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    Aiya posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    I’m definitely not good at making friends

    Mood : Blah
    • I know how you feel @lala-arduini, I’m shy too and find it hard to make friends with others Aiya, it takes me time to warm up to people, try your best to be open, confident and let your bright personality shine through Aiya, remember you are a wonderful person who deserves to surround herself with happiness, hold your head up high and smile, you…[Read more]

    • Just be your self and start goofing around with people. It is easy on here – anonymous and things are often driven by others. Join in a conversation, start a new one. Just be persistent. It is a start. Gain confidence online, and it can translate into real life. Of course, because you are on a therapy site here, some people might explode in anger,…[Read more]

    • @lala-arduini you have to find common ground. If you have similar hobbies and interests with others will help alot. Also if you struggle with small talk, try to ask people things about themselves. People loooove talking about themselves so that will give you some time to think of the next subject of conversation. Hopefully I helped. Best of luck darling

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Aiya posted an update I cant sleep View

    Something like that, I’ll try thanks steve

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    Aiya posted an update 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    I cant sleep

    Mood : Sleepy
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    Aiya and Profile picture of Ca NooSteve are now friends 3 months, 3 weeks ago

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    Aiya posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    ”So, so you think you can tell
    Heaven from Hell
    Blue skies from pain
    Can you tell a green field
    From a cold steel rail?
    A smile from a veil?
    Do you think you can tell?”

    Mood : Alone
    • What’s on your mind @lala-arduini, I don’t want to see you feeling alone or down, you are such a lovely person who deserves to have a smile on your face, try to stay positive and keep smiling, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything Aiya, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I can only tell from my perspective. There’s truth that when I see fields of green you may see steel rails. Excuse my ignorance, but one day I hope skies will be blue for you.

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I really wish I knew people or had friends with BPD. Someone who could understand me. View

    I know how it’s hard to have no one who truly understands you around, I’ve been there, with you need someone to talk to just let me know.

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    Aiya started the forum topic Just venting…Therapists… in the group Group logoVent It! 1 year, 3 months ago

    Trigger warning?!

    I’m having some trouble with finding a good therapist. I’ve already tried 3 times.
    The first one looked at me with pity in her eyes when I told her all that I’ve been through, and told […]

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 3 months ago

    In reply to: sochita posted an update Only here because my therapist made me do it. View

    It’s good to have you here!

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    Aiya replied to the forum topic What are you reading today? in the group Group logoBook Lovers United 1 year, 3 months ago

    The wise man’s fear, by patrick rothfuss :D (The best fantasy trilogy ever!)

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Aiya posted an update Why is it so hard to make friends? View

    Yeah, I’m tired of getting dissapointed.

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Aiya posted an update Why is it so hard to make friends? View

    Thanks Oli, you are always sweet.

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    Aiya posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Why is it so hard to make friends?

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I know how you feel @lala-arduini, I’m shy so it’s difficult to make friends for me Aiya, but I’m sure you will find ways to meet good people, you are a lovely person with an awesome personality that I’m sure others will love, try talking about common interests or every-day things Aiya, music, movies, do surround yourself with compassionate…[Read more]

    • Thanks Oli, you are always sweet.

    • Well, I learnt the hard way is all the poeple you surround with.
      After thousands of supposedly ”good friends”, they all dissapointed me, So my advice is: Keep meeting tons of new people. Eventually you’ll find the right ones :)

    • Yeah, I’m tired of getting dissapointed.

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m such a waste of space, annoyance and a burden to everything and everyone, honestly why am I here?, I will forever be trapped in this dark hole with no way out, this community is better off […] View

    Oli, you are the most kind heated person i know, your kind words of support help everyone in here. Keep your head up, and keep helping people, you are very good at it, pm me if you ever need to talk

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 7 months ago

    In reply to: ima_snaaake posted an update Honestly just looking for a new older female friend with the same interests. I’m into gaming, cosplay, manga…. oh…and I’m a scropio… View

    yoo o/

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Hayden posted an update Anyone else seeing the lunar eclipse? :o View

    I am! It’s beautiful!

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: beccaboo posted an update Gunna go back to my happy place sleep so I don’t have to feel anymore pain View

    feel free to mensage me any time, if you need someone to talk. :D

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    Aiya posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: TaraRune posted an update Hot chocolate+fuzzy blanket=bye bye stress View

    Sounds good!

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