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    mariko posted an update 15 hours, 28 minutes ago

    So… I’m so terrified of gaining weight , since I’m elegant now, that I’m damaging my body… not eating enough vegetables and food rich in iron. I almost passed out twice, I am sleepy 24/7 and realised I’ve been binging chocolates cause is how I get a bit of energy. DONE with that. This is MY life and I have to take it by the horns. Tomorrow…[Read more]

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    • Be kind to and love yourself @marikofujimoto, you are beautiful, perfect and amazing inside and out Mariko, stay healthy in a way that makes you feel good sweetie, you can do it hun, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything Mariko, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • There’s not anything with chocolate especially dark chocolate which is surprisingly great for you. Everything is about limits. I know you’re not eating it by the pounds daily so it’s fine. There are some apps that you can get on your phone that you can use everyday and put what you are eating and drinking and it will tell you the calorie intake…[Read more]

    • Check your Vitamin D levels if you can. If you can’t try taking 1000 mg/day for a couple weeks and see if it helps with the tiredness. Start in moderation. All or nothing can turn you off new things too easily. Do salads with fruit and nuts in it. Very nummy!

    • If you only eat fruits and vegetables, it can be easy to be deficient in protein which is very important. I know my mom had the same problem, she uses a plant based protein powder supplement, but of course the doctor will tell you what’s best for you. Just be careful about your energy levels, the two most important parts about being healthy are…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 19 minutes ago

    Expected to do something I wasn’t properly trained or taught… makes sense. -.- All my job does now is cause anxiety.

    • I would try to talk to your manager at work and see if they can put in some training for you @invincible, hopefully they will help you so you can succeed Cecelia, you will be OK Cecelia, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • So much of life is bluffing our way through. I have suspicions people bluff a lot more than what they let on, and we think we are the only ones who don’t get it. Most people don’t they just don’t let anyone else know.

    • @invincible I understand that it’s frustrating but you need to speak up asap and no not in a bad, aggressive way but more in a sense of saying ”hey, please help me so I can do this properly” good luck and please update on the matter.

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    lullie posted an update 21 hours, 8 minutes ago

    I wish I could stay cozy in bed in this cold, cold day. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE this type of weather. The only thing I don’t like is putting my blanket aside and stepping into the shower.

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    mariko posted an update 1 day, 11 hours ago

    Goodnight everyone

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 day, 13 hours ago

    Overwhelmed for tomorrow at work. Sigh. But I’ll try

    • You’ll be OK @invincible, try to go into work with your head held high and keep smiling, I’m sure you will have a fantastic day, stay fabulous hun and don’t give up, I’m always here for you Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @invincible best of luck :) I hope everything goes awesome for you

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 1 hour ago

    Also I just realised the perfect job for myself until june (when I apply for uni again): a job in a bookstore! I spent all my life in bookstores and around books! All I need to learn is how to work with the money cash machine. Right now I’m working on my curriculum and I’m going to also make a letter to promote myself. Guys I’m determinated to…[Read more]

    • Do apply for the job @marikofujimoto, I’m sure you will fit in amazingly working at a bookstore, follow your dreams and pursue your passions sweetie, I wish you all the best Mariko :) <3 (hugs)

    • I love bookstores and even considered working at one since I have always been an avid reader – I’m not reading much anymore tho because I’ve been busy lately with work/uni). I really hope you can get this job and do what you love. Good luck! By the way, do you have any book you love worth sharing? xx

    • @oliver thank you so much! If you have any advice for this please feel free to say :D

    • @hope15 thank you so much I really want this job :)
      About books I haven’t read much lately (actual literature I mean). What I’ve been reading is the LOTR trilogy in english, since my mother tongue is portuguese. Is being interesting seeing this type of english

    • @marikofujimoto I truly hope you get a job at one of those bookstores. I would love to work in one myself as I find them to be therapeutic and relaxing things that I honestly feel that you need in your life right now. You have such a optimistic, determined mind so I know you will exceed. Keep it up dear :)

    • Aw I hope you get a job there it sounds like it would be great!

    • My mother tongue is Portuguese too, but I am from Brazil. I’ve never read the LOTR trilogy nor have I seen the movies, so I might give it a try someday. I love classic literature, Jane Austen is one of my favorites, but I will read anything you give to me. It is such a pleasure!

    • @hope15 oh lovely to see a brazilian person! Here we consider you guys like family :)
      And you should give it a try if you like fantasy and amazing characters

    • @invincible thank you so much! I’ll try my best :D

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 1 hour ago

    However I decided to pull myself up! Not going down! My anxiety is not going to define me!
    Is why I signed in my yoga center for an experimental class in meditation this saturday. If I can learn to meditate at least for an hour , I for sure will improve

    • Stay positive and don’t let anything get you down @marikofujimoto, do relax and remember you are a bright, beautiful and special angel of the Blah community, believe in yourself and keep going forward sweetie, you can do it Mariko, I’m always here for you :) <3 (hugs)

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 1 hour ago

    So last night I had a massive panick attack due to the pression I have.

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    Super Woman posted an update 2 days, 3 hours ago

    Here for anybody who needs to talk~

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 13 hours ago

    I have so much pressure I think I’ll go insane.
    Doesn’t help that my monday class is going to be suspended and I’m only going to have one class at wednesday. Let’s just say I’ve been taking an anxiety pill everyday.

    Mood : Crushed
    • Try to relax and take deep breathes @marikofujimoto, focus on making each day bright and happy Mariko, I want to see you feeling calm and at ease with yourself sweetie, you will be OK hun, take care Mariko and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • That sucks. I know how you been enjoying that class but please try to relax. You’re more than welcomed to talk to me anytime @marikofujimoto

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 17 hours ago

    I wonder how these old men and women who spent their whole lives working towards only getting rich and getting powerful, look back on their lives. Do they wonder what it would’ve been like to experience the beauty of living life? Of loving or being loved, truly? Or that they are worth more than just money and power? …And then BOOM they’re…[Read more]

    • You will have a wonderful and fulfilling life @invincible, hold your head up high and know you will make all your dreams come true Cecelia, I’m sure one day you will look back and be proud of all the amazing things that you accomplished, in the course of your journey, do look after yourself but also support others hun, smile because everything…[Read more]

    • @invincible I wonder that as well. People seem to be program to save money, spend it on material items and homes and cars and it’s like what else? People take those things for the power that media and such has made it out to be nothing else. They have to feel pretty empty. I have had family that wasn’t rich but had money and work their butts off…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 18 hours ago

    I feel like I was set up to fail

    • Please don’t think like that @invincible, you are a special person who will make all her dreams and goals come true, hold your head up high and know you will achieve great things in life Cecelia, smile because so much brightness lies ahead for you, believe in yourself and keep going forward with confidence, you can do it, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

    • You may have been, but now you have a choice with what to do from here on in. We all fail at times, often because of other people. But they have no power over my attitude, my dreams, my choices. The question is, now what?

    • @invincible not true, we all have our strenghts , you just have to focous on them and day by day, try to keep going. I believe in you

    • @invincible I know the feeling but as others said you have to find that one thing you don’t feel so bad at or in and just stick with it for as long as possible. This world do seem to attack some of us more than others but you have to find a way to fight back girl.

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    lullie posted an update 3 days, 22 hours ago

    How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank spaces that I can’t comprehend, much like a puzzle piece I will never be able to complete. There are missing pieces that I will never be able to find. I want…[Read more]

    Mood : Hurt
    • Do your best to move forward with your life @hope15, maybe you could still be friends with this guy, remember a wonderful and strong relationship will happen to you, you will meet your soulmate, try to stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I understand where you are coming from since I am too trying to recover from a heartbreak. I don’t believe time heals everything but i do believe with time comes new trials and errors to the point where you won’t be thinking of him anymore. Let these emotions ride out and before you know it, you will be okay to great. If you ever want to talk,…[Read more]

    • Lullie,
      My experience is: time plus personal growth goes a long way to start the healing process. Take time to know yourself better. We all recognize another relationship can change things overnight, but we have to be wise in our assessment and not just rebound, or settle because we are lonely. Take time to know what you want in a guy, and then…[Read more]

    • @hope15 blocking them everywhere and never lurk their social media, if it’s not something you already implemented, is a good start.

    • Thank you, everyone, for your kind messages. You gave me another perspective and I truly appreciate it. I am kind of stubborn when it comes to letting go, but if you are not willing to do it, you will never see the great things ahead of you. I will try to, though. I know I have to. I know he’s already done this and is happy now, and I am happy…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 3 days, 23 hours ago

    So I finally made the blog: https://animebestgirl95.wixsite.com/advice

    (ignore the name since I didn’t feel like making a new email, and they required it for the title so)

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    mariko posted an update 4 days, 1 hour ago

    So email is done and now let’s get to work to create this blog

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