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    Jozy posted an update 1 month ago

    ”And there will be a day when you can say you’re okay and mean it
    I promise you it’ll all make sense again
    I promise you it’ll all make sense again.”

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    We never know what the future holds, but we gotta believe in ourselves. We can do this.

    Mood : Hopeful
    • Keep inspiring others and spreading hope, love and happiness in the world @pandagirl96, you are such a beautiful soul inside and out Jozy, always be the compassionate human-being that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • One of my favourite songs

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Going to university for the first time this Fall. I pray I can make new friends that I can be close with, be strong through adversity, have finances in check, see clarity, and maintain faith […] View

    @spectrolite7 It most definitely is a “not so great” feeling. Taking it slow and embracing myself in growing is hard to do since Im so insecure with myself most times, but focusing on my own joys in life and little things around me that make life worthwhile helps :) it does. I feel the same way as you. When i looked everywhere in my college they…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m just a disappointment, a waste of space and nuisance to everyone, I wish I could disappear so no one would be bothered by me anymore, Oli, you are a total failure and ugly human-being, I […] View

    @oliver You are a warm, compassionate. and incredibly heartfelt human being! Honestly, you are. You help others see the worth in themselves and you deserve just the same. I believe that everytime I see you comment on my posts or on someone else’s posts you bring radiant sunshine on them when they are in their darkest days, you are amazing. Plenty…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Single… forever. That’s just the way it is. View

    @tanisha True, forever is a looong time, and remembering to stick to the “today” of now is impt. My negative thoughts keep coming up through randomly sometimes in my head plus insecurities…it’s like I’m never happy with me, but you’re right also in that we never know what the future’s gonna be. That’s something I always try to keep in…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Single… forever. That’s just the way it is. View

    @marikofujimoto Yes, it is so very true ! I do crave it, but more of the feeling where the other person wholly understands me inside and out kinda love with mutual growth between the both of us. You have a point tho, relationships aren’t always perfect. Time can be hard to handle when my negative thoughts rush through, but it is helpful to just…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Single… forever. That’s just the way it is. View

    @oliver Thank you for your words, I do hope so, I’m so negative tho…I feel like I need to love me first, before anything, the negativity tho comes to mind most times…but I’ll try to stay positive, thank u :)

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Going to university for the first time this Fall. I pray I can make new friends that I can be close with, be strong through adversity, have finances in check, see clarity, and maintain faith through it all as I enter into a new chapter. I tend to look at other people and compare myself to how other people are smarter/better/ prettier//braver than…[Read more]

    Mood : Worried
    • I’m sure your time at university will go well @pandagirl96, always be kind to yourself Jozy, you are a beautiful and special person who is perfect in every single way, don’t feel down about who you are, embrace and love every part of you Jozy, smile because you are a ray of sunshine that will always be bright and spectacular, inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • My advice is don’t compare yourself. I’ve done that and started uni in the wrong foot (In fact I had to re-enter this year). Remember, you’re there to study and you’re in a way in competition with other students. Focous on your studies alot. When it comes to friends, you’ll meet fantastic people and many fake ones, so pay attention.
      But no…[Read more]

    • I feel the same way at times… it’s not a good feeling. I think that when you focus on how everyone seems better than you, it makes you think that you can’t do anything… the best things to do is take things slow and embrace yourself as you grow… focus on yourself and your happiness. When I went out to college, there was a girl who I thought…[Read more]

    • @spectrolite7 It most definitely is a “not so great” feeling. Taking it slow and embracing myself in growing is hard to do since Im so insecure with myself most times, but focusing on my own joys in life and little things around me that make life worthwhile helps :) it does. I feel the same way as you. When i looked everywhere in my college they…[Read more]

    • @pandagirl96 I’m glad I was able to help and allow you to see you’re not alone. Everyone definitely has their own unique path and it’s important to know that you’re special and to be gentle with yourself and your path.

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    Single… forever. That’s just the way it is.

    Mood : Sad
    • Don’t give up on finding true love @pandagirl96, someone special will come into your life Jozy, your soulmate is out there, everyone deserves a strong bond and relationship with an amazing partner, you do too, stay positive and keep going forward as best you can, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Even though sometimes we do crave love, is better to be single than be trapped in a bad relationship. Love will come to you, just give it time

    • Forever is such a long time. You may want to try, ”Single… today”. You don’t know what tomorrow holds, or how something you have always done suddenly produces a connection. It isn’t as dramatic, but I think a better picture of reality 99% of the time.

    • @oliver Thank you for your words, I do hope so, I’m so negative tho…I feel like I need to love me first, before anything, the negativity tho comes to mind most times…but I’ll try to stay positive, thank u :)

    • @marikofujimoto Yes, it is so very true ! I do crave it, but more of the feeling where the other person wholly understands me inside and out kinda love with mutual growth between the both of us. You have a point tho, relationships aren’t always perfect. Time can be hard to handle when my negative thoughts rush through, but it is helpful to just…[Read more]

    • @tanisha True, forever is a looong time, and remembering to stick to the “today” of now is impt. My negative thoughts keep coming up through randomly sometimes in my head plus insecurities…it’s like I’m never happy with me, but you’re right also in that we never know what the future’s gonna be. That’s something I always try to keep in…[Read more]

    • Sometimes our emotions lie to us. Just because we “feel” a certain way doesn’t necessarily reflect reality. This is probably the hardest part of anxiety, mental health, life in general. I have to find a truth that we know to be truth, and then live by that – just don’t let the truth be a lie, a negative emotion. Everyone has something to offer…[Read more]

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic What kind of reason for love would make your heart beat faster? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In my opinion, the second reason for love would make my heart beat faster. I’ve never had a long lasting relationship thing with someone ever in my life to share my deepest secrets, to hug me, to vent to, to be […]

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic ULTIMATE QUESTION ”S” in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    If I could travel back in time, I would travel to the future because I think that I’d want to see where my life is headed. I’m so gloomy and sad all the time that I don’t know what to do with me anymore. I’d […]

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    Jozy posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    What does it mean to be truly happy? Lately, no matter how many times I try to think positive, do hobbies, try to reach out to people around my area, I always cry at night. I’m not happy at all. I cry by myself and act like I’m a okay with others just so that I don’t want to be a bother. No one to truly connect with is what I have, but having…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel bad @pandagirl96, you are a wonderful and special person Jozy who deserves all the love, joy and happiness in the world, everyone needs a strong bond with someone who can make them smile, I’m sure you will meet compassionate friends who will stick by you no matter what, remember this community is always here to support you…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Spirals
    Rain drops keep falling
    I am lost in a dark cloud
    Feeling so upset. :(

    • Hello. I am not sure what you are going through but if you feel like talking about anything, please feel free to message me.

    • The darkness will disappear and so much brightness will come into your life @pandagirl96, go forward with a sense of confidence and always believe in yourself, your dreams will come true Jozy, make great things happen and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    What is your definition of love?

    Mood : Curious
    • I don’t know! Quoting from the movie Interstellar:
      Cooper: You’re a scientist, Brand.
      Brand: So listen to me when I say that love isn’t something that we invented. It’s… observable, powerful. It has to mean something.
      Cooper: Love has meaning, yes. Social utility, social bonding, child rearing…
      Brand: We love people who have died.…[Read more]

    • Being there for someone and supporting them no matter what @pandagirl96, being caring, compassionate and amazing towards those who you have a close bond with, love is wonderful Jozy, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

    • I’m curious too :l

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update Mind over matter. Life may get me down, but that doesn’t mean I will never find my way back up. I can do this. I have to believe in myself…for me. Even though I have tons of […] View

    Thanks Oliver! :) You always keep updated on my posts, and I’m thankful for you ! I wish you the best in everythang going in your life!

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    Jozy posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Mind over matter. Life may get me down, but that doesn’t mean I will never find my way back up. I can do this. I have to believe in myself…for me. Even though I have tons of fears,insecurities, heartbreak, struggles, I can still push on. The light ahead may be foggy and dark, but I’m riding the train to the end of the glimpse of light at the…[Read more]

    • Stay determined and believe in yourself @pandagirl96, be positive Jozy, remember the road ahead is full of brightness and hope, you will do amazingly because you are a survivor, keep going forward and never give up, you can do it Jozy, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thanks Oliver! :) You always keep updated on my posts, and I’m thankful for you ! I wish you the best in everythang going in your life!

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    Jozy joined the group Group logoThe Fandoms 7 months, 3 weeks ago

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    Jozy posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    I hate myself…when will I be happy? I’ve been feeling so gloomy and down for a long time…I don’t know what to do with myself. Everyday I’ve been trying to do one positive thing in my life, but I feel like so small. This world is a big place full of new environments, new people to meet, new relationships, new discoveries…yet I hate myself.…[Read more]

    Mood : Sad
    • Care to talk in detail about it? You can message me if you feel like.

    • Please be kind to yourself @pandagirl96, you are such a lovely and special person who deserves all the best that life has to offer Jozy, hold your head up high and know you will find the motivation to go forward, so much brightness and hope lies ahead for you Jozy, you will make all your dreams come true, believe in yourself and never give up, you…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update I’m tired of always being stuck. I’m stuck with school, stuck with having no body in my life to talk to in person, stuck that I am always so negative towards life. Truth is, I hate myself. I […] View

    @oliver Thank you. Little times I try to think positive thoughts, but most of the time I am so negative. It’s like I have this thing about me where I want to think of the worst scenario just so that I could be prepared. It’s hard for me to open up to people that I don’t even know, but I’m trying to do that in school. However, even tho I do try…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update I’m tired of always being stuck. I’m stuck with school, stuck with having no body in my life to talk to in person, stuck that I am always so negative towards life. Truth is, I hate myself. I […] View

    @yamoros12 thank you for the kind words. I really want to know in my gut what I truly want to be. Unfortunately I don’t know yet. I’ve been taking classes in comm college for awhile now and still undecided. I am in my major solely because it’s what my parents want/ it can make money in the job market. I feel uneasy going to make a huge risk on…[Read more]

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