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    Cecelia posted an update 1 hour, 56 minutes ago

    I guess most people I know all got a memo saying to be utter assholes to me near my birthday. But you know what? I don’t care. I am going to keep being excited and spend time with my close relatives and my cat, listening to music and keeping busy. You can’t get to me, sorry!

    • Don’t let anyone bring you down or be horrible to you especially on such a special day like your birthday @invincible, do have a wonderful day surrounded by love and with all the things, people and animals that bring a smile to your face sweetie, you will be OK Cecelia, hold your head up high and keep being the beautiful angel that you are hun,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 day, 2 hours ago

    Crying feels great afterwards. I wish I would do it more often TBH lol plus it makes my eyes tired, which they almost never are!

    Hope everyone is having a good weekend – you deserve it

    • Do get your thoughts and feelings out in a good way @invincible, I don’t want to see you upset sweetie, you are a special, brilliant and beautiful angel who deserves true happiness and all the love that the world has to offer, keep smiling and never give up Cecelia, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

    • Do have a happy birthday filled with happiness and so many lovely moments @invincible, I want to see you smiling on your special day and being filled with joy, keep going sweetie and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • thanks so much Oli!!!!!!

    • I hope you have a fantastic birthday Cecilia!! I wish you all the happiness and that your surrounded by your loved ones. Hugs!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    Wow … 3 days until my birthday

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 8 hours ago

    It’s not encouraging or motivating when all you do is point out the negative.

    • Those around you should treat you with kindness, respect and dignity @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly incredible and being told positive, upbeat things so you can better yourself in a good way sweetie, surround yourself with happiness and know you are loved, appreciated and cared for Cecelia, the BT community will always be here for…[Read more]

    • I strongly agree with your statement. To encourage somebody else to do something that they’ve proposed to achieve, we must show them our support and positivity. Try to show this attitude to those who are negative, this way they might learn from you and star being more positive. You can lead the change :)

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 23 hours ago

    I am not going ok and I am starting to not even pretend that I am.
    Hopefully this will go away soon, because I don’t like feeling like this, so I am holding on to hope! Which is good.

    • Pretending to be ok 24/7 is one of the most exhausting things that anyone can do. You don’t have to pretend Cecilia, if you don’t feel ok it’s perfectly fine. It’s good to read that you’re holding on to hope! As you said, this feeling will go away and you’ll feel better again. Don’t give up and keep fighting!

    • It’s good to see you hopeful and trying to stay upbeat @invincible, don’t let your struggles get you down Cecelia, you are such a beautiful, incredible and lovely angel who will overcome all her struggles and many more brighter days will be ahead, believe in yourself sweetie and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 days, 22 hours ago

    I can’t help but feel upset when I see my friend who I’ve known for a while, who was so similar to me and growing to be mature – just completely throw everything away for a severely questionable life. It’s not fun watching people go downhill and now I have like no solid friendship that I can count on since I’ve cut off a lot of toxic people.…[Read more]

    • It’s frustrating to see how people you love makes questionable decisions that might not end very well for them. Sometimes you can not help them, since they will not listen either wanting your help. But in the end, when they find themselves in the bottom, they finally see by themselves how bad things were going and start to rethink all the bad…[Read more]

    • You are such a beautiful angel who deserves good people in her life @invincible, I would try to stick by your friend if you can, let them know you are there to support them so they can make positive changes and wise choices so they will better themselves Cecelia, give your friend as much insightful advice as you can, it’s up to them to listen and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 5 days ago

    I’m so alone in this world, nobody cares about me, I’m always going to be this lost, pathetic and sad failure, it doesn’t get better for Oli, he is forever stuck in this hole of depression and loneliness, I want to give up and stop bothering, every day is a struggle to find the reasons to continue with my awful existence, seriously I would be…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, you are beyond valuable and it really shows on this website. You are incredibly kind, helpful and we are always here for you- we will never leave you or stop caring because you are special to all of us here on blahtherapy. Things will get better because you are an inspiring, wonderful human being.

    • We all believe in you Oli, you are capable of going through this. Remember all the beautiful words that you give us every day, because you too deserve them, all of them and even more. Right now you might feel weak and hopeless, but we are here to give you the support and streght you need. Do not give up, you can with this!!

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    Oli posted an update 6 days, 1 hour ago

    I just want to give up, I have no one in this world, I’m so sick of trying, everyone leaves or abandons me eventually, depression and loneliness are the only things I have in this numb ‘life’ and ‘existence’, I’m sorry everyone, all of my statuses are so negative and bleak, nothing will ever change or get better for me, it was my destiny to…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • Change seldom comes from the outside world. A vast majority of the time, it comes from within. You’ve got to try and be the change that you want to see in your life. No one is promising you it will be easy, no one is promising you a rose garden; But once you accomplish it, you will see your life take a turn for the better.

    • There are periods of time in our lives when everythings seems surrounded by darkness and despair, and we can’t see any way out of it. It’s going to be hard, but nothing lasts forever, and these hard times you’re going through will end too. @Oli you are a wonderful human being, full of kindness, compassion and empathy. You’ve helped so, so many…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    It just would be nice if you had faith in me and trusted my skill.
    I have enough confidence to know I’m not going to mess up.

    • Do what makes you happy and know you will achieve all your hopes, dreams, goals and aspirations @invincible, I believe in you Cecelia and so do many others sweetie, do have faith in yourself too and believe in yourself hun, so many people are proud of you Cecelia, the BT community is rooting for you and so am I, anyone who doubts your skills and…[Read more]

    • Cecelia, Sometimes when we are self conscious, or insecure in ourselves, we project it onto others. Have you tried a face to face, sit down talk with this person? They may very well just be projecting. I wouldn’t have accepted friendship from you if I didn’t think you were capable of greatness. Take a step back, evaluate, adjust, and succeed,…[Read more]

    • Marta replied 1 week ago

      It can be very frustrating when other people don’t have faith in you, but you’ve pointed out the important thing in the matter: you trust in yourself and know you are capable of achieving your goals. Trust your own strenght Cecilia, because if you believe in yourself, you’ll achieve anything you aim for. You are capable of anything!

    • thank you all so much, this really means a lot – really!

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    you must put out the energy you wish to receive

    • You will find the energy to do amazing things @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly wonderful and focusing on all the things that bring hope, happiness and joy into your life Cecelia, make all your dreams come true and never give up sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

    • You must have the energy that you wish to receive.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    Doing okay. I hope things get better, though.

    Hope everyone is doing well – have a fantastic week!

    • Glad to see things are going well for you @invincible, I want to see you truly smiling and feeling wonderful Cecelia, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, incredible and special angel that you are sweetie, stay positive hun and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Nice to read that things are doing okay for you @invincible. I bet everything will get better soon, and you can always reach us here if you need anything. Have a fantastic week you too!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    Had a great day.
    Happy Mother’s Day ♥

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Glad you had a wonderful day @invincible, keep smiling and always be the beautiful, special and incredible angel that you are Cecelia, remember you are a bright ray of sunshine inside and out sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    Trauma and mental illness is not something to make you look ”cool” or ”cooler” than other people. I wish my friend would stop trying to ’one up’ me with trauma. It’s not funny or amusing at all. I personally would never do that to anyone. Maybe if I was 7 years old …

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      Your friend really should support you instead of trying to make it a competition of who has it worse @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by compassion, love and empathy Cecelia, please know you will win all your battles and come out so much stronger sweetie, you are a survivor who never gives up, believe in yourself and keep…[Read more]

    • Seems like your friend does not really understand how hard mental illnesses are. Maybe explaining them how does it feel and the suffering you go through, they can get to empathize with you. Most of these attitudes come from ignorance, not malice.

    • Very true Marta.

    • Sounds like your friend is a little competitive and dealing with her own hardships as well. Maybe confront her about how it makes you feel when she puts your feelings on the back burner and makes hers the main priority. Obviously both are important, but there comes a time when a friend just needs to be there to listen. A little give and take.…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    I love it when it is windy and stormy outside.
    Though not a fan of 100 degrees F.

    • Hope the weather is good where you live @invincible, do take care of yourself and have a fantastic day sweetie, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent about anything Cecelia, inbox me anytime hun, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    Been having bad luck lately. But been trying to organize and construct numerous plans to help get through some stuff.

    • Things will work out for you and everything will be OK @invincible, focus on getting all your plans in order sweetie, you will make fantastic things happen Cecelia, I want to see you truly happy hun and making each day incredible, make all your dreams come true and never give up Cecelia, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

    • Once in a while we need time to stop and organize everything, out and inside our minds. Take all the time you need, and through hard work and positivity, your plans and organization will work @invincible. Stay strong and keep going!!

    • ♥ thank you so very much!

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