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    Franci posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings […] View

    I’m supposed to pay her $6K for the childcare. I’m starting a job this upcoming week and am going to pay her $150 a month until I’ve paid it. Even with this though she still wants me to come to Texas. I really have no desire to live there. I have an abusive father that lives there and 2 brothers. One of them I do not have a relationship with…[Read more]

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    Franci posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    ello all, I need some advice. My mom and I have been close as long as I could remember. We were the best of friends through childhood and I was way closer to her than any of my siblings ever were. Problem is now we are becoming the worst of enemies. So to back it up a couple years, I had a child with a verbally abusive alcoholic who would punch…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • @fancifranci I think it’s fine to pay the debt in another way, maybe not now but in the future you’ll have another chance to make it up to her about the free childcare. Maybe you’ll move there in a few years. If you take the sense of owing her out of the situation, what do you want to do? What’s in Texas for your career and your child, and…[Read more]

    • First, I’m really glad that you got away from that bad relationship and happy you found someone (: I think you have a lot of stuff you’re going through and I want to say that if you’re happy with the person you’re seeing then you should do what you want to do and not what she wants you to do. In the end we only have the time we have on this…[Read more]

    • I’m supposed to pay her $6K for the childcare. I’m starting a job this upcoming week and am going to pay her $150 a month until I’ve paid it. Even with this though she still wants me to come to Texas. I really have no desire to live there. I have an abusive father that lives there and 2 brothers. One of them I do not have a relationship with…[Read more]

    • I would do what makes you, your son and your family happy in life @fancifranci, hopefully you can talk to your mother and come to an agreement about living arrangements, move to an area that will benefit you, make your child feel good and your relationship stronger, I’m sure you will make the right choices going forward, hope everything works out…[Read more]

    • Alright, so dont take this the wrong way, but if you say your mother is your “enabler,” then that is a serious issue you and you shouldnt be around it. But, first of all, congratulations on everything that you have overcome, and congratulations on your accomplishments and on meeting someone who you feel is good for you. Every single relationship…[Read more]

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    Franci posted an update 1 year, 2 months ago

    How do you fight the feeling that your life has no purpose anymore?…and the pain of living?

    Mood : Melancholy
    • @fancifranci you hang on to people who care about you and to all of those little victories or small happy moments from your life

    • You are worth it and you do matter @fancifranci, please be kind to yourself Franci, remember to focus on all the things that bring hope and happiness into your life, you are a lovely person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, you will find your purpose and passion, keep going forward, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do…[Read more]

    • everyone has a purpose in life, just a matter of finding it or deciding for yourself

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    Franci posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update in the group Sexuality, Gender, and Mental Health Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a ”slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started […] View

    @Humanist Hope thanks it means a lot because my mother’s words always get to me. I have over 60 credits in college and have a 4.0 even with a 1 year old and she still calls me a failure because I have a kid. But she’s also against abortion so I didn’t get one. But no matter what I can never be on her good side. I’m always a damn failure in her eyes.

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    Franci posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update in the group Sexuality, Gender, and Mental Health Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a ”slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started […] View

    I also don’t have any friends or anyone to stay with to rove myself from this situation so it’s really terrible. :/

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    Franci posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update in the group Sexuality, Gender, and Mental Health Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a ”slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started […] View

    And she keeps saying I’m going to have AIDS because he is super skinny but I definitely know it’s not from that. He’s been like that his whole life and also has diabetes but my mom won’t believe what I tell her.

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    Franci posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update in the group Sexuality, Gender, and Mental Health Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a ”slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started […] View

    UPDATE: so yeah my mom has been yelling at me more today about it. She calls me a “slut”, “cunt”, and “whore” in our arguments. If I tell her those words hurt me she just tells me “good, they need to hurt and are true.” She’said already threatened to kick me out of the house because of it and says that I put my bf over my child even…[Read more]

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    Franci posted an update in the group Group logoSexuality, Gender, and Mental Health 1 year, 2 months ago

    Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a “slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started dating a guy and on the 3rd date we had sex. My mom always pries into my business and just said that I’m “gonna die of aids at 45″ and that I’m a “stupid little slut”. She hates every single guy I ever…[Read more]

    Mood : Crushed
    • This is most definitely not okay.
      You need have a firm talk with her, or stage an intervention.

    • Your mother has no right being horrible to you @fancifranci, she should support and care for you no matter what Franci, you are such a beautiful and special person who deserves to feel loved by those closest to you, I would talk to her and let her know how much this hurts you, be as honest and as open as you can, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

    • UPDATE: so yeah my mom has been yelling at me more today about it. She calls me a “slut”, “cunt”, and “whore” in our arguments. If I tell her those words hurt me she just tells me “good, they need to hurt and are true.” She’said already threatened to kick me out of the house because of it and says that I put my bf over my child even…[Read more]

    • And she keeps saying I’m going to have AIDS because he is super skinny but I definitely know it’s not from that. He’s been like that his whole life and also has diabetes but my mom won’t believe what I tell her.

    • I also don’t have any friends or anyone to stay with to rove myself from this situation so it’s really terrible. :/

    • @fancifranci

      Hello, miss Franci.

      That practice is called “slut-shaming” and your mother has no business treating you in such a way. You have “bodily autonomy”, that is you have the first and ultimate say about what you do, or do not do with your body.

      It is not wrong or “dirty” for women to enjoy sex, and this sexist belief that it…[Read more]

    • @Humanist Hope thanks it means a lot because my mother’s words always get to me. I have over 60 credits in college and have a 4.0 even with a 1 year old and she still calls me a failure because I have a kid. But she’s also against abortion so I didn’t get one. But no matter what I can never be on her good side. I’m always a damn failure in her eyes.

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