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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of our beloved cat Neferpitou, also known as Pitou. He was the shining light in my life, even during the times when he […] View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your beloved cat, all the times you played together and took care of him, focus on all the times and moments he brought joy, laughter and fun to you, be strong and remember him with love and positivity, you can do it, please know I’m always here…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I appear content, but I can’t help but imagine how foreign a smile would feel on my own face. It’s been ages since I genuinely smiled. This facade is slowly falling apart. View

    Please don’t feel hopeless and numb @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a brilliant, awesome and lovely person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, don’t let yourself fall apart, always be kind to yourself and surround yourself with love, positivity, compassion and hope, everything will be OK, hold your head up high because you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel View

    Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through […] View

    It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end; It simply means I’ll miss you Until we meet again. View

    I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy, positive and upbeat moments you spent with the person you miss, all the times you laughed and had fun together, I’m sure that wherever they are now, that they miss you too, be strong and brave, you will make it through this, I’m always here if you need to talk, chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming […] View

    I don’t want to see you feeling drained, sad and upset @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a wonderful, lovely and awesome person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, remember to smile and surround yourself with love, compassion and optimism, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our separate ways, I to die, and you to live. Which of these two is better only God knows.” ― Socrates View

    Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t kill yourself, you are such a wonderful, amazing and incredible person who deserves to be here, you were put on this earth to make all your dreams come true and to do fantastic things, everything will be OK, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it. Lou Holtz View

    You will overcome any hurdles that life throws at you @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves to feel awesome, you will make it through the struggles of life and come out stronger, hold your head up high, smile brightly and keep going forward with purpose and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update in the group Jah Rastafari Movement “You say you love rain, but you use an umbrella to walk under it. You say you love sun, but you seek shelter when it is shining. You say […] View

    Hope you are OK and doing well @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a lovely, awesome and wonderful person, keep inspiring the BT community with insightful and wise quotes, I will always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” “We were together even when we were apart.” “If you listen to the wind very carefully, you’ll be able to hear me whisper my […] View

    I’m so sorry you are missing someone who is special to you @helplessandhelpful1996, try to remember all the happy and wonderful times you spent with this person, all the good moments and memories you laughed, smiled and had fun together, I’m 100% sure that this person is missing you too, be strong, you will make it through this, try to keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Especially during all of this isolation, things could get rough mentally for some! Depression, anxiety and PTSD are very real. I would like my friends to post this so I know […] View

    Please don’t let depression, anxiety and PTSD beat you @helplessandhelpful1996, things are difficult because of the isolation and loneliness many of us feel due to COVID-19, but know you are truly a wonderful, awesome and fantastic person who deserves all the happiness that the world has to offer, remember to smile brightly and make each day as…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update It isn’t always popping pills, downing whiskey, or slicing veins. Sometimes it’s crossing the street without looking; sometimes it isn’t wearing your seatbelt. Sometimes […] View

    Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, things may seem difficult but they will get better, you will do amazing things and make all your dreams come true, I don’t want to see you hurt yourself, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to always be the incredible, special and fantastic person that you are, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Believe In The Hope That A New Day Is Dawning. Believe That Your Dreams Will Come True. Believe In The Promise Of Brighter Tomorrows. Begin By Believing In You! View

    Always be the inspirational, kind and fantastic person that you are @helplessandhelpful1996, you are truly helping this community with wise and insightful advice, do have a great day and keep being awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update ”If you don’t heal what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you” – unknown View

    It’s very important to heal our wounds, and take care of ourselves, especially during bad times.Sometimes the people we bleed on, is the people who sticks with us through thick and thin, and helps us heal. As always, thank you for sharing such insightful quotes, @helplessandhelpful1996! I hope everything is going great <3

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update ”If you don’t heal what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you” – unknown View

    We should all heal and focus on making things upbeat, positive and happy @helplessandhelpful1996, surrounding ourselves with love, compassion and empathy at the same time, keep inspiring the BT community with wise and insightful quotes and always be the fabulous person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. Then the worms eat you. Be grateful it happens in that order.” – David Gerrold View

    It’s good to see you feeling happy @helplessandhelpful1996, always smile brightly and keep being the brilliant, awesome and fabulous person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I have absolutely no pleasure in the stimulants in which I sometimes so madly indulge. It has not been in the pursuit of pleasure that I have periled life and reputation and […] View

    Please don’t let pain, negativity and sadness get you down @helplessandhelpful1996, stay upbeat and surround yourself with all the things that bring hope, joy and happiness into your life, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and always be kind to yourself, things will work out, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “She can paint a pretty picture but this story has a twist. The paintbrush is a razor and the canvas is her wrist.” ― Amy Efaw, After View

    Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, you can and will make it through tough times, you are a survivor who never gives up, great things will happen to you, don’t let pain and sadness get you down, so many more brighter days are ahead and things get better, you are a good person who deserves all the happiness in the world, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update Two lonely bats crashed in the night…They felt a ZING, love at first sight…They knew right then they would be husband and wife…For a ZING only happens once in your […] View

    It’s great to see you in love @helplessandhelpful1996, keep smiling and stay positive, I’m sure things will go wonderfully for you, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update I feel like I am already at my crumbling point and I dont feel that my strength is great enough to come back this time. such a pitty I had set my sites on a goal of one day […] View

    Don’t give up @helplessandhelpful1996, you can and will make it through this, keep your head up and stay positive, keep smiling, you can do this, things will go well for you, you are so strong and are never alone, you are such a wonderful, special and beautiful person with amazing qualities in you, you deserve happiness and all the best in the…[Read more]

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