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I’ll always and forever be stuck in this hole of darkness, things will never go well for me, my life is so lonely, sad and depressing, will brightness and hope ever happen to me?, I don’t know, I want to stop being negative but I can’t see any reason to be positive, what is my purpose?, I am a complete failure who has achieved absolutely […] View

  • Luke~!! on July 27, 2016:

    Never in my life have I ever seen a man as selfless as Oli is. Every single time I’ve seen him on this site, he’s offering wonderful words of encouragement, wisdom and all around general joy to all needing it – whether they feel they do or not.

    For every post I have made on these forums – whether they be really upbeat posts or more saddening ones from me asking for some help – Oli has been there as a constant – writing his own personal messages directed towards me which wrap me in his positive mindset and enthusiastic, infectious can-do attitude. After finishing his personal message, he always never fails to deliver on writing what appears to be his signature sign-off – “I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)” Which further gives me more hope and makes me realise how wonderful Oli really is.

    Oli has invested so much time into BlahTherapy and into helping others which is more than anyone could have asked of him. The least I can do for him here is give him his 10th testimony of which I am honoured to write for such a great, selfless man. Oli – you have really improved the ‘BlahTherapy experience’ for myself and many, many others on this forum – and I’d like to remind you that you’ll be forever remembered by myself and the countless others that have been touched by your kind heart and infinite love for others. Do know you can message me any time you want if you want to talk with me on issues – it’s one of the few things I’d be able to do to ‘pay back’ such a kind man like yourself who honestly deserves so much more.

  • Kdog on November 5, 2015:

    Oli is selfless and seems to comment on everyone’s posts, doing his best to cheer them up. I see his comments of encouragement everywhere and it assures me that there are wonderful people in the world.

  • Hayden on September 7, 2015:

    Everyone knows who Oli is, and if they don’t, they need to, because Oli, you’re amazing, inside and out. I’m lucky to be one of the many lucky members of the BlahTherapy community to have had the chance to know you and to speak to you.

    Though dealing with your own struggles, you continue on helping others in need. Your simple, yet reassuring words in every single post you leave, make me smile every time, and it never fails to comfort me. I see how many people you make smile and cheer up; how many people you help.

    You inspire me to keep helping others, and to be optimistic when things are looking down for myself. I was gone for awhile; distant from BlahTherapy as I dealt with things in my life. But then I came back one day and you gave me the hope that I needed, and I don’t plan on disappearing again, all thanks to your help.

    Oli, things just wouldn’t be the same here on BlahTherapy without you. I hope you know how appreciated you are here, and how wonderful and special you are. On behalf of myself and the rest of the community, thank you, for everything you’ve done for us and continue to do.

    Always stay strong, Oli, and keep being your amazing self! *hugs*

    ~ Hayden

  • gray beard on June 7, 2015:

    Even while dealing with his own struggles, there is always a word of encouragement and an offer to listen, and help from Oli.
    I want to thank Oli for making my visits to this site a better experience.

  • Helen Smith on August 9, 2014:

    “if you need to talk, I’m always here, feel free to message me anytime if you want :) (hugs)”

    For those kind words alone, I know that there is such a thing as a person who actually cares about the well being of others.
    You will really never know how much your words meant to me.