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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: KornyKid posted an update today i reported my rapist to the police. i dont know how to feel View

    That takes alot of strength and guts. I’m super proud of you for doing that.
    I’m sure the police will do everything to stop them, you will be safer now they know.

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    mintcat posted an update 7 years ago

    So it turns out I have borderline personality disorder, am full on transgender and managed to piss my boss off.
    What an amazing week it has been.

    Mood : Confused
    • Oli replied 7 years ago

      Please don’t let your struggles get you down @cocoon, you are such a fabulous person who deserves happiness in life, do your best to hold your head up high and know the days, months and years ahead will be filled with brightness and opportunity for you, believe in yourself and be proud of who you are, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime…[Read more]

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    mintcat posted an update 7 years ago

    do you ever feel like a stranger to yourself?
    I am not enjoying things again. I feel like I don’t know who I am because I don’t know what I actually like anymore, anything I try seems to be pointless because it’s not bringing my happiness.

    Mood : Apathetic
    • I understand exactly how you feel but there will be a day where everything will make sense and you will just have a natural glee about yourself. You will soon forget that it was impossible to feel how you’re feeling now. Just give it a bit more time. If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me.

    • Oli replied 7 years ago

      Do your best to stay positive and keep going @cocoon, you will find yourself and the things that make you happy, everyone deserves hope in life, you do too, everything will fall into place and you will make all your dreams come true, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to…[Read more]

    • @cocoon so many times :( , you’re not alone.
      But you have lovely people here who will give you company and help you, so if you ever need help we’re here

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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I can’t tell if my friends like me or not. I mean they say they do but then don’t talk to me outside of seeing me in person and either don’t respond to my texts or take a really long time […] View

    I do have anxiety. And it probably is. But all I can see is everyone with close friendships and me just here being tollerated out of polietness. They’ll leave me soon enough. I just know it. Just like before.

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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I can’t tell if my friends like me or not. I mean they say they do but then don’t talk to me outside of seeing me in person and either don’t respond to my texts or take a really long time […] View

    thanks. You’re a really amazing person who deserves all the best as well.

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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: Rover posted an update I feel fucking hollow, I don’t know how to stop it View

    feeling that way is the worst! it’s only temporary. Keep that in mind. You’ll be okay. You just have to ride it out, and you’ll be stronger for it.

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years ago

    I can’t tell if my friends like me or not. I mean they say they do but then don’t talk to me outside of seeing me in person and either don’t respond to my texts or take a really long time doing so. I’m not sure what to make of it.

    Mood : Confused
    • Oli replied 8 years ago

      Everyone deserves compassionate and good friends around them, you do too @cocoon, try to stay positive and keep smiling, your friends really should contact you and talk to you, hopefully they will, you deserve all the best, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • thanks. You’re a really amazing person who deserves all the best as well.

    • I do have anxiety. And it probably is. But all I can see is everyone with close friendships and me just here being tollerated out of polietness. They’ll leave me soon enough. I just know it. Just like before.

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    I’m so bored of feeling absolutly nothing.

    Mood : Bored
    • Oli replied 8 years ago

      Be positive, upbeat and show the world that you are full of brightness and hope @cocoon, I want to see you smiling and being the fantastic angel that you are, things will be OK, remember you are a warrior who never gives up, show everyone how truly brilliant you are, you will make it, always believe in yourself, feel free to message me anytime if…[Read more]

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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I just got home from uni. And now I’ve been reminded why I have no confidence and can’t stand up to people. Thanks mum. View

    thanks for the advice, but she’s unreasonable. She wont talk about anything once the ‘conversation’ has passed. I would have tried to talk more with her about it but she was on the verge of yelling and she wasn’t going to actually tell me what I wanted to know or listen to my side of things. That’s just how she is. Don’t worry about it, I…[Read more]

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years, 4 months ago

    I just got home from uni. And now I’ve been reminded why I have no confidence and can’t stand up to people. Thanks mum.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Don’t let your mother be horrible to you @cocoon, she should treat you with love, care, respect and dignity, I would try to talk to her about things, get her to see things from your point of view, hopefully she will listen to you, I want to see you being given support by those closest to you, I’m sure things will be OK, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

    • thanks for the advice, but she’s unreasonable. She wont talk about anything once the ‘conversation’ has passed. I would have tried to talk more with her about it but she was on the verge of yelling and she wasn’t going to actually tell me what I wanted to know or listen to my side of things. That’s just how she is. Don’t worry about it, I…[Read more]

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years, 4 months ago

    I feel you guys need an update. I’m pretty good, I’ve managed to at least start forming friendships and my anxiety has been steadily going. I don’t panic as much anymore and I’m not worried when people don’t reply. Never thought I get this far in just 3 months! All in all things have been pretty good! that being said. Screw Dan and his…[Read more]

    Mood : Accomplished
    • @cocoon
      3 months can really make a difference!
      I’m glad to hear you’ve been turning your life around, and that things are working out now as a result. :)

    • That’s fantastic news! Way to go! ^^

    • Glad to see things are going well for you @cocoon, hope they continue going fantastically, you can do it, keep going and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @cocoon I’m so proud of you <3 and you're absolutly right! things do get better with improvment ,self love, and time. And I'm very very proud of you that you are being able to stay positive and moving forward

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    I can’t find any weird people at my university. Weirdos and strange people are the only people I can really be friends with. Freshers week is nearly over and I’m alone.

    Mood : Pessimistic
    • I’m sure you will find wonderful people who will love to be your friend @cocoon, everyone deserves supportive and nice people around them, you do too, be positive and smile, everything will work out, I wish you all the best at university, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    mintcat posted an update 8 years, 7 months ago

    I keep feeling I’m not doing enough with my life, we’ve only got a limited time alive and I’m wasting it on fanfic and projects that’ll never be finished, and what if I don’t enjoy the job I get in the future, what if I can’t pursue something else because I don’t have the qualifications? Our lives are so small and futile, what’s the point…[Read more]

    Mood : Pessimistic
    • You’ll get a great job that will make you happy @cocoon, do your best to be positive and have a bright outlook on life, everything will work out and things will go amazingly, you can do it, keep going and don’t give up, you will beat all your struggles, you are a survivor who will overcome, there is always hope, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]

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    mintcat posted a new activity comment 8 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: JMbility posted an update New here :) View

    Welcome

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    mintcat replied to the forum topic Steven Universe! in the group Group logoFandom Geeks 8 years, 8 months ago

    SU is my fav cartoon right now! square and mums are amazing! oh who am I kidding? they’re all amazing!
    plus the songs are great!

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