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    Winnie posted an update 4 days, 21 hours ago

    I forgot how releasing cutting felt. Been like 2 years something since I last did it. Alcohol is good for the soul

    • there are better methods of releasing

    • Please don’t harm yourself @misswin, try to find other ways to get your thoughts and feelings out Winnie, I don’t want to see you feeling hurt, sad or alone, you are such a lovely, special and amazing person who deserves a life that is filled with hope, joy and happiness, try your best to make each day bright and focus on all the things that…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted an update 2 weeks ago

    I don’t deserve to be loved.

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Please don’t feel like that @misswin, everyone deserves to be loved, appreciated and cared for Winnie, you do too, surround yourself with all the things that bring you hope, brightness and positivity, I want to see you smiling and being upbeat Winnie, everything will be OK, believe in yourself and keep going forward, you can do it Winnie, inbox…[Read more]

    • You definitely do. And you will. You are.

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    Winnie posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    Feels like everything is going to shit.

    • Please don’t feel down or upset @misswin, you are such a special, amazing and fabulous person who deserves all the hope, happiness and joy in the world Winnie, know you will win all your battles and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high and believe in yourself because you are a survivor, everything will be OK, go forward with a sense…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted an update 4 months ago

    It’s weird how isolated I have been feeling lately. Nothing has changed, and I have actually been doing very well. I miss having friends to hang out with or just chat with online. I’ve not had that in so long.

    Mood : Confused
    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      Please don’t feel isolated or alone @misswin, surround yourself with hope, positivity and love Winnie, you are a fabulous and special person who deserves happiness, everything will be OK, I care about you and so does the BT community, hold your head up high and always be awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong :) (hugs)

    • @misswin I do the same exact thing as well and always end up feeling like complete crap. I suggest that you start making friends slowly but surely. Life is lonely enough even if you are surrounded by people so there’s no need to make it worse. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me.

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Vena posted an update How do I tell my parents that not only do I have severe depression, I also want anti depressants? I just don’t know how to get them to believe me. View

    Have you been diagnosed with depression?
    I’ve never told my parents about my mental health and how I’m taking anti depressants. My dad found out from a friend so I have spoken to him about it. I wrote many letters that I planned on giving to my parents, maybe you could try that? Sometimes it’s easier to write everything down than to speak it…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i dont feel ok but im going to sleep right now and i hope i can fall asleep and try to be more simplistic about life.. View

    I hope you feel better after some sleep :) If you wanna have a vent my inbox is open!

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: lovers00 posted an update i still dont know if i should lose my virginity like i feel ready but idk View

    There is no “right” age. I’ve friends that lost their virginity in their teens and others who have only recently lost it and we’re in our 20s now. I don’t really understand why people put so much focus on age, people mature at different times and some are only comfortable later in life. I think you should stop worrying about it. You are…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: lovers00 posted an update i want to lose my virginity but im scared and nervous any advice? View

    Only lose it if you’re ready. There’s no rush to lose it. There’s nothing to be scared or nervous about either, sex is a natural thing and enjoyable! Just be sure that you trust whoever you lose it to :)

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    Winnie posted an update 4 months ago

    Not been here for a while… feeling a little anxious and came to get things off my chest. I’m in the process of reducing my meds, the doctor is making me come off them really slowly due to my past mental health. I’m due to reduce my meds by November. I finish my job in exactly a month, and then move house (again) and start my masters course at…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      It’s good to see you back on BT @misswin, I’m sure you will find the right support services in your area Winnie, do talk to your boyfriend and your friends if you can, remember the Blah community will always be there for you and so will I, smile and keep going forward with confidence, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are amazing…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted an update 11 months ago

    Not been on here in a while. I hope people are well.
    In the next month or so I’m going to be coming off my meds, I’ve been wanting to for ages and my doctor says I can. I am super nervous now though, I’m not looking forward to any withdrawal symptoms, and I am actually scared that I won’t be able to function properly without the meds :/

    Mood : Afraid
    • Hopefully everything will be OK @misswin, it would be best to speak with your doctor and see if they can find ways to help you Winnie, I’m sure you will find the right medication and support for you, stay upbeat and keep going Winnie, you can do it, I’m always here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    So an old school friend has asked me out for coffee tomorrow… it would be nice to catch up but I am really not up to socialising… why am I so useless…

    • Please don’t feel useless @misswin, you are awesome, lovely and amazing Winnie, it’s totally your choice, maybe you will have a good time and chat with this friend, try to fill your day with wonderful activities and keep doing fabulously, you can do it Winnie, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me…[Read more]

    • @misswin
      //but I am really not up to socialising//
      > you mean you didn’t wanna socialize with him/her or you are just not socially well equipped to engage with people like that? Or you are more towards the introverts side?
      (On a side note, I value people who don’t talk much… seems like who mostly do talk these days have nothing valuable to…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I do hate feeling lonely….

    • Please don’t feel alone @misswin, you are such a lovely and special person who deserves to be surrounded by love and happiness Winnie, try to stay positive and focus on all the things that bring you brightness, I want to see you smiling and truly making each day count, keep being fabulous and never give up, everything will be OK Winnie, feel free…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    Is the chat working? I keep getting disconnected… I could really use a vent…

    • I’m always here if you need someone to talk too @misswin, what’s on your mind Winnie?, feel free to message me anytime, I’ll do my best to help you :) (hugs)

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    It’s times like these I wish I’d been able to make some close friends here at uni…

    • I’m sure you will meet wonderful people who will be there for you @misswin, everyone deserves good friends surrounding them, you do too Winnie, you have a brilliant personality that is always shining, remember to smile, be confident and hold your head up high, you can do it, feel free to message me anytime if you need to chat or vent, my inbox is…[Read more]

    • you can! don’t be afraid to put yourself out there :) . finding people with common interests is a great first step!

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    It’s quite blatant that I’m in a bit of a crisis, yet my boyfriend is treating me like shit. It’s so confusing, one moment he’s looking after me during a panic attack, the next I’m being told to take all my stuff out his room and sleep alone….

    • Your boyfriend should give you all the support, love, encouragement and comfort in the world @misswin, he has absolutely no right being horrible to you Winnie, you deserve a relationship where you are looked after and treated right, hopefully things will work out and he will be there for you, I want to see you being appreciated Winnie, feel free…[Read more]

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Taty09 posted an update Here to help. Been a while but anxious to put this degree to work!! View

    What degree is this? :)

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: SadLife posted an update How do i ask a question? View

    I believe the Question part of this site is still disabled after a problem with people using it to advertise. If you ask what you want in an update someone might reply :)

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: briana. posted an update really, really need new people to talk to.. this place is good for venting but i need committed friends who i can get into the deep stuff with whenever i need to. View

    I’m on the look out for friends! Drop me a message :)

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    Winnie posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Winnie posted an update I am a disappointment… View

    Oh but I am a disappointment @Oliver

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    Winnie posted an update 1 year, 8 months ago

    I am a disappointment…

    • Please don’t think like that @misswin, you are a wonderful and special person who deserves all the love and joy in the world Winnie, please be kind to yourself and see yourself in an uplifting way, show everyone how truly incredible and fantastic you are sweetie, remember to always be the amazing angel that you know you can be Winnie, keep going…[Read more]

    • Oh but I am a disappointment @Oliver

    • You are amazing @misswin, please believe that Winnie :) (hugs)

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