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    lullie posted an update 1 month ago

    How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank spaces that I can’t comprehend, much like a puzzle piece I will never be able to complete. There are missing pieces that I will never be able to find. I want to stop thinking about him, I want to say goodbye, even though it hurts too much. I just wish I could understand everything and why it had to end this way…

    Mood : Hurt
    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Do your best to move forward with your life @hope15, maybe you could still be friends with this guy, remember a wonderful and strong relationship will happen to you, you will meet your soulmate, try to stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I understand where you are coming from since I am too trying to recover from a heartbreak. I don’t believe time heals everything but i do believe with time comes new trials and errors to the point where you won’t be thinking of him anymore. Let these emotions ride out and before you know it, you will be okay to great. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me.

    • Lullie,
      My experience is: time plus personal growth goes a long way to start the healing process. Take time to know yourself better. We all recognize another relationship can change things overnight, but we have to be wise in our assessment and not just rebound, or settle because we are lonely. Take time to know what you want in a guy, and then be the kind of person yourself that that kind of guy would want to be with. Relationships are a much about us being what others want, as it is about others being what we want.

    • @hope15 blocking them everywhere and never lurk their social media, if it’s not something you already implemented, is a good start.

    • Thank you, everyone, for your kind messages. You gave me another perspective and I truly appreciate it. I am kind of stubborn when it comes to letting go, but if you are not willing to do it, you will never see the great things ahead of you. I will try to, though. I know I have to. I know he’s already done this and is happy now, and I am happy for him. Now, it’s my turn to find happiness. I don’t mean that I am going to date other guys, I will try to find my own happiness before that. There are a lot of things I still need to work on myself and I know that I am not emotionally ready to be with anyone right now. When the time comes, I will find the right person. But before I love him, or anyone, I need to love myself, right? Thanks again, guys, from the bottom of my heart xx