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    Jozy posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Wooooooooow incredibly stressed since University is FAST approaching. New quarter system, new professors, new environment. Scared outta my mind. :( I hope I can get clarity real soon in all Uni matters, career matters, financial matters, family matters, and insecurity with myself matters. I’m trying to breathe in and out to relax. It can’t be…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Try to relax and focus on getting everything in order as best you can @pandagirl96, please don’t feel down about yourself Jozy, you are such a beautiful, special and incredible person who deserves happiness in her life, please know that the journey ahead will be filled with sunshine and hope for you, university will go great and you will be…[Read more]

    • Millions of people do this every year, and most of them face the same anxiety and worries and concerns you have. In in a few months what is new today will be old hat and you will wonder, “What was I so worried about?” You can do this. And, by the way, most people make mistakes and stuff along the way – that’s life. Just keep doing one thing at…[Read more]

    • Try to see this with a positive look. If you go there already being negative trust me, will be very hard to actually see good things. Also the comment above is true, millions of people go through the same. I’m also going through the same and trust me, is not that bad. Just go to classes, try to get notes and study as hard as you can. Try to…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I fixed two massive issues uni related, however for some reason my schedule doesn’t show up with all my subjects –” , hope they show up soon cause on the 20th my classes start View

    @marikofujimoto I totally feel ya. Im trying to fulfill all my documents I need to turn in for Uni. Classes for me start around Sept 28th. Super nervous and all. I wish us both luck! :) Goodluck with everything Mariko!

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 week, 5 days ago

    Yes, as long as the weather is breezy and warm, so I won’t be cold as heck in the morning.

    Would you ever kayak in a deep cave with stalagmites and stalactites everywhere pointed at ya?

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    ABSOLUTELY would eat mint chocolate icecream! It’s my favorite.

    Would you ever go ziplining through dangerous forests?

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Yes, I would answer my own question. :)

    Would you ever eat mint chocolate icecream?

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    Jozy posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    I hate myself because I’m so dumb :( I’m so slow at understanding something. Lately, transitioning to university has been a real pain due to the fact that I’m so slow at understanding everything. Everyone around me seems to fully understand what the staff or professors or doctors are saying with ease. When I asked a question to one of the…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel down @pandagirl96, the school administrators really should help and support you if you are finding things difficult Jozy, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it, I’m sure everything will get easier as time goes on, smile and keep going forward with confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

    • @pandagirl96 you’re not slow. Every single freshman feels that way , they just hide it. Trust me, we all feel dumb there. In your second year you’ll feel more at “home”.
      If you truly feel like you’re struggling you can do some things to help though. You can study extra, like.. take photocopies, do notes of what you learn in class, buy those…[Read more]

    • @pandgirl96 I have the same problem quite often. Administrative staff and professors at college can be real douchebags if they want to. What I’ve learned after year one:
      1. Some professors are simply jerks, they treat everyone that way. They see so many students asking questions that they won’t remember you asking, either, so no need to worry…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    Somewhere beyond the sea
    Somewhere waiting for me
    …I’ll be happy…

    Mood : Drained
    • You are such a lovely, beautiful and incredible person who deserves happiness, hope and joy in life @pandagirl96, try to stay positive and focus on all the things that give you purpose and confidence Jozy, know the journey ahead will be filled with lots of special moments and amazing opportunities for you, believe in yourself Jozy and never give…[Read more]

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    I would probably tunnel through the snow, but only if tunneling led me to an igloo place to chill in for a bit and drink hot cocoa or something.

    Would you ever go shark cage diving?

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update I don’t know where I am going…please be strong…please. View

    @tanisha Ill try to do that to boost myself up..thank u! It is defin. going to take a lot of time but im gonna try my best, thank u!

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.” -La La Land View

    @tanisha True definitely we never know if our goals are actually worth it towards the end for sure, and I agree everyone is different towards how they got to their dreams of their life in their own ways. My strengths? See, that’s where Im so down. I think so low of myself that I don’t think highly at all of myself with regards to me being…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update What are little things in your life that make your day? View

    @layla95 Aw, thats a wonderful thought. One animal in my mind is pandas. I like the lil cuddly baby pandas and babies are adorable to think of being so innocent and a sense of newness to the world. What makes me happy is sunsets near the beach (pier), ukelele music, samoyed puppies, seeing others genuinely smile after having a rough day, getting a…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update What do you do to relax? I need to de-stress myself and just reorganize my thoughts. View

    @layla95 That is actually a good idea to do now. Feeling so sad and all and tea+music+a good book is a good idea to ease the sadness. Thank you..!

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    Jozy replied to the forum topic Would you ever? in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Nah, I don’t think I’d have the guts to do that, especially to strangers.

    Would you ever write your own novel?

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    Jozy posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    What are little things in your life that make your day?

    • It’s the things that make you happy and bring a smile to your face @pandagirl96, surround yourself with positivity Jozy and stay upbeat, do activities that fill you with hope and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Animals and babies. Why? Because their the most innocent beings in the world to me. What makes you happy?

    • @layla95 Aw, thats a wonderful thought. One animal in my mind is pandas. I like the lil cuddly baby pandas and babies are adorable to think of being so innocent and a sense of newness to the world. What makes me happy is sunsets near the beach (pier), ukelele music, samoyed puppies, seeing others genuinely smile after having a rough day, getting a…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month ago

    What do you do to relax? I need to de-stress myself and just reorganize my thoughts.

    Mood : Curious
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Find activities or things to do that will make you feel good and bring a beautiful smile to your face @pandagirl96, surround yourself with positivity and keep going forward Jozy, you can do it, hope you have a brilliant day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey I’m just now seeing this but usually I drink hot drinks to destress things like chamomile tea which is suppose to help with stress, green teas, and herbal teas. I take long, hot bubble baths and either read a book while relaxing or listen to some of my favorite oldies like the music that i listened to as a child and teenager. Long walks in a…[Read more]

    • @layla95 That is actually a good idea to do now. Feeling so sad and all and tea+music+a good book is a good idea to ease the sadness. Thank you..!

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update It’s 1 in the morning and I’m wide awake. I cried, talked to myself, and cleaned my entire room while listening to Amy Winehouse. Is I’m going mad? View

    @layla95 i’m relatiing as well, it’s 2 am for me now.. It’s good to let it all out and cry and talk to yourself to think about everything going in life, I tend to do that sometimes when I’m feeling down and squeeze or surround myself with my blankets. Pro, the room is clean! That’s something to be YES! about. A clean room can help sort things…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.” -La La Land View

    @Oli i hope so. Feeling shifts of moods of happy and then just miserable because direction in life is still waivering. Ill try…

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    Jozy posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Jozy posted an update ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.” -La La Land View

    @tanisha I sure hope so…I really do. Confused in life so far, and I somewhat had the same reaction to the movie. The movie was good to me mostly in the dialogue of the whole “failing to make it in life part” since I related to the characters in the fact that dreams are so hard to fulfill in life, but that it “might” be possible somehow if…[Read more]

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month ago

    ”Somewhere there’s a place where I find who I’m gonna be
    A somewhere that’s just waiting to be found.”
    -La La Land

    Mood : Worried
    • No replied 1 month ago

      And it could be just around the corner. That movie was just okay – in the end it seemed to be about lost opportunities, when it should have ben about celebrating what was, and what was accomplished. You got this – just keep looking until you find it. It took U2 a while t find what they were looking for…

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      You will find a place and direction in life where you feel totally happy and comfortable @pandagirl96, try to stay positive and hold your head up high Jozy, the journey ahead will be filled with hope and brightness for you, go forward with a sense of confidence and don’t let anything stand in your way, you can do it, believe in yourself and never…[Read more]

    • Jozy replied 1 month ago

      @tanisha I sure hope so…I really do. Confused in life so far, and I somewhat had the same reaction to the movie. The movie was good to me mostly in the dialogue of the whole “failing to make it in life part” since I related to the characters in the fact that dreams are so hard to fulfill in life, but that it “might” be possible somehow if…[Read more]

    • Jozy replied 1 month ago

      @Oli i hope so. Feeling shifts of moods of happy and then just miserable because direction in life is still waivering. Ill try…

    • Dreams are often hard to fulfill, and often when we get there, they aren’t what we thought they were. Too often we look at someone else and wish what they had without realizing the sacrifices they made to get there, nor the fact that we are different and it really wouldn’t work for us the way it works for them.

      Focus on you, on your…[Read more]

    • @tanisha True definitely we never know if our goals are actually worth it towards the end for sure, and I agree everyone is different towards how they got to their dreams of their life in their own ways. My strengths? See, that’s where Im so down. I think so low of myself that I don’t think highly at all of myself with regards to me being…[Read more]

    • Everyone has self-doubts. the person sitting next to you on the bus, just the same as you at some point. Sounds like you should explore areas in film or writing. There is a creative part of you there. Maybe simply becoming a film critic – start a film critic blog – make it funny and personal – make it you. Just a thought.

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    Jozy posted an update 1 month ago

    I don’t know where I am going…please be strong…please.

    Mood : Gloomy
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Please don’t let sadness get you down @pandagirl96, you will find the right direction for yourself in life Jozy, remember to smile, hold your head up high and look forward as your future will be so bright and filled with hope, you are such a beautiful angel who will achieve great things, know the journey ahead will have lots of special moments…[Read more]

    • No replied 1 month ago

      Hands Jozy (#pandagirl96) a map. It just takes time to find your place on this thing, but once you do, you’ll be okay and know where you are. Do be strong – make a muscle in the mirror with your bicep, and take a picture of it. Post it in a few places where you live, and use it to encourage yourself to be strong.

    • @tanisha Ill try to do that to boost myself up..thank u! It is defin. going to take a lot of time but im gonna try my best, thank u!

    • One step at a time. Keep going.

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