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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    A bit annoyed at my dad. He is trying to get a hold of my finances and I have no say in it. I am 23 and I should have control over on how I should save my money. He wants me to put in a retirement find type thing.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I would try to talk to your father about how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you want to look after yourself and your finances, hopefully he will listen because you deserve independence, I’m sure things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    A few months a go my bf and I took a break and during that time i was not my best. It was a darktime for me. I told a person who i thought was my friend how i was feeling during that time. Eventally me and my bf got back together. Fast foward to last week where i wanted to hang with this friend. I asked if she wanted to hang out with me via…[Read more]

    Mood : Infuriated
    • Your friend really should have stuck by you @lilwisher93, don’t let anyone treat you badly or use things against you, surround yourself with compassion and positivity, smile and do your best to keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 sometimes friends can be hypocritical. It happens. You have to still be a friend to her so that means respecting what she has to say but by all means do that suggest that you have to do as she say. Make yourself as happy as possible.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Welp I just possible lost a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ clearly someone is acting like a child. Oh well

    Mood : Indifferent
    • You are a wonderful person who deserves good friends around you @lilwisher93, surround yourself with compassionate people who will stick by you no matter what, I want to see you happy and truly smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 such a shame. I have a friend like that as well.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    But who am I. I get constantly get biched at by my parents for the littlest things. Like being on my phone or going out to see my boyfriend. Yet they don’t bat an eye to bother who is 2 years younger than me (I’m 23) who was freely to see his girlfriend and is up late playing video games.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your parents really should trust you and treat you with respect @lilwisher93, I’m sure they want the best for you but at the same time, you deserve independence in life, try to talk to them and see what happens, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Also, try your best not to compare yourself to your brother. If you talk this way to your parents, it can come off as immature and whiny. You have to be your own person and no say what he can do compared to you. You can’t live your life worrying how others treat one person over the other. If people treated everyone the same, this world would be a…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    Let the saga of my parents continue. This time being called a sneak by my dad. Wtf?! Clearly according to him I can’t do a last min vist to my boyfriend. Yet when my bother was dating his girlfriend they didn’t say anything to him regarding him doing a last minute vist. I have to tell them in advance that I am going on a date or hanging out with…[Read more]

    Mood : Angry
    • Your parents really should be fair to both you and your brother @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them and let them know how you feel, tell them that you just want to spend some time with your boyfriend and that you would like some independence, hope things work out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

    • Parents can be very sexist. I find that very hypocrit quite honestly. I just think you should ignore it, you’re an adult, therefore is your life.
      Maybe try to get your life ready to move out so you don’t have to deal with that negativity

    • Parents are like that about their girls. It sucks but if you of legal age, do what you think is best. Never let anyone stop you from the chance of happiness and freedom

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 months ago

    Parents logic: Let my 21-year-old brother visit his girlfriend in Boston where she goes to school 3 times however I can’t sleep over my boyfriends’ house who is an hour away. Note: I live somewhere in NY.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Your parents really should be fair to both of you @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them, tell them that you know they are looking out for you but that you also want to spend time with your boyfriend so you can make your relationship stronger, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • Parents can be sexist sometimes but I’m pretty sure they have the best intentions at heart. Staying at a guys house is overrated anyways. You can spend time with one another in way more unique ways. Good luck

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 months ago

    I hate my current job situation and it been bothering lately that I won’t find a new job soon. At my current job they don’t treat me right. I apply for so many places and nonthing. I have all this experience yet no one will hire me. I am just overwhelmed with emotion. To the point where I want to cry

    Mood : Anxious
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Don’t give up on finding a job that brings you happiness @lilwisher93, keep applying to places as much as you can, I’m sure you will find something you like, everything will be OK, follow your dreams and always believe in yourself, you can do it, stay upbeat because you will be successful, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    Not even 5 mins after wakingmy dad accused me for using my phone. I was making a phone call and getting ready for the day. He even called me a lier that always lies

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your father should be kind, respectful and loving towards you @lilwisher93, don’t let him be horrible to you, smile and keep being the fantastic person that you are, you can do it, hope you have a great day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 as someone who have daddy issues I get how they can simply be rude and cruel. Just respect him enough and. besides that, nothing more. Good luck.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    How ironic dad accused me of lying but you know damn well he lies most of the time. Somethings are ment to be kept a secret or none of your business to know.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your father really should be honest, truthful and open with you @lilwisher93, talk to each other and see if you can work things out, don’t bottle up your thoughts and feelings, do confide in someone if you need too, hope everything goes OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 my dad is the ultimate hypocrite so I understand. Just respect your dad as much as possible and hopefully the same will be given back in return. Feel free to message me anytime

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    lilwisher93 started the forum topic Advice needed in the group Group logoVent It! 4 months ago

    I need some advice. My parents are not a fan of my boyfriend. It really frustrates me that they don’t approve of him because of his race and his current situation. He is Spanish and I am white. He had to drop out […]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    I finally found happiness in my life but my parents don’t approve of it because according to them I am on the wrong path when it comes to love. I feel like I am on the right path of love. Why do they have to try and bring me down

    Mood : Bewildered
    • I would do what you feel is right for you @lilwisher93, if you love someone and you know the relationship will continue going strong, keep being there for each other as much as you can, try to talk to your parents and tell them how happy you are, I’m sure they will support you as time goes on, hope everything works out, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    Just gone through a bad relationship in my life. I learned a lot from this situation and hope the best for myself now and in the future.

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Do your best to move forward with your life @lilwisher93, I’m sure you will have a stable and loving relationship with someone wonderful in the future, try to stay positive and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 that’s a very good attitude :) I’m sure you’ll become a better individual learning from this experience. Best of luck!

    • That’s great that you have a good outlook on things! Good luck and if you ever want to talk, feel free to message me :)

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year ago

    Nonthing beats getting yelled at my dad over a computer problem that was bound to happen. Hard drive broke and now I am being blamed for it. All because I switched users and restarted the computer.

    Mood : Aggravated
    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Hope you manage to get your computer fixed @lilwisher93, your father really shouldn’t be angry at you, I’m sure it will be OK in the end :) (hugs)

    • You were more likely being yelled at because your father is under high amounts of stress that he isn’t succeeding in managing. Why else would someone be so unreasonable?
      @lilwisher93
      So was it really a yell… or a plea for help?

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Once again my depression hit me hard. I am such a huge failure. Why does this keep happening to me? I am a disappointment myself and my family :’(

    Mood : Depressed
    • don’t blame yourself over something that isn’t under your control, your family should be supportive .. don’t be so hard on yourself

    • Please don’t think like that @lilwisher93, you are such a lovely and special person who deserves all the joy and happiness in the world, hold your head up high and don’t let anything get you down, things may seem hard but they will change for the better, you are a survivor who will overcome, show everyone how truly brilliant you are, you will…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update That one person who is just trying to smash your dreams. I just want to be happy. View

    Problem he is very stubborn

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    lilwisher93 posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update That one person who is just trying to smash your dreams. I just want to be happy. View

    Even if a family member trying to destroy my dreams

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    That one person who is just trying to smash your dreams. I just want to be happy.

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    lilwisher93 started the forum topic Just need some advice in the group Group logoVent It! 1 year, 5 months ago

    For the last few weeks I been having these thoughts about life. ranging from school to working to money. Its keeping me up at night to the point where i can’t sleep at night i am just worried. I want to enjoy life […]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    For the last few weeks I been having these thoughts about life. ranging from school to working to money. Its keeping me up at night to the point where i can’t sleep at night i am just worried. I want to enjoy life but i can’t with these thoughts. I just don’t know what to do.

    Mood : Worried
    • try taking a bit of a break to clear your mind, and whenever i go to bed i tell myself ”i’ll let tomorrow’s me worry about tomorrow’s problems”, you need your sleep :)

    • Try to relax and focus on all the positive things that are happening @lilwisher93, try to get some rest and take care of yourself, I’m sure you will do great, keep going forward and continue being wonderful, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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