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Whoot! May I pm you about something? @juniorfox
Your mother really should support and be there for you @gleb, don’t let her be horrible to you Gleb, you are a wonderful person who deserves love and care from his family, hopefully you will work things out with your sister, try to stay focused on your happiness Gleb, I’m sure when the time comes, you will find a place where you feel at ease,…[Read more]
As someone with an abusive mother, I know what you’re going through. I suggest respecting her and staying away from her as much as you can. Also chats here can be unpleasant since people are naturally that, people. If you ever want to talk, please feel free to message me. You can vent and I could likewise
How do you react when she acts like this? Does she act like that all the time? And is it only directed at you?
@gleb I’m so sorry for the bad experiences you had But keep in mind most people here really care about you!
When it comes to your sister I think it was a reasonable punishment. Wasn’t abusive. Now with your mother … I have to admit that’s horrible. I wish she would treat you better
I apologize this is late, as I do not get online very often. Have you ever tried reverse psychology with her? My family and I did this a lot with my grandfather (as he was abusive towards us quite a bit) and it worked for us about like… maybe 50% of the time. I don’t know your mother or how she thinks, my grandpa was a brute and an all around…[Read more]
It’s ok, @peiyopei. Don’t worry
We don’t have a lot of good times, to be fair. How does reverse psychology work? My mother is pessimistic, also a brute on her bad side and an energy vampire, to sum it up. Always plays the victim..
Ah I see. In this status you talked about the encounter with your mother and her threatening to throw trash in your room, instead of maybe fighting back and edging her on you could act as if you don’t care, shrug it off. It’s tough I know, it’s hard to ignore angry feelings (at least it is for me) but sometimes acting like you don’t care and…[Read more]
@peiyopei well I see 2 ways of doing this. Either ignoring her entirely, in which case she can get even more angry or just doing as she says. I suppose you’re referring to the second one.
@gleb thank you very much for being kind
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