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    lovers00 posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    i want to lose my virginity but im scared and nervous any advice?

    • I would only think about losing it when you are ready and feel comfortable too @lovers00, try to focus on all the other good things that are going on in your life as well, you will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

    • Only lose it if you’re ready. There’s no rush to lose it. There’s nothing to be scared or nervous about either, sex is a natural thing and enjoyable! Just be sure that you trust whoever you lose it to :)

    • Only that it should be part of a relationship with the other is totally with you.Don’t lose it cheaply, and don’t just give it away without thought. It is more than just a ”need to get laid”. Sex is about intimacy between two people.

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    lovers00 posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    now im better i just hate that my mom keeps giving me bad looks but whatever and i can barely go hangout with girl cuz she thinks ima date them or something

    • Your mother really should support and be there for you @lovers00, focus on your happiness and don’t let anything get you down, smile and never give up, you can do it, you will find true love with someone special, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    i just came out to my mom and shes doesnt support ad she totally hates my girlfriend i dont know what to do anymore fml

    • Your mother really should support, love and be there for you @lovers00, remember you are a wonderful human-being who deserves to be cared for, surround yourself with happiness and never give up, the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @Lovers00 look at it this way, your family could not like your partner if you’re in a heterosexual relationship. Parents are usually judgemental sadly. It’s your life and do as you please. Respect them and just focus on your relationship. Good luck and you’re always welcomed to message me anytime (:

    • werent you dating a guy a while back lover? you batting for the other team now?

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    lovers00 posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    im feelin all depressed again i feel like im a worthless piece of shit and no one understands me fml no body cares about me relationship is idk what happened cuz something happened with her ex and she said that she doesnt wanna hurt me and now she says she wantes me in her life but everything is so complicated and i hate it and no im not making…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t feel down @lovers00, you are a wonderful, amazing and fantastic person who deserves happiness in life, do your best to stay upbeat, smile and always shine, everything will be OK, be positive and never give up, remember you are special and fabulous, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 5 months ago

    so lots have happened me and nick broke up and ive been really depressed but now im with a girl and im actually really happy but i havent told my parents bc they do not support it and im good with one of my exs now and were friends and i offically came out to eveyone just not my family and eveyone supports me

    • Oli replied 5 months ago

      Hopefully your parents will support you no matter what @lovers00, everyone deserves acceptance and love from their family, try to focus on other things in your life too, I’m sure things will work out for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    so i met nick a lil earlier and it was amazing i kissed him for the first time ever and i got my first hickey i got it on my neck and my mom didnt notice and im really happy im seeing him this friday he told me he loves me for the first time and now im really smiley :)

    • Hope this relationship keeps going strong and blossoms for you @lovers00, everyone deserves love and happiness in life, it’s nice that you have someone special in your life, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    im so happy ive been happy for a few weeks now i finally broke up with the guy i just felt like i had to push myself to like him and it shoudnt work like that and now im talking to this guy and i really like him and i dont have to push myself to like him were meeting next week friday and hes bringing a friend for my friend and im really nervous we…[Read more]

    • I would just try to talk to him in confident and open way @lovers00, hope everything goes smoothly for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lovers00 without sounding rude… calm down ’-’ girl you don’t need to jump right away into another guy. Take your time. The guy can wait, you should take time to recover and get your priorities straight. I’m all for people being happy but it seems you’re really really rushing things

    • @lovers00 mariko is right, slow down a bit. There’s no need to rush anything at all trust me. You’re young, take your time and just enjoy your youth. I wish you the best of luck

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    lovers00 posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Theodore posted an update Hey guys, I was thinking about making a groupme chat for the community here. I believe it works internationally and you can use it as an instant messenger on your phone (it’s a free app!) […] View

    can i join?

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    lovers00 posted an update 6 months ago

    im back and im worse then ever but depression is coming back i do have a wonderful bf but i just can with the world and my family they always talk shit about me and say im stupid and wont let me have feelings and they dont support me being bi and idk what to do i litearlly cry myself to sleep

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Please don’t let your family be horrible to you @lovers00, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel loved, supported and cared for by those closest to you, try to stay upbeat and focus on all the things that bring you brightness, keep on strengthening your relationship with your boyfriend, it’s nice that you have someone special in your…[Read more]

    • @lovers00 I’m so sorry, you sound overwhelmed, feel free to message me. Just remember, if it was better before, it can get better again. It helps me a lot of the time to think of moods as temporary, and people have the potential for change

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    lovers00 posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    so i got my new phone im still talking with the same guy we took a pic today of him holding me from the waist the only things the girls say to me when they see me is ew my other friends hates me now but whatever and im offically telling my dad to leave me the fuck alone so everything is good rn tbh im so happy i cant stop laughing or smiling

    Mood : Happy
    • why would you tell your dad to fuck off? Maybe he’s genuinly worried? Take a second to think that maybe you’re lucky to have parents who care. Just my opinion.

    • It’s great to see you happy @lovers00, hope everything works out, do try to have a good relationship with your family, I’m sure they care about you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @marikofujimoto is right. You’re young and you think it’s a great deal that a guy is giving you pda and attention. It’s cute and all but please don’t hate everyone around you or think people are jealous even. Respect those who are truly there for you! Good luck on everything

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months ago

    so im offically bi ive told a few of my close friends and the guy im talking to they all support me i kinda asked my parents hat they would do if im bi and they think its a sin and that theres a demon in me making me bi so now everytime I’m with a girl like friends they scream at me and call me a hoe

    Mood : Stressed
    • Oli replied 8 months ago

      Your parents should support and be there for you @lovers00, they have no absolutely no right to yell at you and be horrible to you, surround yourself with compassionate people who will stick by you and love you unconditionally, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • You’re going through a lot lately I see and it sucks. Your family seem to have a very ignorant ideal on sexuality and coming from an uptight family, I get it but please don’t stop that from being and liking who you want. It’s your life to live not theirs. As long as you respect them and love them that’s all that matters everything else is for…[Read more]

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months ago

    so that girl that wanted to fight me jumped me and when she jumped she twisted my ankle cuz of her weight and it still hurts and the drama still hasent ended…..

    Mood : Stressed
    • I’m very sorry that you’re going through so much. Why do people have such animalistic ways about themselves? Fighting is never the answer and just go to show she’s a coward.

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months ago

    so the 8th grader well im talking to him again and this time its diffrient he makes me the happiest girl on earth he holds me in his arms and says he doesnt wanna let me go he hugs me for hours he always makes sure im happy and hes always protect me and he wants me to go to his highschool which i am an hes gonna visit me when im in 8th

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    me and him stopped talking i miss him so much he said that he felt wrong cuz im in 7th and hes in 8th i miss him so fucking much he actually understood me and cared about me i told him so much personal shit and i dropped so many guys that asked me out for him what do i do ????

    Mood : Sad
    • You could try to rebuild a bond and friendship with him @lovers00, hopefully things will be OK between the two of you, try to stay positive and remember you are worthy of love, care and happiness, feel free to inbox me if you need to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • Oli is right be friends with him but a relationship just will not work out. He’s making excuses sadly and you just need to pick yourself up and find yourself which could take some time since you’re young. Guys are so crazy at your age just have fun and love yourself. Good luck

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    so this morning i was with my almost bf and then my ex friend said she needed to talk to him she said that she doesnt want him to date me like wtf its my life i can date who ever i want and idk what my almost bf said back he didnt answer my text :(

    • I pm’d you. Hope my advice helps some :)

    • I would try to talk to both of them and see if you can work things out, what matters most is your happiness @lovers00, I’m sure at the right time, you will meet someone who is perfect for you, everything will be OK, stay focused on living each day to the fullest and keep smiling, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel…[Read more]

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    do u guys think i should get a vape pen? i tried one today and i really like it my friend said she can get me one and my almost bf thinks its a good idea he wants to try it to soo what do u think?

    • I used a vape pen once with my ex and it was very cool. I think you should try it out! They are pretty safe from what I read on them and they smell and taste really good :) (i had a starburst flavored one) update if you get one!

    • Do I think you should get a vape pen? No I believe you should not get a vape pen. Most cartridges contain nicotine in its liquid form which can be really harmful in young people. Even those with no nicotine you are consuming chemicals in newly regulated market imposed last year. While manufactures wait to get approved by the FDA they can still…[Read more]

    • If you smoke and trying to find an alternative then I would suggest getting a vape pen, but if you don’t smoke then I don’t really see a reason to get one, even though you could get one and use flavours with 0 nicotine in them.

    • It’s totally your choice @lovers00, do what you feel is best for you, remember to look after yourself and your health too, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    so i ended the drama and i finally met the 8th grader in person were still talking i really like him hes so nice to me and i tell him everything i feel like ive known him forever and all my friends like him im meeting him tmr at school

    Mood : In love
    • Hello good luck! I hope everything works out just like you imagine it to. Please update on how things turn out :)

    • Hope it goes well @lovers00 and this relationship keeps going strong, remember to stay focused on other activities as well, I wish you all the best, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lovers00 posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    so both of my ex bffs wanna fight me and one of them punched me in the eye and now i have a black eye and now the other girl wants to hit me on monday morning but im going to be with lots of 8th graders so they can protect me and my friends and me and my bf broke up but im kinda talking to an 8th grader sooo only one good thing came out of this

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Don’t let anyone be violent towards you @lovers00, I don’t want to see you being hurt, do look after yourself and ask for help if you feel you are in trouble, hopefully you will build good friendships where you feel safe and at ease, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me. I been where you are when i was in school so I understand the drama. :)

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    lovers00 posted an update 9 months, 1 week ago

    i still have the same drama my ex friend/ex bf and his friends wants to fight me bc some people still belive the nudes were mine when they werent

    Mood : Stressed
    • Don’t let anyone bring you down @lovers00, stand up for yourself and remember to live your life positively, hope everything works out, you are a wonderful person who doesn’t deserve to be treated badly, things will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • It does not really matter what people think, what matters is the truth. You know yourself that the nudes were not yours, and if people don’t believe you, then that is their problem for not believing the truth. I’m here if you need someone to talk to. You’re not alone okay

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    lovers00 posted an update 9 months, 1 week ago

    i finally over him and done with him i find someone very special and this time im not ruining it

    • Hope things go well for you @lovers00, remember to stay focused on your happiness, I’m sure one day a wonderful and strong relationship will happen to you, you will meet your soulmate, also find time for other activities in your life too, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you will never be alone :) (hugs)

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