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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Hello everyone! Long time no post! I’m doing alright, the past 2 or so weeks have been difficult with just so much loss recently. I’m just thankful that it’s summer time and I can […] View

    Please remember to take care of yourself @kittymew, it can be difficult going through loss Kayla, but remember to focus on all the happy, upbeat and positive moments, surround yourself with all the things that recall better times and surround yourself with love, compassion and empathy, you can do it Kayla, do have a great summer and keep smiling…[Read more]
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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update My grandfather passed away last night. I was there when he died. I know it’s normal for me to grieve, but I feel guilty because I am jealous of how he treated and spend time with […] View

    It’s not uncommon to have mixed feelings in these situations. Don’t feel bad about it @kittymew. When a beloved one passes away, we usually remember every moment and experience with them, and that involves good memories and bad memories. It’s going to be hard, but you’ll go through this. Take all the time you need to process everything that…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update My grandfather passed away last night. I was there when he died. I know it’s normal for me to grieve, but I feel guilty because I am jealous of how he treated and spend time with […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @kittymew, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your grandfather, all the times you laughed together and he made you happy Kayla, hope you managed to spend some time with him before he passed sweetie, be strong Kayla, you will make it through this, I’m always here if you need to talk, inbox me anytime, you…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Confirmed diagnosis and am starting ACA meetings. I hope this can help me from not being able to sleep. Went off of my antidepressant also, and I am more emotional but I know I need […] View

    Hope going to the meetings truly help you and make you feel happier @kittymew, I want to see you positive and making each day as incredible as you can, do find good ways to get your thoughts and emotions out, don’t bottle things up, remember you are a wonderful person who is deserving of all the brightness that life has to offer, everything will…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I was diagnosed at my last counselling session with Complex PTSD. I’ve never experienced any trauma or abuse that I know of either. Idk how to feel. View

    @kittymew PTSD usually is severe trauma but sometimes ”light” PTSD can occour from abusive homes or relationships.
    Also remember therapists are humans, they have flaws. Is possible he misdiagnosed you.
    You can always request a second opinion if you are unsure about this
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I was diagnosed at my last counselling session with Complex PTSD. I’ve never experienced any trauma or abuse that I know of either. Idk how to feel. View

    I would continue to go to the counselling sessions and see how they can best help you, tell them about your thoughts, feelings and things that have happened in your life @kittymew, remember the BT community will always be here to support you Kayla and so will I, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves all the best, everything will be OK, you…[Read more]
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    mariko replied to the forum topic What's the true meaning of finding yourself? in the group Group logoI don’t know who I am anymore. 6 years, 5 months ago

    @kittymew just because you like different things doesn’t mean you stopped being you. We grow, we change. Specially with people and experiences around us.
    In my opinion who we really are shows by our actions. […]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Guys I’m kinda bored with this site because there’s not a way to search for groups and not a way to ask questions like we used to be. It’s not as much as I liked before, but oh […] View

    Hope the admin or the community can manage to make improvements/suggestions to the site so it can be made better @kittymew, we need a way to get the questions back up and member registrations without attracting spammers, bots or trolls, also to make the groups page easily accessible, you can search it through Google though, I want to see this…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Guys I’m kinda bored with this site because there’s not a way to search for groups and not a way to ask questions like we used to be. It’s not as much as I liked before, but oh […] View

    @kittymew completly agree. I think the question parts they removed because back in the day these fake accounts were spamming the entire question sections. Now the groups I think is working ok? At least I can still acess to it.
    But I agree with you, wish the questions came back :/
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Really upset because of the shooting yesterday. It makes me uncomfortable to go anywhere without protection for myself. I hate that I can’t go anywhere without shootings happening. […] View

    @kittymew I’m so sorry. I’ve heard the news and is terrifying how innocent people were stolen from their lives just like that, specially in a church, a place where people go when they need to gain their strenght. To not mention I know that one of the victims was a child, that breaks my heart.
    I’m sending love from Portugal to you. I hope that…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Really upset because of the shooting yesterday. It makes me uncomfortable to go anywhere without protection for myself. I hate that I can’t go anywhere without shootings happening. […] View

    Try to relax and have a good day @kittymew, find activities to do that put a smile on your face and make you feel at ease Kayla, you will be OK, do take your medication and look after yourself, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Today is a new day. What happened yesterday is in the past, and today is the present. Make today everything you want it to be, and share a smile with someone today. Give someone a […] View

    It’s great to see you inspiring others with positivity, compassion and hope @kittymew, always be the lovely person that you are, keep smiling and have a fabulous day, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I am baaaaaaaackkkkkkkk View

    @kittymew welcome back! :)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I am baaaaaaaackkkkkkkk View

    It’s great to have you back on BT @kittymew, hope you are doing amazingly Kayla, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I’ve never wanted to harm myself more than I do now… I wish my parents would get off my case… View

    Please don’t harm yourself @kittymew, your parents should treat you with all the love, happiness and support in the world Kayla, I would try to talk to them about things, make your parents see things from your point of view, be as honest and open as you can, I want to see you smiling and living each day to the fullest, you can do it Kayla, feel…[Read more]
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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Silent Rain posted an update I’m behind on the changes that took place. I just saw that the ”questions” section isn’t around anymore. I’m slow. View

    @kittymew Site was being spammed and they were targeted and thus disabled, I guess they are to be purged of all the spam questions before being activated again, among other things.
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I’ve been struggling with anxiety and for once I actually was able to make the breathing exercises work for me. I’m still struggling with it but I feel I have a little more control […] View

    Try to calm yourself and relax @kittymew, keep doing breathing exercises and focus on all the things that put a smile on your face and that make you feel content, you are a wonderful person who deserves all the brightness and joy in the world Kayla, things will work out for you and everything will go your way, keep being the lovely and awesome…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update Well, at the counseling center… Appointment coming up within the next minute or so… Wish me luck. View

    You’ll be OK @kittymew, remember to be honest and tell them how you truly feel Kayla, you will make it hun, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I’m sorry guys. I’m just so sick and tired of feeling depressed and scared for no reason. I’m going tomorrow between my classes to talk to a counselor at school, probably going to […] View

    You deserve true happiness and a wonderful life filled with the most amazing moments @kittymew, you are such a brave and courageous person for talking to someone about how you feel, it’s a big step, you will make it through this and you will come out so much stronger, keep going and don’t give up, everything will work out, focus on getting…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: mini_beethoven posted an update I’m depressed and I have anxiety… I don’t know how to control it without crying… View

    Focus on the things that make you happy, things that make you laugh and smile @kittymew, you don’t deserve any pain or sadness Kayla, you are an extraordinary and special individual who deserves all the best in life, everything will work out and things will be OK, try to be upbeat, you will beat all your struggles and come out so much more…[Read more]
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