it’s never too late to change what you want to do, you should be doing the things that you want to do, don’t be scared of trying new things you never know you might like it. that is the same with meeting people, you never know when you’re gonna meet someone who could be a great friend. you take as much time as you want to do everything but at…[Read more]

Please don’t hate yourself @pandagirl96, I know how you feel Jozy, I’m shy too and it takes me a long time to warm up to people, do your best to go out into the world and expand your horizons, work on building up your confidence and surround yourself with love, positivity and hope, you will become the amazing individual that you want to be,…[Read more]

@yamoros12 thank you for the kind words. I really want to know in my gut what I truly want to be. Unfortunately I don’t know yet. I’ve been taking classes in comm college for awhile now and still undecided. I am in my major solely because it’s what my parents want/ it can make money in the job market. I feel uneasy going to make a huge risk on…[Read more]

@oliver Thank you. Little times I try to think positive thoughts, but most of the time I am so negative. It’s like I have this thing about me where I want to think of the worst scenario just so that I could be prepared. It’s hard for me to open up to people that I don’t even know, but I’m trying to do that in school. However, even tho I do try…[Read more]

@pandagirl96 careers-wise you should be doing what you want, but if your parents tell you to do what you’re doing now then i guess the only thing you can do if you can’t convince them otherwise is to keep going with what they say, until you’re independent. and about friends, idk man you just have to get lucky with the people you meet.…[Read more]

@pandagirl96 Does your college offer counseling to students? That could be a start.

Please don’t let sadness and uncertainty get you down @pandagirl96, I’m sure you will lead a fulfilling and happy life Jozy, try to find an interest or activity that brings you hope and joy Jozy, things will work out and everything will be OK, you are a wonderful person who deserves happiness, be kind to yourself and know you are truly amazing…[Read more]

Do your best to find things that will bring you hope, happiness, joy and purpose @pandagirl96, I’m sure you will make great things happen in life Jozy, you will achieve all your goals and dreams, hold your head up high and know you are truly incredible, brave and courageous Jozy, believe in yourself and keep going forward with confidence, you can…[Read more]

//What are some ways to be happy?// @pandagirl96
> Happiness is a ‘process’, not an ‘end’. If you are not happy today, you canNOT be happy tomorrow.
> My Suggestion: Develop/discover a ‘passion’ and an ‘ultimate purpose’ for your life.
your ‘passion’, is something that only involves you. Its something you enjoy investing your time in,…[Read more]

@oliver
Currently, I have been trying to go on more exercise walks, journals, seeking out new people around my college campus to be friends w/, but everything seems weighing me down for some reason. Still am undecided in my major… Feeling so mad at myself for being indecisive and unsure of everything. :/

@sigmasuccour
I find that nowadays I’ve been extremely weighed down and am fueled with intense rage at myself. Still undecided in picking a major. I hate that fact that I’m indecisive. I don’t know what good things I even possess about myself. All I am is full of hatred towards myself, which turns me to hate myself even more. It’s hard for me…[Read more]

@pandagirl96
Before I answer anything, I’m curious about a few things so if you could, would you answer a few questions for me? (it would be super duper awesome if you do!)
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//All I am is full of hatred towards myself, which turns me to hate myself even more.//
> When you feel hate towards yourself, that feeling is always associated with…[Read more]

@pandagirl96 try putting yourself out there, and makes some new friends even if it’s just online. because you won’t get anyone by doing nothing, unless you’re lucky at least in my experiences.

@pandagirl96
The way you talk, makes me feel that you aren’t happy being alone. If in this current state of mind you are to find someone to be with, your relationship would be a burden to them and the relationship will end. You know why? Because your conscious or unconscious desire that ‘they’ are to make you happy will ruin everything. This…[Read more]

Please don’t feel alone @pandagirl96, try your best to meet new people Jozy and surround yourself with love, kindness and compassion, I’m sure others will be attracted to your amazing and bright personality, remember to be the best person you can be and don’t let anything stand in your way, find ways to build up your confidence and self esteem…[Read more]

@pandagirl96 Life has a way of surprising you, in the bad, and in the good Your life could be different in a few months.

@yamoros12
I’ve been currently tryna make new friends in my college, but I feel like I haven’t connected to anyone in particular yet. Tryna to still come out of my shell, and be out there. I hope I will though little by little…I hope so. Thx for commenting

@sigmasuccour
True, I’m not happy being alone. I always feel this need to want someone to be with me to share my thoughts with. For a long time growing up, I moved around a lot, had to get used to new people and places. It got me so mad and utterly in tears due to the fact that I couldn’t fully connect with someone. It was always “hi and…[Read more]

@oliver
Little by little, I’m currenly tryna get out of my comfort zone and see/meet new people in my college. There is still that notion that I haven’t fully connected with someone yet.Somehow I always feel this strong urge to get a huge bear hug from someone and have them tell me face to face, “Everything’s allright.” Just simply being…[Read more]

@rinseandrep
True, life does have a way of surprising all of us at any time. Ahhhh the unknown of it all continually scares me, yet gives me a sorta hopeful view of whatever is to come. I hope that life will be different in the situation I’m in. My goals are for sure picking a college major, transferring to uni, trying to be happy alone, and…[Read more]

@silent-radiance
True, the future is so uncertain/unknown. I have no idea what is going to happen, but I for sure hope that I will maintain motivating myself to continue on. There are times lately where I’ve been feeling down and lost, especially nowadays with picking a for sure major and transferring. Whew, I just have this tendency to want…[Read more]

@pandagirl96 repeating “I hate myself” will only do that, make you hate yourself more. Fight it, fight against those negative thoughts. Everytime you have one write it down and find a good point of view and destroy it. Also keep telling yourself good compliments. Cause you deserve it. You’re like anyone else, you truly deserve to be happy and…[Read more]

Please don’t let anything get you down @pandagirl96, you are such a special and fabulous person who deserves all the happiness and love in the world, try your best to focus on all the things that bring you hope and brightness, be kind to yourself and see yourself in an uplifting way Jozy, you are truly beautiful inside and out, you are a survivor…[Read more]

Please don’t give up @pandagirl96, I’m sure you will be able to confidently and openly speak to others, it just takes some work, I’m shy too Jozy, it’s hard but you can do it hun, believe in yourself, I’m sure you will meet people who will love you for who you are, you deserve all the best hun, keep going and never give up, there is always…[Read more]

You can be happy @pandagirl96, you are such a beautiful and wonderful person Jozy who deserves so much love and joy, great things will happen to you hun, you will meet good people who will love you for who you are and will always stick by you, keep fighting and don’t let anything bring you down, never give up, you are a warrior and survivor, keep…[Read more]

@oliver thank you for your comment. :”) It means a lot. I will try to keep being positive no matter what…

I’m sure you will find that special someone who will treat you right and love you unconditionally @pandagirl96, true love and a strong relationship will happen to you Jozy, be positive, you deserve all the best in life hun, please don’t give up, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is…[Read more]

Do try to get a good sleep and rest @pandagirl96, you don’t deserve any pain Jozy, try your best to focus on all the good and positive things in your life, look ahead towards your bright future which will be filled with so many amazing moments, remember you are such a remarkable person who deserves all the best in life, be upbeat, you can do…[Read more]