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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I am at my breaking point. It seems to me that my boyfriend is never going to grow up. I understand you should always respect your parents. but at the age of 21 he should be treated like […] View

    I agree with @marikofujimoto, his mother really shouldn’t interfere in your relationship, it’s good she cares but she should let him be his own person @kealeeb, as Mariko said, do talk to your boyfriend in an honest and straight way, hopefully than he will give you the love, support and attention that you deserve, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update in the group Girl Talk I dont know what to do anymore. I have been in a relationship where I have to beg and plead for attention because he is so distracted. And recently things are even […] View

    His mother really should let him be independent @kealeeb, hopefully he will realise that he needs to live his own life Kealee, it’s good that he has the support of his mother but at the same time, he has to try to make things happen in his own way, try to talk to him about your concerns and let his mother know how you feel, be honest with him…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I am at my breaking point. It seems to me that my boyfriend is never going to grow up. I understand you should always respect your parents. but at the age of 21 he should be treated like […] View

    @kealeeb my ex was exactly the same thing and I broke up with him when in fact he turned to his mum’s side and talked about our own stuff (aka couple intimite stuff) without my consent and told her alot of my secrets about me and my family to her and she spread them around.
    Basically he was too scared of his mum so would do anything she wanted,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I am back… I feel like I just need people to help me through some things. My relationship is 10 times worse with my selfesteem and depression… I dont do anything but lay around and stress […] View

    I would try to talk to your boyfriend and let him know that you want a relationship that is loving, mature, trustworthy and strong @kealeeb, he should try to make things better so that you can feel happy and comfortable with everything, be as honest as you can Kealee, hope things work out for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Right now in my relationship we are struggling on quite a bit including communication and bonding. Some parts of me feels like I have out grown him, but then theres parts of me that feels […] View

    @kealeeb What would make a difference, and have you asked him to do it?

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Things are still feeling down… View

    Please don’t feel down @kealeeb, things will look up for you, try to stay upbeat and keep going, I want the best for you Kealee, you will make it through all the difficult times and come out stronger, I’m always here if you need to vent or chat about absolutely anything, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I dont know what to do with my relationship anymore… We have been dating for over 2 years online. We are deeply in love with each other, even though our relationship hasnt been the […] View

    He really should try to make things better and stronger in the relationship @kealeeb, tell him that you would like him to be able to look after himself as well as being independent, be as honest with him about what you want Kealee, listen to each other and I’m sure things will go fantastically for the both of you in the future, don’t give up,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I didnt know it was a crime to want a mature relationship View

    You deserve a relationship where you are heard, valued, loved and appreciated @kealeeb, do try to talk to your partner and tell him want you want out of being together, I’m sure everything will fall into place and things will get stronger as each day passes, try to stay positive and don’t give up, you can do it Kealee, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Life is a living hell View

    Please don’t let life’s struggles get you down @kealeeb, you are such an inspirational and incredible person who deserves all the best, things may seem hard but they will change for the better, hold your head up high and be as upbeat as you can, fantastic things will happen to you Kealee, focus on being the wonderful angel that you are, you will…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update It is always up and down with him… View

    Don’t let your relationship troubles get you down @kealeeb, you deserve to be treated with all the love and support in the world Kealee, your boyfriend shouldn’t ignore you or mess you about sweetie, you deserve so much better, I don’t want to see such a wonderful angel like yourself upset Kealee, message me anytime if you want to talk, my…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Today seemed like a rocky day for me… My boyfriend jumped on me for sleeping all day and then would not get off his gameboy for 2-3 hours straight… At the end of the night we had a okay […] View

    He should pay you the love and attention that you truly deserve @kealeeb, I want to see you in a strong and wonderful relationship Kealee, you deserve to be treated like an angel and a princess, try to get your boyfriend to concentrate on you and making things stronger between the two of you, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

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    Please don’t let hard times get you down @kealeeb, you deserve to live a happy, loving and fulfilling life Kealee, you are a special angel who is so nice and wonderful, I don’t want to see you sad sweetie, I want to see you feeling on top of the world, everything will go your way hun, keep going and never give up, I’ll always be here if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Things seem to be getting better… but this was only one day View

    Glad things are going great for you @kealeeb, you are such a sweet, lovely and beautiful angel who deserves to feel loved and appreciated, I want your days to be filled with happiness and joy hun, please keep going and don’t give up, remember to show everyone your bright and amazing smile, you can do it Kealee, message me anytime if you want, my…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update It is time for me to take action, i have came to understand that it is not my fault my relationship is the way it is thanks to chatting with friends on here. I have to sit him down and […] View

    Your boyfriend should pay attention to you and he should give you the love and support that you deserve @kealeeb, do try to talk to him and tell him how you truly feel Kealee, be honest with him and speak from the heart, hopefully he’ll listen to you, I want the best for you sweetie, try to be positive and keep smiling, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Why do terrible things have to happen? I mean beofore May my relationship was perfect! And then we hit all the ups and downs when my fear got the best of me… And it ruined us. Trust was […] View

    I don’t want to see you sad and depressed over your relationship @kealeeb, you truly deserve to be happy, loved and cared for by your partner Kealee, try to make your partner see that you want things to work between the two of you, tell him how you feel, your partner should listen to you, hopefully you will get things back to where they were, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Lately I have been struggling with trust in my relationship, which is really sad because we worked so hard on building up trust… I used to be so confident and I didn’t worry about a […] View

    You deserve to feel happy, loved and appreciated in your relationship @kealeeb, your partner really should try to make things work and make it stronger, I would try to talk to your partner and see how things go, I want the best for you sweetie, you truly deserve to be valued Kealee, be positive and don’t give up, I know you can do it, I’ll…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Today has been a stressful day… View

    Talk to me @kealeeb, I don’t want to see you feeling upset Kealee, you are such a beautiful and sweet person who deserves to feel so happy, do your best to focus on the things that make you smile, everything will be OK and so many more brighter days will be ahead, hold your head up high and be upbeat, keep being the fantastic angel that I know…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update Is it bad for wanting to take a sem off to work and make some money after 18 years of school? I am wore out and some understand but allot dont View

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to work and making some money @kealeeb, do your best to find the right job and occupation for you, you will find your passion hun, you can do it, be positive and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: kealee b posted an update I wish I could be as close as I once was with my bf… Now i have trouble bonding with him in all kinds of ways View

    Try to talk to him about how you feel @kealeeb, do your best to spend as much time with each other as possible, hopefully you’ll be able to rekindle that spark between the two of you, be honest with each other, I’m always here if you need someone to open up too Kealee, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are…[Read more]