What can I say about this wonderful, kind and sweet guy?, he has been truly amazing and lovely to me in the several years he has been here on BT, Hayden is such a fantastic human-being who goes out of his way to make me smile and feel less alone whenever I am feeling depressed, lonely and sad, he gives out inspirational, insightful and wise advice to me and anyone who needs it, he truly is a blessing to everyone here on BT, I am so touched to have this fantastic guy as a friend, thank you for being the bright and shining star that you are Hayden, the BT community is so lucky to have you here, I’ll always love and care about you and so will everyone on BT, you are fabulous in every single way Hayden :) <3 (hugs)

This dude. Is a flippin’ champ, ladies and gentlemen. In case y’all didn’t know, Hayden has dealt and is dealing with some pretty major mental health issues, and it’s seriously sensational to see him facing it all with as much honesty and bravery as he can. As someone who often has difficulty openly discussing personal matters, it’s really great to see someone talking about their struggles in an intelligent, brutally honest way, without pulling any punches or whining too much.

Oh, and did I mention the replies? Because Hayden has that shit DOWN. I haven’t seen anyone else on Blah whose advice is so consistently thoughtful & considerate. You can tell he really thinks about people’s problems and tries to understand how best to advise or comfort them. He’s more than earned those little golden wings around his profile pic. Keep on rocking and rolling, Hayden! m/