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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update There are times when I feel compelled to spend a shit-ton of money on really sad books. View

    Hope you find positive and happy things to read @dorian0gray, remember to surround yourself with things that bring you joy and put a smile on your face Nivi, everyone deserves to feel wonderful, you do too, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update There are times when I feel compelled to spend a shit-ton of money on really sad books. View

    @dorian0gray might come out as ironic, but if you have any suggestions of those (or any books!) please say so. I’m looking forward to read more and different books ^-^
    And if you are feeling down feel free to message me, I’m always around here , ready to listen

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update Is it just me, or are a lot of the listeners downright rude? View

    @dorian0gray I think alot of people have nothing better to do than be rude sadly. So sorry you’ve been having bad experiences. Hopefully you find a good listener, best of luck

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update Is it just me, or are a lot of the listeners downright rude? View

    Don’t let anyone on the chat be horrible to you @dorian0gray, there are many more compassionate people in this community who are willing to help and support you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update If you’re lost and alone Or you’re sinking like a stone Carry onMay your past be the sound of your feet upon the groundCarry on View

    We have to learn from the past and move forward as the future is full of wonderful opportunities to make things better @dorian0gray, hope you are OK Nivi, I’m always here if you need to talk :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update If i didn’t think, I’d be much happier. View

    @dorian0gray our mind can be quite toxic that’s true :/

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update If i didn’t think, I’d be much happier. View

    Do try to stay positive and think about all the things that bring you hope, happiness and joy in life @dorian0gray, focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally Nivi, hold your head up high, keep going forward and never give up, know you are a fighter who will overcome, remember to believe in yourself and smile, you will make…[Read more]

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    Michael posted a new activity comment 10 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update I may have permanent facial scarring due to second degree chemical burns… why am I not bothered by this? View

    @dorian0gray Sometimes when we’re that confident or honestly not really bothered by thoughts or input from external people – we don’t really feel the need to be bothered. It’s possible it’s something like that. It’s also possible you don’t think it creates such an impact on your life and it could always be worse, maybe you feel lucky because…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update I may have permanent facial scarring due to second degree chemical burns… why am I not bothered by this? View

    You are beautiful inside and out @dorian0gray, embrace and truly love every part of yourself, smile and know you are wonderful Nivi, what matters in life is your happiness, keep going and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here for you, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update Being confessed to is akin to having cooties. View

    Please don’t feel uncomfortable @dorian0gray, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel awesome inside and out, be upbeat and things will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update Can anyone make sense of this? This is a particularly trying phase of my ”life”, and retaining control over the little things is important to me. My mom has a new job and is plenty busy. My […] View

    I would try to talk to your mother @dorian0gray, tell her that you know she means well but at the same time she should try to give you space to relax and focus on getting yourself to a better place, be honest with her and tell her how you are truly feeling, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my…[Read more]

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    Michael replied to the forum topic Answer a question, ask a question. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 year, 7 months ago

    @dorian0gray because that’s the sense people rely on at first. We have no way of knowing what a person is like at first and unless you can touch them, smell them or hear them before you see them then you’re […]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update “Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.”― Mark Twain View

    Please don’t feel down @dorian0gray, you are such a special and lovely person who deserves to feel wonderful and on top of the world, things will work out and everything will be OK, hold your head up high and don’t let anything stand in your way, you will beat all your struggles Nivi, show everyone how truly amazing you are, you are a warrior…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update random not so random surfing led me to some very enlightening subjects of philosophy. Only saying it over here to make it real-er than it is floating in my head. I’m not depressed. I’d give […] View

    Don’t let negativity get you down @dorian0gray, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel amazing and on top of the world, I want to see you smiling and living each day to the fullest Nivi, hold your head up high and be as upbeat as you can, stay positive and focus on all the good things that will happen, remember to be kind to yourself,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update things are grey. I’m not sad. I’m bored. I’m not lonely. I don’t have a social life. Is it weird to want to stop….living, without the consequences? My existence has so little meaning to me. I […] View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @dorian0gray, you are such an awesome person Nivi who deserves all the happiness and all the best that life has to offer, focus on the things that make you truly smile and that make you feel good, you are a survivor who never gives up and who will overcome, great things will happen to you and you will live a…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update ” She hears about Septimus’ suicide at the party and gradually comes to admire this stranger’s act, which she considers an effort to preserve the purity of his happiness.”THis is a line […] View

    Are you OK? @dorian0gray, I’m here if you need to talk Nivi, message me if you want to talk, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Nivi posted an update Finally managed to move on. At least that’s what I think this is. YEAH BABYYYView

    That’s so awesome @dorian0gray, hope everything works out for you, remember you are such a special and wonderful individual who deserves all the best in life, I’m sure things will continue to go amazingly for you, hold your head up high, be positive and never give up, you can do this, remember you are so strong and are never alone, I’ll always…[Read more]