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    lullie posted an update 6 months ago

    I woke up a feel minutes ago and I think I’ve never felt so scared after a dream. I remember being at church and had the feeling of being in a ship about to sink (exactly like the Titanic scene), I felt like I was being dragged down or falling or something. And right after I “sank”, everything went black. I started to hear a humming noise and…[Read more]

    Mood : Afraid
    • No replied 6 months ago

      The root of the incubus and succubus mythology is rooted in dreams like that. Not quite lucid, but more than unconsciousness. The brain is a weird thing.
      Daydream about finishing the dream the way you want it too (i.e. a hero comes and turns the tables on the evil radio spewing static), and you should be both calmer about it, and, if it happens…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      I want to see you having happy dreams that make you feel upbeat and ready to take on the world with positivity @hope15, try to relax, calm your mind and you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @hope15 all the symptoms you described sound like sleep paralysis. Have you been recently anxious/stressed/worried? These emotions trigger sleep paralysis according to studies. I hope you’re feeling better now, must be terrifying

    • @tanisha when someone is conscious while dreaming (or having a nightmare) is called a lucid dream. I have those frequently. What she described here is more similar to sleep paralysis since she couldn’t consciouscly make a decision to move. In lucid dreaming we can make a choise of actually control the dream and to even wake up. Takes practice but…[Read more]

    • No replied 6 months ago

      I had a dream last night that eventually woke me up. I decided to finish it in a way that was good for me, and went back to sleep. I got back to sleep because, I think, I resolved it when I woke. I don’t have to be afraid to go back to sleep again. It was a wild experience that @hope15 had, and I hope she can rest in spite of the violence of it.…[Read more]

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    lullie posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    I always have strange dreams, but last night, my dream felt like a movie (my father’s words). I’m really considering writing a story or script based on it. Also, feeling proud of myself because I’ve written a lot yesterday!

    Mood : Interested
    • Hope your dreams inspire you to write something meaningful and insightful @hope15, I’m always here if you ever need to chat, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Wow that’s really amazing. You’re making a dream out of a dream (oh, the irony) congratulations! I truly hopes it work out for you successfully.

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    lullie posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Also I just realised the perfect job for myself until june (when I apply for uni again): a job in a bookstore! I spent all my life in bookstores and around books! All I need to learn is how […] View

    My mother tongue is Portuguese too, but I am from Brazil. I’ve never read the LOTR trilogy nor have I seen the movies, so I might give it a try someday. I love classic literature, Jane Austen is one of my favorites, but I will read anything you give to me. It is such a pleasure!

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    lullie posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    I wish I could stay cozy in bed in this cold, cold day. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE this type of weather. The only thing I don’t like is putting my blanket aside and stepping into the shower.

    Mood : Cold
    • Do stay warm and take care of yourself @hope15, it’s pretty cold here too in the UK, hope the weather brightens up in your part of the world, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

    • @hope15 I never related to something so hard haha. Is almost painfull to put the blanket aside

    • Especially when the blanket is electric! Heaven on earth! You need a towel warmer… both of you. And me three.

    • It’s been feeling great in my town as well. I hope you’re enjoying your day!

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    lullie posted a new activity comment 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Also I just realised the perfect job for myself until june (when I apply for uni again): a job in a bookstore! I spent all my life in bookstores and around books! All I need to learn is how […] View

    I love bookstores and even considered working at one since I have always been an avid reader – I’m not reading much anymore tho because I’ve been busy lately with work/uni). I really hope you can get this job and do what you love. Good luck! By the way, do you have any book you love worth sharing? xx

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    lullie posted a new activity comment 6 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: lullie posted an update How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank […] View

    Thank you, everyone, for your kind messages. You gave me another perspective and I truly appreciate it. I am kind of stubborn when it comes to letting go, but if you are not willing to do it, you will never see the great things ahead of you. I will try to, though. I know I have to. I know he’s already done this and is happy now, and I am happy…[Read more]

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    lullie posted an update 7 months ago

    How do I forget him? How do I move on with my life? It was never meant to be, I know that now… But why does it have to be so hard? Why do I feel so haunted? Our story is filled with blank spaces that I can’t comprehend, much like a puzzle piece I will never be able to complete. There are missing pieces that I will never be able to find. I want…[Read more]

    Mood : Hurt
    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      Do your best to move forward with your life @hope15, maybe you could still be friends with this guy, remember a wonderful and strong relationship will happen to you, you will meet your soulmate, try to stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I understand where you are coming from since I am too trying to recover from a heartbreak. I don’t believe time heals everything but i do believe with time comes new trials and errors to the point where you won’t be thinking of him anymore. Let these emotions ride out and before you know it, you will be okay to great. If you ever want to talk,…[Read more]

    • No replied 7 months ago

      Lullie,
      My experience is: time plus personal growth goes a long way to start the healing process. Take time to know yourself better. We all recognize another relationship can change things overnight, but we have to be wise in our assessment and not just rebound, or settle because we are lonely. Take time to know what you want in a guy, and then…[Read more]

    • @hope15 blocking them everywhere and never lurk their social media, if it’s not something you already implemented, is a good start.

    • Thank you, everyone, for your kind messages. You gave me another perspective and I truly appreciate it. I am kind of stubborn when it comes to letting go, but if you are not willing to do it, you will never see the great things ahead of you. I will try to, though. I know I have to. I know he’s already done this and is happy now, and I am happy…[Read more]

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