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    Alexandria posted an update 1 day, 4 hours ago

    I have this incessant need for perfection, and I hate that about myself. I am not superficial, but my god, am I rigid with my expectations that certain things should never be said in front of me. I usually get over anything that is said or done, but the thing is, I don’t think it should take so long to do so. At least when I was fucking around, I…[Read more]

    • watch that. It made me realise how idiotic reaching perfection is. I was raised to achieve perfection, trust me, not worth it. Again watch that if you can, will change your mind

    • Strive to do what makes you happy at your own pace @jennyburer, be happy with yourself and don’t judge yourself harshly, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Try gardening and getting downright grubby.

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    Alexandria posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    The Post Breakup
    -Every time you get a message notification, your heart jumps and you hope that it’s your ex, but alas, it is not.
    -You’ll probably lose a good bit of weight because you’ll find it hard to chew more than a few bites per meal.
    -If you regularly slept with your ex, be prepared for the insomnia ahead.
    -If you’re anything like me and…[Read more]

    • It’s like withdrawal. Power through it – there’s life, good life, on the other side.

    • It’s good to see you putting out wise relationship advice @jennyburer, I’m sure you will help many others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Alexandria posted an update 1 month, 1 week ago

    He thinks I’m an untrustworthy liar because I choose not to complain about little things. What?

    • Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, surround yourself with people who will treat you with kindness, love and respect Alexandria, be upbeat and keep being awesome, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Alexandria posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    People with a rigid idea of beauty are probably some of the cruelest people you’ll ever meet.

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    Alexandria posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    Everyone’s taking swipes at my ego these days.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, be the kind person that you are and remember to always spread brightness Alexandria, surround yourself with people who will stick by you no matter what and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @jennyburer that sucks but people will try to come at you znd sometimes at the worse times ever. Keep your head up and feel free to message me if you ever want to talk (:

    • You should just say, ”Leggo my Eggo”

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    Alexandria posted an update 1 month, 3 weeks ago

    I believe in unconditional love. I believe that the person you plan to grow old with deserves unconditional love. Of course I believe that it doesn’t come easy, because then you could just love about anybody, but I’ve given unconditional love before. Unconditional love is stupid love. People can say that that sort of love can only apply to family,…[Read more]

    • We should all spread love in the world @jennyburer, keep sharing your thoughts and experiences to inspire others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • @jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.

    • Yes, love unconditionally but that doesn’t dictate a specific response. Enabling behaviour isn’t love. I think a better term is sacrificial love. How much does your love for the Other cost you? Too often we fall in love because of only how they make us feel. Do we seek to help them reach their dreams, their purposes in life? In a relationship it…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of […] View

    @marikofujimoto rinseandrep pretty much explained it for me. I’ve personally heard from a lot of guys who see a girl differently if she’s lost her virginity, and usually not in a good way.

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    Alexandria posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    So I’ve been complaining a lot these days. My mind’s been really active, as I’m constantly raising my fist to the sky, so I want to just write one post where I end on a positive note. First of all, I hate the idea of “leaked” content. And I mean content of people’s personal private lives. I hate that some people, instead of sympathizing with the…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    One thing I realized in life is that you should try to keep in mind that the things you say and do can be taken out of context by scummy people, so you have to be careful but you also can’t worry about it too much, because that sort of thing will never be totally in your control.

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    Alexandria posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Life feels stagnant. I spend my free time thinking too much, worrying about my past coming back to haunt me, wondering whether or not everything is worth it. I worry so much to the point that I fear even fear itself. And so I started to ask myself, “What would nullify all of these fears?”

    The feeling that I’m moving forward with my life. That…[Read more]

    • Don’t let your past get you down @jennyburer, do your best to move forward and look towards all the bright opportunities that await you in the future, everything will go amazingly for you and you will make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high and remember to shine, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, I’m always…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update Is fitting into the cookie-cutter supermodel mold what it means to be beautiful to you? Is uniqueness not a virtue anymore? And no, don’t you dare pull up that cop out line telling me […] View

    I also feel the need to say that you don’t need to settle for anyone who doesn’t genuinely believe you are the most beautiful man or woman in the world. I’ve had a guy who wanted me to gain weight, another guy who wanted me to lose weight (even though I was already underweight), a guy who wanted me to cut my hair, guys who wanted me to grow my…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Is fitting into the cookie-cutter supermodel mold what it means to be beautiful to you? Is uniqueness not a virtue anymore? And no, don’t you dare pull up that cop out line telling me that looks don’t matter. That’s not the point. If anyone were to use looking like a supermodel as the high-end on some nonexistent beauty spectrum, I’d honestly…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I also feel the need to say that you don’t need to settle for anyone who doesn’t genuinely believe you are the most beautiful man or woman in the world. I’ve had a guy who wanted me to gain weight, another guy who wanted me to lose weight (even though I was already underweight), a guy who wanted me to cut my hair, guys who wanted me to grow my…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    Why are people so offended by nudity? Why is a bit of nudity such a big deal? Why is it okay when a celebrity does it, but when the average person does it, it’s like they gave half of their soul away to the Internet? Why are people only really interested when these pictures are published without these girls’ consent? And am I not allowed to think…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • @jennyburer because people get butthurt over simple things. Nudity is natural, we are born naked after all. People are just perverted and see sexuality everywhere, even if the person is showing a simple cleavage.

      p.s- feminism is the equality of male and female, therefore when it comes to lose your virginity feminism is really not helpfull…[Read more]

    • @marikofujimoto I think that facet doesn’t erase the double standard regarding losing your virginity between men (applauded) and women (shamed if not done properly), specially in other countries where virginity in a bride is culturally mandated. Guys who are virgins would benefit from feminism, along with other types of relief from other…[Read more]

    • @rinseandrep of course men benefit from feminism, after all it defends men’s rights aswell. I just said in this situation didn’t make alot of sense since she was talking (I suppose) about nowdays norms in civilazed countries.I think both men and women suffer, but I’ve seen more men bullied for being virgins. Being called ugly, gay (idk how this…[Read more]

    • @marikofujimoto Have you ever seen a girl bullied for losing hers?

    • @rinseandrep I haven’t. Again it might be because of the place where I live and like I said, I haven’t seen it. But obviously I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. Society is incredibly harsh nowdays and judge people all the time so. I think virginity is something very intimite so no one should judge a person for losing (or keeping ) their virginity.

    • @marikofujimoto rinseandrep pretty much explained it for me. I’ve personally heard from a lot of guys who see a girl differently if she’s lost her virginity, and usually not in a good way.

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    Alexandria posted an update 5 months, 1 week ago

    I always sort of knew this about myself but I never really said it aloud. I have trust issues. I overthink relationships. It’s why I tend to badmouth the one person I really care about, because I try to use that as a defense mechanism–to be able to say that I was never really in love when they leave me. I’d been cheated on a multitude of times…[Read more]

    Mood : Guilty
    • Please don’t feel guilty @jennyburer, try to work through any difficulties you face in a relationship so things can become stronger, stay positive and know you will find true love, you will meet someone who makes you smile, everything will be OK, remember there is always hope Alexandria, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted an update 5 months, 4 weeks ago

    Lesson learned: don’t expect that you’ll be special to someone just by being patient and loving. If someone is selfish, they are selfish. If you’re the one who’s constantly asking themselves if they’re doing something wrong, you’re putting way more effort into the relationship than the other person is. Don’t change yourself just because the other…[Read more]

    • He had absolutely no right to treat badly @jennyburer, you deserve someone who will show you love and support Alexandria, focus on the things that bring you happiness, stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, I’m sure you will meet your soulmate, a strong relationship with a wonderful partner will come your way, smile and keep…[Read more]

    • @jennyburer ”If someone is selfish, they are selfish” – you said everything here. Don’t waist time on someone like that, you deserve much more than that

    • @mariko and @oliver is right he’s selfish and you truly deserve better. My past
      relationship was very similar to yours and it left me so mentally unstable that i could’ve died. You know it’s wrong which is the 1st step because a lot of people don’t even know that. Get out of that relationship NOW!

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    Alexandria posted an update 6 months ago

    Why can’t breakups ever be peaceful?

    Mood : Sad
    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      Try to stay friendly and peaceful with each other @jennyburer, I’m sure things will work out for the both of you, some relationships are difficult but in the end, the people involved all deserve happiness, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Sadly, most of the time they’re not but with time, everything gets better.

    • @jennyburer The pride gets in the way most of the times, such as drama :/ . I hope you recover though , and if you ever need help you can message me

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    Alexandria posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    Anyone I can talk to who is almost always available?

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    Alexandria posted an update 10 months, 4 weeks ago

    Paranoia has always been my worst enemy. My mind has refused to be silent these past few days. Every time my mind starts to get peaceful, I remember that I was worried and angry about something. And I start worrying again. I know that I’ll get over this, but I’ve been through this before, and I know it usually takes at least a month for my mind to…[Read more]

    Mood : Anxious
    • Don’t let your worries or struggles get you down @jennyburer, try to relax and calm yourself, find ways to put your mind at ease, maybe listening to something soothing or meditation will help, you will be OK Alexandria because you are a survivor, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]

    • Have you looked into speaking with someone who can help alleviate some of these tendencies? Maybe a professional, or looking into common techniques that might work from you from people who have felt similarly. There might be a way for you to get some help living with these bouts of paranoia. A month seems like quite some time to be in that state.

    • //Paranoia has always been my worst enemy.// @jennyburer
      > Your mindset, world view, thoughts and actions are the reason you are where you are today. If you want to be at the same place tomorrow, you keep those mindsets, you keep those world views, you keep doing those actions.
      But if you want to bring a change in yourself, if you want to be…[Read more]

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    Alexandria posted a new activity comment 10 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @Oli @SigmaSuccour @rinseandrep Thank you all. I’ve decided that I’m moving on. She’s a closed chapter to me now.

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    Alexandria posted a new activity comment 10 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: Alexandria posted an update I knew this girl for six years. We never lost contact with each other within those six years. Having known her for so long, and having confided in her with my secrets before, I decided […] View

    @SigmaSuccour
    I want to know if she hates me, because, like I said, I trusted her with a lot, so I’m a little bit on edge when it comes to the idea of her hating me. If I know that this wasn’t an act of vindictiveness, I feel like I can stop worrying.

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