to ignore angry feelings (at least it is for me) but sometimes acting like you don’t care and…[Read more]

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

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    I apologize this is late, as I do not get online very often. Have you ever tried reverse psychology with her? My family and I did this a lot with my grandfather (as he was abusive towards us quite a bit) and it worked for us about like… maybe 50% of the time. I don’t know your mother or how she thinks, my grandpa was a brute and an all around…[Read more]

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update isn’t everything amazing? (▰˘◡˘▰) View

    it is from only a movie,, i do not feel this way haha

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    finnian posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I’m tired of chats, because I meet some really unpleasant people in there.Here is the thing – I punished my 5 year old sister for scaring me, by not letting her see a cartoon on my […] View

    How do you react when she acts like this? Does she act like that all the time? And is it only directed at you?

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    finnian posted an update 4 weeks ago

    isn’t everything amazing? (▰˘◡˘▰)

    • @peiyopei glad you’re feeling good :)

    • Do stay upbeat and focus on all the things that put a smile on your face @peiyopei, remember you are brilliant and fantastic, hold your head up high and don’t let anything stand in your way, go forward with confidence and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you…[Read more]

    • it is from only a movie,, i do not feel this way haha

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    finnian posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    sad sadsadsadsad, i miss you

    • What’s wrong

    • @peiyopei I hope the person you miss comes back

    • Hopefully you will see this person again @peiyopei, try to stay positive and keep smiling, you are such a fabulous person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, everything will be OK, smile and go forward with confidence, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    sucky feelings are lame feelings to have, but sometimes you gotta have them to move on. Sigh

    • Try to stay upbeat and don’t let horrible thoughts get you down @peiyopei, smile and stay focused on your happiness, know you are awesome and wonderful, you will overcome and be OK because you are a fighter, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That is absolutely true and something I have personally been doing lately. Thanks for posting this :)

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    finnian posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    the sadness didnt last long, now im filled with angry and nasty thoughts. i swear if i see his face i’ll cut it off ಠ╭╮ಠ

    • Try to stay positive and don’t let bad thoughts get you down @peiyopei, I’m sure you will find someone who will make you feel special, hopefully things will be OK and you can still be friends with your him, smile and look towards the future, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • Hey if you’re up for talking about this update or anything else, feel free to message me okay?

    • @peiyopei I hope you start feeling better , he doesn’t deserve your anger.

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    finnian posted an update 1 month, 4 weeks ago

    after a long week of not talking to my boyfriend, i decide to text him. i asked him what happened between us, what i did wrong, that i was sorry for whatever i did to get him to not like me/talk to me anymore… his response was that he is not gay, that he doesnt love me, he cant force himself to fall in love. i dont know what happened, but this…[Read more]

    • I would try to talk to him @peiyopei and tell him how you feel, be honest with each other about what you want, hopefully no matter what happens, you can still maintain a close friendship and bond, know you will meet your soulmate, a strong and loving relationship will come your way, stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]

    • @peiyopei first of all I want to say that for future sitions never say something like “I’m sorry for whateaver I did”. What if it was him (which in this case, it was) ? . Look from what I’m reading here he just lied to him. People can’t snap their fingers and change sexuality that way. Either 1) he’s hiding it because he’s not ok with his…[Read more]

    • I can honestly relate to you as I feel like this will be very shortly. Reading this has really broke my heart. It is really sad to say but you can not truly trust or love anybody but YOU! People are very temporary and you have to just talk to him and try to move on as graceful as possible if absolutely nothing is going to change. I wish you all…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    what’s new with finn:

    1 – HRT is going great. I am 3 months and almost 2 weeks now. I’ve never felt more confident physically in myself. Other than when I am at work (I am closeted there, and go by my dead name- bleh) I feel ok.
    2 – I’ve been eating normally and have been putting on healthy weight, trying to work out regularly and trying to…[Read more]

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Try to stay positive @peiyopei, things will work out for you, it’s good to know that your therapy is going well, be the awesome individual that you know you can be, love and embrace every part of yourself, remember your happiness is what truly matters, believe in yourself and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 4 months ago

    i hate the anxiety of being broke, it sucks it sucks it sucks it sucks. time to get another job, sigh

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      I’m sure you will find the right job and career for you @peiyopei, do make all your dreams and goals come true, everything will go your way, try to stay positive and know your future is bright, everything will be OK, believe in yourself and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    i hope these 6 days go by fast, i hate having very little money,,, too much anxiety aaa

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    finnian posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    tried to dye my hair blue and purple… came out a grey-ish color,, not how i wanted but i kinda like it,,, looks like some anime haircolor haha

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    finnian posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    things are happening

    • Hopefully they are wonderful things @peiyopei, smile and keep being the fantastic human-being that you are, know you are truly fabulous and amazing, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted an update 4 months, 4 weeks ago

    life has been up and down lately. on the upside in 3 days I’ll be 1 month on testosterone!! I got myself a car as well! On the downside I now owe lots of money to different people, i can’t afford auto insurance and i can’t drive my new car… that’s kind of sucky but eventually i’ll get there, i have no choice but to move forward,,, on the…[Read more]

    Mood : Grateful
    • Glad your transition is going well and you have a bond with someone special @peiyopei, hopefully all your money issues will be sorted out soon and you will be able to drive your car, do try to make everything work and look after yourself, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    holla at Chick-Fil-A for giving me a free strawberry milkshake. today is a good day, i got my package, some good lunch and free icecream aaa :>

    • Glad you had a wonderful day @peiyopei, keep smiling and always be fabulous, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, I’m here for you :) (hugs)

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    finnian posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    cry cry cry, that’s all im good for.

    • Please don’t be upset @peiyopei, you are such a lovely person who deserves to smile and feel special, try to stay focused on being positive and getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally, remember to always believe in yourself and know how incredible you truly are, things will work out for you, keep going and never give up, you can…[Read more]

    • @peiyopei You’re better for many other things obviously. But tbh? Sometimes we just need to cry. Just cry it all out, however after that you have to rise and be brave and face things. Life is hard man but with positivity you can turns things around, you would be truly surprised what a bit of positivity does.
      If you ever need to vent too feel…[Read more]

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    finnian posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    i believe something terrible is going to happen to me sometime soon, with all these good things happening all at once just doesn’t seem right,,, but i will live in the moment until then.

    • I believe even if ten folds of that terrible thing happens to you… I believe you have the potential to overcome it. @peiyopei
      the greatest part, is that when we overcome troubles and terrible events. We develop this new confidence and power and strength within us!
      Isn’t that awesome!? Isn’t that something to look forward to and be excited…[Read more]

    • Try to stay positive and don’t let horrible thoughts get you down @peiyopei, I’m sure many more wonderful moments lie ahead for you, remember to smile and know that there is so much brightness going forward in your journey, believe in yourself and never give up, your dreams will come true, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

    • Something negative is bound to happen to anyone at any time. Even if something negative does happen any point in the future, don’t let that be an ”I told you so” to yourself. It’s good that things are going well for you and I hope that it continues to go that way for quite some time.

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