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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 6 days ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I always sort of knew this about myself but I never really said it aloud. I have trust issues. I overthink relationships. It’s why I tend to badmouth the one person I really care about, […] View

    Please don’t feel guilty @jennyburer, try to work through any difficulties you face in a relationship so things can become stronger, stay positive and know you will find true love, you will meet someone who makes you smile, everything will be OK, remember there is always hope Alexandria, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Lesson learned: don’t expect that you’ll be special to someone just by being patient and loving. If someone is selfish, they are selfish. If you’re the one who’s constantly asking […] View

    @jennyburer ”If someone is selfish, they are selfish” – you said everything here. Don’t waist time on someone like that, you deserve much more than that

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Lesson learned: don’t expect that you’ll be special to someone just by being patient and loving. If someone is selfish, they are selfish. If you’re the one who’s constantly asking […] View

    He had absolutely no right to treat badly @jennyburer, you deserve someone who will show you love and support Alexandria, focus on the things that bring you happiness, stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, I’m sure you will meet your soulmate, a strong relationship with a wonderful partner will come your way, smile and keep…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why can’t breakups ever be peaceful? View

    @jennyburer The pride gets in the way most of the times, such as drama :/ . I hope you recover though , and if you ever need help you can message me

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why can’t breakups ever be peaceful? View

    Try to stay friendly and peaceful with each other @jennyburer, I’m sure things will work out for the both of you, some relationships are difficult but in the end, the people involved all deserve happiness, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Paranoia has always been my worst enemy. My mind has refused to be silent these past few days. Every time my mind starts to get peaceful, I remember that I was worried and angry about […] View

    //Paranoia has always been my worst enemy.// @jennyburer
    > Your mindset, world view, thoughts and actions are the reason you are where you are today. If you want to be at the same place tomorrow, you keep those mindsets, you keep those world views, you keep doing those actions.
    But if you want to bring a change in yourself, if you want to be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Paranoia has always been my worst enemy. My mind has refused to be silent these past few days. Every time my mind starts to get peaceful, I remember that I was worried and angry about […] View

    Don’t let your worries or struggles get you down @jennyburer, try to relax and calm yourself, find ways to put your mind at ease, maybe listening to something soothing or meditation will help, you will be OK Alexandria because you are a survivor, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @jennyburer I think a good answer for all your doubts should be “Because she is the person who would do this”, it’s an answer that will let you try to move on and stop contacting people in her circle about it. You will not get an apology, just maybe eventually a scolding about you deserving it, probably after you stop looking for her as a way…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @jennyburer
    I feel you. I suggest you put this aside and not focus upon it much, if she wishes to tell you about it herself. Good.
    But if she doesn’t… then don’t let this affect your life and your goals.
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    // I trusted her with a lot//
    > Then trust her still… have trust in her that whatever she has done, she must have done so with the…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    Interesting O_O
    Well Alexandria @jennyburer, If I may inquire… with what intent exactly are you approaching this scenario?
    Are you worried about the health of your friend?
    Are you saddened by the ‘betrayal’ and want ‘justification’ for it?
    Or,
    Are you curious about the mysterious behaviour of your friend?
    Or something else… what is…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    I would try to get a clear answer from this girl @jennyburer, hopefully she will be honest and open with you Alexandria, it’s really up to her if she decides to answer you so things can be made better, try to not worry too much, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to inbox me anytime :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 10 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why is it that whenever I’m trying to get over a breakup, I end up breaking someone else’s heart? It sucks because I know that when I do, I feel almost absolutely nothing but pity, and […] View

    @jennyburer probably cause you feel pain and without realising it you transfer it to other people when talking to them. You have to figure out a way to deal with your pain, like a hobby. Something that takes your pain away, even if it’s just for moments.
    I wish you the best of luck

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why is it that whenever I’m trying to get over a breakup, I end up breaking someone else’s heart? It sucks because I know that when I do, I feel almost absolutely nothing but pity, and […] View

    Please don’t feel down @jennyburer, I’m sure you will overcome, you deserve a relationship that is strong, loving and secure, hopefully everything will work out and you will be able to have amazing bonds with people, smile and keep going, you can do it, never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Last Thursday, I said goodbye to a guy after profusely apologizing to him for ”snooping.” He said he would need months to get over it. The only thing that keeps me from believing that […] View

    I would try to work out your feelings and decide if he is truly the person for you @jennyburer, you deserve someone who will not mess you around or cheat on you, hopefully everything will work out and you will be happy going forward, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Last Thursday, I said goodbye to a guy after profusely apologizing to him for ”snooping.” He said he would need months to get over it. The only thing that keeps me from believing that […] View

    Sounds proof enough that you are better off without him @jennyburer

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Said goodbye to someone I made my world. He says it’ll take him months to get over all that’s happened, and that he isn’t sure if we’re completely broken. I know that regardless, I […] View

    If he was cheating on you than you deserve a lot better @jennyburer, a relationship where you are truly cared for and loved will happen, you will meet your knight in shining armour, don’t give up :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Said goodbye to someone I made my world. He says it’ll take him months to get over all that’s happened, and that he isn’t sure if we’re completely broken. I know that regardless, I […] View

    I would do your best to move forward and focus on the bright future that lies ahead for you @jennyburer, I’m sure you will be able to have another relationship in the future, smile and remember all the good times you had with this person, perhaps you will still can be friends with them, I’m sure everything will work out for you, keep going and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 11 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update What’s with the listeners today? I used to come across some amazing people on BlahTherapy, but it’s been mostly trolls this morning. View

    Don’t let horrible people on the chat get you down @jennyburer, that are so many more compassionate and lovely people who are willing to help and be there for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update in the group Vent It! Have you ever had someone you once loved wound you deeply? That they made you feel like an insect with their words, and you simultaneously found out from their […] View

    You deserve someone who will treat you right and who will put you first @jennyburer, anyone who cheats on you isn’t worth it, I’m sure you will meet an amazing and special partner who will have your best interests at heart, I want the best for you, try to stay positive and keep smiling, things will work out, never give up, I’m always here if…[Read more]

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    Michael replied to the forum topic Betrayed by the person I trusted the most in the group Group logoVent It! 1 year, 8 months ago

    @jennyburer I’m glad my words could help, even if only a little. Please don’t hesitate to drop me a private message if you ever need to talk or just someone to really listen. This place for the majority has a […]

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