watch that. It made me realise how idiotic reaching perfection is. I was raised to achieve perfection, trust me, not worth it. Again watch that if you can, will change your mind
Strive to do what makes you happy at your own pace @jennyburer, be happy with yourself and don’t judge yourself harshly, hold your head up high and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
Try gardening and getting downright grubby.
It’s like withdrawal. Power through it – there’s life, good life, on the other side.
It’s good to see you putting out wise relationship advice @jennyburer, I’m sure you will help many others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, surround yourself with people who will treat you with kindness, love and respect Alexandria, be upbeat and keep being awesome, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
- Mood : Annoyed
Don’t let anyone be horrible to you @jennyburer, be the kind person that you are and remember to always spread brightness Alexandria, surround yourself with people who will stick by you no matter what and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
@jennyburer that sucks but people will try to come at you znd sometimes at the worse times ever. Keep your head up and feel free to message me if you ever want to talk (:
You should just say, ”Leggo my Eggo”
We should all spread love in the world @jennyburer, keep sharing your thoughts and experiences to inspire others Alexandria, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent (hugs)
@jennyburer I think an important distinction is that you can still love someone but decide to stop acting on that love, when it’s better that way. It saves a lot of waiting and moral dilemmas.
Yes, love unconditionally but that doesn’t dictate a specific response. Enabling behaviour isn’t love. I think a better term is sacrificial love. How much does your love for the Other cost you? Too often we fall in love because of only how they make us feel. Do we seek to help them reach their dreams, their purposes in life? In a relationship it…[Read more]
Don’t let your past get you down @jennyburer, do your best to move forward and look towards all the bright opportunities that await you in the future, everything will go amazingly for you and you will make all your dreams come true, hold your head up high and remember to shine, you can do it, believe in yourself and never give up, I’m always…[Read more]
- Mood : Annoyed
I also feel the need to say that you don’t need to settle for anyone who doesn’t genuinely believe you are the most beautiful man or woman in the world. I’ve had a guy who wanted me to gain weight, another guy who wanted me to lose weight (even though I was already underweight), a guy who wanted me to cut my hair, guys who wanted me to grow my…[Read more]
- Mood : Annoyed
@jennyburer because people get butthurt over simple things. Nudity is natural, we are born naked after all. People are just perverted and see sexuality everywhere, even if the person is showing a simple cleavage.
p.s- feminism is the equality of male and female, therefore when it comes to lose your virginity feminism is really not helpfull…[Read more]
@marikofujimoto I think that facet doesn’t erase the double standard regarding losing your virginity between men (applauded) and women (shamed if not done properly), specially in other countries where virginity in a bride is culturally mandated. Guys who are virgins would benefit from feminism, along with other types of relief from other…[Read more]
@rinseandrep of course men benefit from feminism, after all it defends men’s rights aswell. I just said in this situation didn’t make alot of sense since she was talking (I suppose) about nowdays norms in civilazed countries.I think both men and women suffer, but I’ve seen more men bullied for being virgins. Being called ugly, gay (idk how this…[Read more]
@marikofujimoto Have you ever seen a girl bullied for losing hers?
@rinseandrep I haven’t. Again it might be because of the place where I live and like I said, I haven’t seen it. But obviously I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. Society is incredibly harsh nowdays and judge people all the time so. I think virginity is something very intimite so no one should judge a person for losing (or keeping ) their virginity.
@marikofujimoto rinseandrep pretty much explained it for me. I’ve personally heard from a lot of guys who see a girl differently if she’s lost her virginity, and usually not in a good way.
- Mood : Guilty
Please don’t feel guilty @jennyburer, try to work through any difficulties you face in a relationship so things can become stronger, stay positive and know you will find true love, you will meet someone who makes you smile, everything will be OK, remember there is always hope Alexandria, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]
He had absolutely no right to treat badly @jennyburer, you deserve someone who will show you love and support Alexandria, focus on the things that bring you happiness, stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, I’m sure you will meet your soulmate, a strong relationship with a wonderful partner will come your way, smile and keep…[Read more]
@jennyburer ”If someone is selfish, they are selfish” – you said everything here. Don’t waist time on someone like that, you deserve much more than that
@mariko and @oliver is right he’s selfish and you truly deserve better. My past
relationship was very similar to yours and it left me so mentally unstable that i could’ve died. You know it’s wrong which is the 1st step because a lot of people don’t even know that. Get out of that relationship NOW!
- Mood : Sad
Try to stay friendly and peaceful with each other @jennyburer, I’m sure things will work out for the both of you, some relationships are difficult but in the end, the people involved all deserve happiness, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)
Sadly, most of the time they’re not but with time, everything gets better.
@jennyburer The pride gets in the way most of the times, such as drama :/ . I hope you recover though , and if you ever need help you can message me
- Mood : Anxious
Don’t let your worries or struggles get you down @jennyburer, try to relax and calm yourself, find ways to put your mind at ease, maybe listening to something soothing or meditation will help, you will be OK Alexandria because you are a survivor, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always…[Read more]
Have you looked into speaking with someone who can help alleviate some of these tendencies? Maybe a professional, or looking into common techniques that might work from you from people who have felt similarly. There might be a way for you to get some help living with these bouts of paranoia. A month seems like quite some time to be in that state.
//Paranoia has always been my worst enemy.// @jennyburer
> Your mindset, world view, thoughts and actions are the reason you are where you are today. If you want to be at the same place tomorrow, you keep those mindsets, you keep those world views, you keep doing those actions.
But if you want to bring a change in yourself, if you want to be…[Read more]
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