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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 7 hours, 44 minutes ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Wow … 3 days until my birthday View

    thanks so much Oli!!!!!!

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 6 minutes ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

    • Do have a happy birthday filled with happiness and so many lovely moments @invincible, I want to see you smiling on your special day and being filled with joy, keep going sweetie and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • thanks so much Oli!!!!!!

    • I hope you have a fantastic birthday Cecilia!! I wish you all the happiness and that your surrounded by your loved ones. Hugs!

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 6 minutes ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 6 minutes ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 6 minutes ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 17 hours, 7 minutes ago

    It’s not encouraging or motivating when all you do is point out the negative.

    • Those around you should treat you with kindness, respect and dignity @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly incredible and being told positive, upbeat things so you can better yourself in a good way sweetie, surround yourself with happiness and know you are loved, appreciated and cared for Cecelia, the BT community will always be here for…[Read more]

    • I strongly agree with your statement. To encourage somebody else to do something that they’ve proposed to achieve, we must show them our support and positivity. Try to show this attitude to those who are negative, this way they might learn from you and star being more positive. You can lead the change :)

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    I am not going ok and I am starting to not even pretend that I am.
    Hopefully this will go away soon, because I don’t like feeling like this, so I am holding on to hope! Which is good.

    • Pretending to be ok 24/7 is one of the most exhausting things that anyone can do. You don’t have to pretend Cecilia, if you don’t feel ok it’s perfectly fine. It’s good to read that you’re holding on to hope! As you said, this feeling will go away and you’ll feel better again. Don’t give up and keep fighting!

    • It’s good to see you hopeful and trying to stay upbeat @invincible, don’t let your struggles get you down Cecelia, you are such a beautiful, incredible and lovely angel who will overcome all her struggles and many more brighter days will be ahead, believe in yourself sweetie and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 7 hours ago

    I can’t help but feel upset when I see my friend who I’ve known for a while, who was so similar to me and growing to be mature – just completely throw everything away for a severely questionable life. It’s not fun watching people go downhill and now I have like no solid friendship that I can count on since I’ve cut off a lot of toxic people.…[Read more]

    • It’s frustrating to see how people you love makes questionable decisions that might not end very well for them. Sometimes you can not help them, since they will not listen either wanting your help. But in the end, when they find themselves in the bottom, they finally see by themselves how bad things were going and start to rethink all the bad…[Read more]

    • You are such a beautiful angel who deserves good people in her life @invincible, I would try to stick by your friend if you can, let them know you are there to support them so they can make positive changes and wise choices so they will better themselves Cecelia, give your friend as much insightful advice as you can, it’s up to them to listen and…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 3 days, 8 hours ago

    In reply to: hwky75 posted an update I don’t know if anyone will see this but I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m just frustrated and sad that my anxiety and depression isn’t getting better. It just feels like nothing matters […] View

    It’s ok, I am here if you need to or want to talk. Unfortunately it can seem like it will never get better, but it almost always does and it definitely can, try to not be too overwhelmed, just take it easy, do something you enjoy and try to have some hope

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 3 days, 8 hours ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m so alone in this world, nobody cares about me, I’m always going to be this lost, pathetic and sad failure, it doesn’t get better for Oli, he is forever stuck in this hole of depression and […] View

    Oli, you are beyond valuable and it really shows on this website. You are incredibly kind, helpful and we are always here for you- we will never leave you or stop caring because you are special to all of us here on blahtherapy. Things will get better because you are an inspiring, wonderful human being.

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 5 days, 16 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update It just would be nice if you had faith in me and trusted my skill. I have enough confidence to know I’m not going to mess up. View

    thank you all so much, this really means a lot – really!

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 6 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: lovers00 posted an update im back guys so much shit happened i dated this guy named Aiden in georgia i broke up with him bc i dont like him anymore and he called me a hoe and said he was gonna cut my throat open […] View

    Well, you might be in love with the idea of falling in love. It usually takes 4 months to psychologically fall in love – but I think that’s ok, and I hope you can continue feeling happy

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days, 13 hours ago

    It just would be nice if you had faith in me and trusted my skill.
    I have enough confidence to know I’m not going to mess up.

    • Do what makes you happy and know you will achieve all your hopes, dreams, goals and aspirations @invincible, I believe in you Cecelia and so do many others sweetie, do have faith in yourself too and believe in yourself hun, so many people are proud of you Cecelia, the BT community is rooting for you and so am I, anyone who doubts your skills and…[Read more]

    • Cecelia, Sometimes when we are self conscious, or insecure in ourselves, we project it onto others. Have you tried a face to face, sit down talk with this person? They may very well just be projecting. I wouldn’t have accepted friendship from you if I didn’t think you were capable of greatness. Take a step back, evaluate, adjust, and succeed,…[Read more]

    • It can be very frustrating when other people don’t have faith in you, but you’ve pointed out the important thing in the matter: you trust in yourself and know you are capable of achieving your goals. Trust your own strenght Cecilia, because if you believe in yourself, you’ll achieve anything you aim for. You are capable of anything!

    • thank you all so much, this really means a lot – really!

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    you must put out the energy you wish to receive

    • You will find the energy to do amazing things @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly wonderful and focusing on all the things that bring hope, happiness and joy into your life Cecelia, make all your dreams come true and never give up sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

    • You must have the energy that you wish to receive.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Doing okay. I hope things get better, though.

    Hope everyone is doing well – have a fantastic week!

    • Glad to see things are going well for you @invincible, I want to see you truly smiling and feeling wonderful Cecelia, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, incredible and special angel that you are sweetie, stay positive hun and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Nice to read that things are doing okay for you @invincible. I bet everything will get better soon, and you can always reach us here if you need anything. Have a fantastic week you too!

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 1 week, 5 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Trauma and mental illness is not something to make you look ”cool” or ”cooler” than other people. I wish my friend would stop trying to ’one up’ me with trauma. It’s not funny or amusing […] View

    Very true Marta.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    Had a great day.
    Happy Mother’s Day ♥

    • Glad you had a wonderful day @invincible, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, special and incredible angel that you are Cecelia, remember you are a bright ray of sunshine inside and out sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Trauma and mental illness is not something to make you look ”cool” or ”cooler” than other people. I wish my friend would stop trying to ’one up’ me with trauma. It’s not funny or amusing at all. I personally would never do that to anyone. Maybe if I was 7 years old …

    • Your friend really should support you instead of trying to make it a competition of who has it worse @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by compassion, love and empathy Cecelia, please know you will win all your battles and come out so much stronger sweetie, you are a survivor who never gives up, believe in yourself and keep…[Read more]

    • Seems like your friend does not really understand how hard mental illnesses are. Maybe explaining them how does it feel and the suffering you go through, they can get to empathize with you. Most of these attitudes come from ignorance, not malice.

    • Very true Marta.

    • Sounds like your friend is a little competitive and dealing with her own hardships as well. Maybe confront her about how it makes you feel when she puts your feelings on the back burner and makes hers the main priority. Obviously both are important, but there comes a time when a friend just needs to be there to listen. A little give and take.…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    I love it when it is windy and stormy outside.
    Though not a fan of 100 degrees F.

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Hope the weather is good where you live @invincible, do take care of yourself and have a fantastic day sweetie, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything Cecelia, inbox me anytime hun, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted a new activity comment 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Been having bad luck lately. But been trying to organize and construct numerous plans to help get through some stuff. View

    ♥ thank you so very much!

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