I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make and although I keep feeling the waves of guilt and regret, I know that it was time. He left this earth peacefully, and I am left distraught at the […] View
In reply to: Hayden posted an update I had to say goodbye to my best friend today. Our dog who has been in congestive heart failure was euthanized in the comfort of his home today. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update Making an effort to be more active here. I will try to check in periodically. Although there aren’t many people around nowadays, I’m glad to see the spam isn’t around like it was years […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update There have been some positives, though!My identity is something that I’ve always struggled with. I consider myself gender-fluid nowadays. Any and all pronouns welcome. I’m more […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been nearly 3 years, guys! Holy hell!My last post hit me like a wall of bricks when I went to see what I’d last vented about. My father had been caught cheating on my mother. That […] View
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In reply to: Angel posted an update It looks like the tagging function is gone now?Well, I was just popping my head in here to check on things and wanted to say thank you to all of the people who have offered me […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update My father has been cheating on my mom. He admitted to it yesterday. The day before, she caught him texting a woman. He denied it, but she saw it…It isn’t just one. It’s several. He […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update It’s been awhile, but I wanted to check in. Doesn’t seem that much has changed around here, which comes as a major disappointment, but not necessarily a shock.Anyway, I think I need to […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update Hi, all.Remember to love yourself today. View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update I wish it wasn’t such a common occurrence for me to want to just give up. View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update What the … *fuck* … is happening here? This place is just disgusting now. I’m so disappointed. Once a beautiful community, now a target for perverts and trolls who take advantage of those […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update There was a shooting last night, barely ten seconds down the road from where I work. My girlfriend was also working at the time, another place right down the road.Two people were killed. […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update I’m a little bit anxious today. I typically am on Saturdays, thanks to work. But I had a good day yesterday and then a really great night, so I’m going to do my best to keep a hopeful […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update Did plenty of Autumn & Halloween shopping today with my girlfriend. Next will be gathering pumpkins and putting together the decorations. View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update Feeling festive today! It might not officially be Autumn on the calendar yet, but the cooler weather has rolled in here and Halloween is right around the corner. View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update For once in quite awhile, I can say with truth and ease that I am okay. Today was okay.Perhaps it’s just for today. Perhaps it’ll last. Who knows? All that matters to me right now is […] View
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In reply to: Cecelia posted an update my friends sure are betraying me deeper and deepr meanwhile my family are keeping up their drama and i feel totally hooked on wasting my money on online shopping and my writings have not […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update And!!! My girlfriend and I are coming up on 2 years together in October! <3 I cannot describe how absolutely thrilled that makes me, looking back at the post I made about us first getting […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update I did that thing that I tend to do every few months and decided to stalk my own profile. It’s a helpful pillar for me whenever I feel stuck and hopeless. My own page works as a motivator, […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update Scrolled through 24 hours worth of posts and there’s a single update from a genuine human being.I am deeply sorry from the bottom of my heart to the new members that come around in hopes […] View
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In reply to: Hayden posted an update I also see that the moderation regarding the spam hasn’t changed in the slightest since the three months I’ve been absent. It was certainly a big part in why I disappeared again in the […] View
Hi there! My name is Hayden. I joined BlahTherapy in 2014 after venting to someone about something that today seems so miniscule. Regardless, I received great advice and support from this complete stranger, and I realized I wanted to return that support to others.
I've used BlahTherapy over the years for many issues. This site and the amazing, supportive people on it has helped me get through so many obstacles in life, but it's also helped celebrate the good times as well.
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