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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I have this incessant need for perfection, and I hate that about myself. I am not superficial, but my god, am I rigid with my expectations that certain things should never be said in […] View

    Strive to do what makes you happy at your own pace @jennyburer, be happy with yourself and don’t judge yourself harshly, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update The Post Breakup -Every time you get a message notification, your heart jumps and you hope that it’s your ex, but alas, it is not. -You’ll probably lose a good bit of weight because […] View

    It’s good to see you putting out wise relationship advice @jennyburer, I’m sure you will help many others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update He thinks I’m an untrustworthy liar because I choose not to complain about little things. What? View

    Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, surround yourself with people who will treat you with kindness, love and respect Alexandria, be upbeat and keep being awesome, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update People with a rigid idea of beauty are probably some of the cruelest people you’ll ever meet. View

    @jennyburer you’re absolutely right but thankfully, not all people are like that.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update People with a rigid idea of beauty are probably some of the cruelest people you’ll ever meet. View

    We are all beautiful, incredible, unique and wonderful @jennyburer, as long as we all continue spreading hope and positivity, that’s what matters Alexandria, it’s always better to love :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Everyone’s taking swipes at my ego these days. View

    @jennyburer that sucks but people will try to come at you znd sometimes at the worse times ever. Keep your head up and feel free to message me if you ever want to talk (:

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Everyone’s taking swipes at my ego these days. View

    Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, be the kind person that you are and remember to always spread brightness Alexandria, surround yourself with people who will stick by you no matter what and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could […] View

    We should all spread love in the world @jennyburer, keep sharing your thoughts and experiences to inspire others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Life feels stagnant. I spend my free time thinking too much, worrying about my past coming back to haunt me, wondering whether or not everything is worth it. I worry so much to the […] View

    Don’t let your past get you down @jennyburer, do your best to move forward and look towards all the bright opportunities that await you in the future, everything will go amazingly for you and you will make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high and remember to shine, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, I’m always…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @jennyburer because people get butthurt over simple things. Nudity is natural, we are born naked after all. People are just perverted and see sexuality everywhere, even if the person is showing a simple cleavage.

    p.s- feminism is the equality of male and female, therefore when it comes to lose your virginity feminism is really not helpfull…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I always sort of knew this about myself but I never really said it aloud. I have trust issues. I overthink relationships. It’s why I tend to badmouth the one person I really care about, […] View

    Please don’t feel guilty @jennyburer, try to work through any difficulties you face in a relationship so things can become stronger, stay positive and know you will find true love, you will meet someone who makes you smile, everything will be OK, remember there is always hope Alexandria, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Lesson learned: don’t expect that you’ll be special to someone just by being patient and loving. If someone is selfish, they are selfish. If you’re the one who’s constantly asking […] View

    @jennyburer ”If someone is selfish, they are selfish” – you said everything here. Don’t waist time on someone like that, you deserve much more than that

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Lesson learned: don’t expect that you’ll be special to someone just by being patient and loving. If someone is selfish, they are selfish. If you’re the one who’s constantly asking […] View

    He had absolutely no right to treat badly @jennyburer, you deserve someone who will show you love and support Alexandria, focus on the things that bring you happiness, stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, I’m sure you will meet your soulmate, a strong relationship with a wonderful partner will come your way, smile and keep…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why can’t breakups ever be peaceful? View

    @jennyburer The pride gets in the way most of the times, such as drama :/ . I hope you recover though , and if you ever need help you can message me

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why can’t breakups ever be peaceful? View

    Try to stay friendly and peaceful with each other @jennyburer, I’m sure things will work out for the both of you, some relationships are difficult but in the end, the people involved all deserve happiness, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Paranoia has always been my worst enemy. My mind has refused to be silent these past few days. Every time my mind starts to get peaceful, I remember that I was worried and angry about […] View

    //Paranoia has always been my worst enemy.// @jennyburer
    > Your mindset, world view, thoughts and actions are the reason you are where you are today. If you want to be at the same place tomorrow, you keep those mindsets, you keep those world views, you keep doing those actions.
    But if you want to bring a change in yourself, if you want to be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Paranoia has always been my worst enemy. My mind has refused to be silent these past few days. Every time my mind starts to get peaceful, I remember that I was worried and angry about […] View

    Don’t let your worries or struggles get you down @jennyburer, try to relax and calm yourself, find ways to put your mind at ease, maybe listening to something soothing or meditation will help, you will be OK Alexandria because you are a survivor, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @jennyburer I think a good answer for all your doubts should be “Because she is the person who would do this”, it’s an answer that will let you try to move on and stop contacting people in her circle about it. You will not get an apology, just maybe eventually a scolding about you deserving it, probably after you stop looking for her as a way…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @jennyburer
    I feel you. I suggest you put this aside and not focus upon it much, if she wishes to tell you about it herself. Good.
    But if she doesn’t… then don’t let this affect your life and your goals.
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    // I trusted her with a lot//
    > Then trust her still… have trust in her that whatever she has done, she must have done so with the…[Read more]

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