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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    AHHHHHH HES HOME

    Mood : Bouncy
    • Glad you are with someone who makes you happy @guava, everyone deserves lovely people in their lives, you do too Guava, hope things continue going strong for you and this person, keep being positive and remember you are a fabulous angel, I’m always here if you ever need to chat about anything :) (hugs)

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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I feel like on Blah, to be a good means of support you must not only be motivating, but give some advice, listen to the problem at hand and chat to the person as a friend, too, not JUST about problems. Sometimes the simple “Hey, how are ya?” can be much more motivating than “Stay strong” because you’re asking them how they feel, not assuming…[Read more]

    Mood : Bitchy
    • You’re actually right @guava . Your post has influenced me a lot to change. It made me realize a lot of things :)

    • As long as we are helping and supporting each other, that’s all that matters @guava, keep being fabulous, I’m always here if you need me :) (hugs)

    • @guava Maybe not specifically an ’how are you’, I read something about how scripted social interactions will get you a ’I’m fine and you?’ answer rather than an true one, I’ve been working on asking something different.

    • I agree completely, people react differently to the same approach. Here’s hoping people are getting a varied response to their posts.

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Guava posted an update Sometimes I’m not sure if I’ve thought something or said it aloud to myself… Am I the only one? Haha insanity coming early here! View

    Ah, @oliver, I am a very quirky being but sometimes I just enjoy knowing who else shares my quirks :P I’m much too curious

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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Sometimes I’m not sure if I’ve thought something or said it aloud to myself… Am I the only one? Haha insanity coming early here!

    Mood : Confused
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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Momo posted an update Does it make me a bad person to not participate in a religion that my parents partake in? I dont mind religion but I’m just not that into it as my parents are and they view me as a bad person […] View

    @startthejourney x

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Momo posted an update Does it make me a bad person to not participate in a religion that my parents partake in? I dont mind religion but I’m just not that into it as my parents are and they view me as a bad person […] View

    Nobody should ever feel guilty about religion. Religion is about peace and beliefs and if your views on things don’t quite match with a certain religion, or any at all, that’s beyond okay. Don’t force yourself because a set of people think you should follow the same beliefs, because that will only lead to you being confused about who you truly…[Read more]

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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Roll on Tuesday! :D been miserable but just can’t wait to see next week :)

    • I’m sure you will do absolutely amazingly @guava, hope you have a wonderful week, keep being extraordinary and lovely Guava, I’m always here if you ever need me :) (hugs)

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Miss Paranoia posted an update I’m so tired of this, tired of my toxic mother, tired of having no friends at school, tired of feeling ugly around everyone – I’m literally starting to think that death is the only […] View

    PLEASE do not feel like this is your only way out, @oomissdioroo there is plenty of help and an offer of friendship here with me. You are never ever alone, honey, and I promise you that. Please, if you need to seek help, seek it with myself or even @Oli as he is a wonderful person who can offer immense support, I wish I could say the same about…[Read more]

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    Guava joined the group Group logoI feel so alone. 1 year, 4 months ago

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Science, Nature, and Ganja posted an update Just continuing to try and maintain this positive outlook. It is a hard thing to do, to find your inner peace. I still haven’t found it, but I continue to work towards […] View

    @tooopenminded I’m very glad you’re keeping a positive outlook and trying your best to work towards that for your future. I’m always here to chat if you need someone to talk to, help or even just a normal chat without any personal issues coming into conversation :D It’s very hard to find peace with yourself or your life, but unfortunately we…[Read more]

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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    5:02am and my kitty comes in for some hugs. I’ve been feeling lonely lately, so this is nice :)

    Mood : Loved
    • Aw that’s so cute and adorable @guava, cats and kittens are so awesome hehe, please don’t feel lonely, you are a lovely and special angel who deserves to be surrounded by positivity and happiness, remember I’m always here if you ever need to vent or chat about anything, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: georgey posted an update it seems that if you’re a guy, people only reassure you when they know how bad you feel about how you look. nobody ever seems genuinely in to me anymore. a lot of the people i attract are […] View

    @geogzm ^

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: georgey posted an update it seems that if you’re a guy, people only reassure you when they know how bad you feel about how you look. nobody ever seems genuinely in to me anymore. a lot of the people i attract are […] View

    @georgey the only person who can make you feel the most attractive and loved is yourself :) It doesn’t matter what strangers think. Although, I wouldn’t particularly say you’re a hermit, nor that you’re unattractive… you said both of those things, which goes to show that sometimes your view on yourself makes you think everyone else feels the…[Read more]

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Trevor posted an update You know that feeling when you can’t open up to anyone…even the ”people you can open up to?” View

    @nightwake I’m here if you need a confidant, or someone just to simply chat to. I know things are rough sometimes but there’s always that one bit of silver lining. I’m always willing to chat x

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update I feel like Lemongrab right now. XD View

    I feel like Lemongrab most days :D just hope one of these days I’ll feel as sweet as peppermint butler :) sending you my pepperminty hugs x

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Guava posted an update I really apologise for disappearing- I actually fell pregnant in October and found out in November :) Unfortunately though, I miscarried two weeks ago- just before my first scan. I will get […] View

    @Oli thank you so much for these kind words- they’re a blessing in disguise! I’ve been super stressed all day and to come back to these kind words mean a lot :) thank you! Sending love and hugs your way x

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    Guava posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I really apologise for disappearing- I actually fell pregnant in October and found out in November :) Unfortunately though, I miscarried two weeks ago- just before my first scan. I will get round to replying to missed messages, I just really hope you guys can understand. Deepest apologies x

    Mood : Crushed
    • I’m so sorry that this happened to you @guava, do take as much time as you need Guava, remember we are all here to support and be there for you on Blah, message me anytime if you ever need to chat, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @Oli thank you so much for these kind words- they’re a blessing in disguise! I’ve been super stressed all day and to come back to these kind words mean a lot :) thank you! Sending love and hugs your way x

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Zac posted an update I wanna take my life away. View

    @Zac
    I really hope you’ve not done anything to act on your words. Please message me if you need some support in this time of need, I know it’s so clich√© but you must think- things DO get better, much better if you just power through the tough times. I really hope you weren’t serious about this. I’m really worried- even strangers care about…[Read more]

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    Guava posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: ladybug48 posted an update My mother and I don’t get along. If I keep things fake and cheery on the surface of our relationship then we are fine. But if anything, and I really do mean anything, goes deeper than […] View

    Hi, @ladybug48! If you don’t mind me saying, it’s obvious she’s very conscious of her own feelings, but not other people’s. I’m not sure how you’d get around that situation, but just think of what’s best for you and your child. There’s no saying what could happen in the future, but try your absolute best to think of the positives in that…[Read more]

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