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    laylab95 posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    So my ”boyfriend” have been off every Tuesday for the past 2 weeks and say he wants to see me but have no gas money. I would easily give him some but why should I? I been so much financially for him and haven’t seen not a penny of it back yet. He has a job which I’m not sure what he’s doing what his paychecks (I hope saving every penny to give me my money back.) then he’s been hanging out with his friends even the ones who stay 30 minutes away (I live an hour away.) you can’t ask them for gas money to see me? So obvious that he doesn’t want to see me and that he have no real friends.

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    • Your boyfriend really should try to see you and be there for you @layla95, hopefully he will pay you back the money Layla, don’t let him take advantage of you sweetie, I want to see you being loved and cared for hun, hope things work out Layla, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • @layla95 darling if he has money from his paychecks and doesn’t have money from his gas , something fishy is going on. I think you should ask him honestly, cause he can’t ask you for money without telling you what he’s doing with the one he gets from his job. I hope he’s not taking advantage of you cause you’re too sweet for that, you don’t deserve that

    • @marikofujimoto the money i let him borrow from me was for his probation and dui school. He has been working like 70 hours a week for a month now which he have gotten 2 paychecks so far. I haven’t heard him say once about paying me anything back. I’m trying to be fair and not bring it up at least not yet. Besides paying a cell phone bill and half of his parents light bill, I don’t see what he have been doing with his checks. My instincts are telling me he’s not going to pay it back. It do seems like he used that money for something else and actually paying off everything now. I thought I was being a great supportive girlfriend that would reap such great karma but at the end, I look stupid.

    • Thank you @Oli :)

    • @layla95 you’re not stupid, like you said you were being a supportive girlfriend. You have a good heart and you care about him. Is not your fault he’s using the money on something else. Don’t be yourself up, you’re truly a sweet person