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    Oli posted a new activity comment 30 minutes ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update Are there any loyal people and good friendships left on this planet???? View

    Everyone deserves caring, loyal, compassionate and loving friends around them @bigheart867, you do too, I want to see you truly smiling and surrounded by good people who will always stick by you, a strong friendship that makes you feel positive will happen to you, remember you are amongst friends in the BT community, keep going forward and never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 18 hours, 58 minutes ago

    In reply to: HelloDarling02 posted an update good evening beautiful people! View

    It’s great to see you positive, happy and upbeat @tiffanyrenee, keep smiling and always be the fabulous person that you are Tiffany, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 3 hours ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Ended up not going to a festival because had no one to go with. I invited someone but the person decided to go with someone else.. I know university is just to have my education (which is […] View

    Please don’t feel bad about yourself @marikofujimoto, you are such a kind, beautiful, special and lovely angel who truly deserves good friends around her, I know how you feel, being an introvert and shy myself, it’s so difficult to make friends and create meaningful bonds with people, you are trying your best sweetie, keep going and know you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 4 hours ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hello, all you lovely people,I just wanted your advice on a situation, for those who have known me on here, my parents have always had an issue with my boyfriend.So yday whilst i […] View

    Your family really should support you and your relationship with your boyfriend @positivity-vibes, let your parents know how much you love him and want to be with him, hopefully they will come to understand how happy he makes you once they meet him and everything will be OK, try to stay upbeat and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 day, 18 hours ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update One of these days I’m going to matter to somebody. One of these days I’ll have someone in my life who treats me as a priority instead of someone to talk to in your spare time. Because […] View

    You are a fantastic, beautiful and amazing person who deserves to have a strong bond, friendship or relationship with someone special @bigheart867, we all need caring, supportive and kind people in our lives, you do too, smile and know so many people are here for you, the BT community will always be there for you and so will I, smile and always be…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of LeviathanLeviathan are now friends 1 day, 23 hours ago

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    Oli and Profile picture of bigheart867bigheart867 are now friends 1 day, 23 hours ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days ago

    In reply to: bigheart867 posted an update Having an emotional week…. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling sad, down or upset @bigheart867, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves all the love and happiness in the world, hold your head up high and focus on all the things that bring joy into your life, everything will be OK, smile and believe in yourself, you can do it, keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 days ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I just read someone saying ”there’s stigma around rapist”. this person flat out said he rapped someone and that there’s stigma. That rappist shouldn’t be forgiven but neither punished. You […] View

    Anyone who commits such a horrible crime like rape or sexual assault should be punished severely, thrown in jail for a long time @marikofujimoto, survivors of sexual violence are so brave, courageous and strong, hope you are OK sweetie and having a fantastic day Mariko, I want to see you smiling hun and doing well, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of Leann Keogh are now friends 4 days ago

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 6 hours ago

    In reply to: Travelling Girl posted an update I feel like I only come on here to vent and I HATE to sound like I am complaining….but I guess that’s what I’m doing. I feel such dread everyday when I wake up. I’m so alone. I’m […] View

    Please don’t let depression, pain and sadness get you down @simplegirl, you are such a fabulous, special and amazing person who truly deserves all the love, happiness and joy in the world, everything will be OK, focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally and emotionally, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor who never gives…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 17 hours ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I was diagnosed at my last counselling session with Complex PTSD. I’ve never experienced any trauma or abuse that I know of either. Idk how to feel. View

    I would continue to go to the counselling sessions and see how they can best help you, tell them about your thoughts, feelings and things that have happened in your life @kittymew, remember the BT community will always be here to support you Kayla and so will I, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves all the best, everything will be OK, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 days, 23 hours ago

    In reply to: Naomi posted an update Everything is black and blue, I am afraid that I am through. How can I go on like this? How I miss, how I miss, how I miss, being able to see the clouds and the trees as I walk. There is a […] View

    Please don’t let sadness, pain and depression get you down @naomi223, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing person Naomi who deserves all the happiness and love in the world, you are a survivor who has been through so much, hold your head up high and keep going forward, everything will be OK and things will get better, I want to see you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 4 hours ago

    In reply to: BlackRabbit posted an update I received my first order today on my online store!!!!!!! I am making home/hand made candles and herbal soaps if anyone is interested. http://www.inkysscentsandsuds.store We are very […] View

    That’s amazing @blackrabbit, hope your business selling candles and soaps thrives and keeps growing, I wish you all the best going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 4 hours ago

    In reply to: HelloDarling02 posted an update it’s unfortunate that I had to report over 5 venters today. This isn’t a dating chat site and there are people on here who are disrespectful and rude as fuck. Be on the look out […] View

    Don’t let anyone on the chat be horrible to you @tiffanyrenee, keep being the helpful, compassionate and kind person that you are Tiffany, the BT community will always remain a supportive and respectful place, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 18 hours ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Guys, I need your opinion. I teach a 12 year old English on Fridays (her native language is Hebrew). And her parents tell me she has high grades. Higher than before. Now as a small prize, I […] View

    That’s so wonderful @gleb, I’m sure you will be a wonderful teacher Gleb, do show her the Lord of the Rings or any other family friendly film, hope things go well Gleb, keep smiling and stay awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Gleb posted an update Okay I don’t know if I posted about it but I exited the army (yay!) and I’m now doing alternative volunteering service of teaching people with disabilities to use a computer. I like it but […] View

    Glad to see you are doing something that helps others @gleb, remember to always do what makes you truly happy Gleb and keep being the fantastic person that you are, my wonderful friend, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Red Sheep posted an update I hate feeling like this! Like my feelings are put second place because the others are too full of themselves, so much that they don’t even see how hurt I am. Why the heck I should be […] View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves compassionate, loving and understanding friends around you @jeles, surround yourself with supportive people and know you truly are capable of happiness and positivity, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Robyn97 posted an update My boyfriend is a bipolar, compulsive liar and I need to know how I can convince him to seriously get help. He’s the controlling type that always needs to have his way. He listens to no […] View

    I would talk to him about how you feel @robgibb1997, let him know how his behaviour is affecting you Robyn, tell him that you love and care about him and just want the relationship to be stronger and for him to help himself so he can make positive changes in his life which will help both of you, be as honest and open with him as you can Robyn,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: silveRose143 posted an update Im trying but im tired. View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @silverose143, you are such a beautiful, special and fantastic person who deserves all the happiness and hope in the world, everything will be OK, focus on making yourself positive, upbeat and joyful, hold your head up high and know you are a survivor, believe in yourself and keep going forward with…[Read more]

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