- Mood : Confused
I would try to get a clear answer from this girl @jennyburer, hopefully she will be honest and open with you Alexandria, it’s really up to her if she decides to answer you so things can be made better, try to not worry too much, I’m always here if you need to talk, feel free to inbox me anytime (hugs)
Getting a clear answer from her would be amazing, but she keeps blocking me, and I don’t know how much I should really press on. Her boyfriend, who seems to be practically the only person she ever talks to, although having to seemingly ignored my messages, has not blocked me. Some part of me wants to just keep sending messages to see if I can strike a chord with him. She treated him the same way at some point–blocking him and disappearing repeatedly, so I thought that he would know how it feels like, but he seems to be keeping mum.
Well Alexandria @jennyburer, If I may inquire… with what intent exactly are you approaching this scenario?
Are you worried about the health of your friend?
Are you saddened by the ’betrayal’ and want ’justification’ for it?
Are you curious about the mysterious behaviour of your friend?
Or something else… what is your primary intention with which you are approaching to resolve or better understand the situation exactly? And what is the ’end’ you desire from all this? (does the question make sense?)
I want to know if she hates me, because, like I said, I trusted her with a lot, so I’m a little bit on edge when it comes to the idea of her hating me. If I know that this wasn’t an act of vindictiveness, I feel like I can stop worrying.
I feel you. I suggest you put this aside and not focus upon it much, if she wishes to tell you about it herself. Good.
But if she doesn’t… then don’t let this affect your life and your goals.
// I trusted her with a lot//
> Then trust her still… have trust in her that whatever she has done, she must have done so with the reasons that she thought were right.
So if you truly trust her… then there is problem.
@jennyburer I think a good answer for all your doubts should be ”Because she is the person who would do this”, it’s an answer that will let you try to move on and stop contacting people in her circle about it. You will not get an apology, just maybe eventually a scolding about you deserving it, probably after you stop looking for her as a way to reel you back in. I suggest you start doing the blocking now.